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[–] [email protected] 62 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Allow me to share a small personal story. An anecdote, as it is often called.

I was home for ten years with my children. I changed diapers, took care of meals and chores, and when it was time for it, I took my children to pre-school.

Being a stay at home father, being present for my children, was trampled on by teachers and the mothers of other children. It was disrespectful, demeaning. I was unwelcomed and unwanted. Some even tried to create a narrative that I was a danger to the children.

Women were more vitriolic and systematic in their gender affirmation than men.

That is extremely sad and telling.

The guy in the post is an idiot and being told to shut up and told off, followed by perhaps a couple of punches to the teeth would be enough to get him to stay quiet.

Women would not be so easy to handle.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I am of the belief that a woman would respond similarly to a couple punches to the teeth. ,Fuck around and find out. I'm not enforcing gender roles out here.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

The societal reaction though would be very different and in favour of the woman. For an example a few months ago some English tourist was in Sydney, got annoyed at some guy waving a flag around her, sucker punched the guy in the head from behind, and received one punch back plus a free broken jaw as her prize.

Now check out how it was reported - it's all about how bad it was for the man to punch a woman and the pretty important fact of her assaulting the man before getting said punch is mentioned once in passing (and it being a punch from behind with the man not aware is not mentioned at all, which is relevant because this is normally highlighted as a 'coward punch' in Australian media).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

I fully agree with you, I'm just starting my personal belief and the course of action I would likely take if the person was being exceptionally dim.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago

You see that happen?

If it was a man doing it, it would be called assault. Another woman would be called out for not being proper and, again, assault.

Hard to uproot these bad actors.