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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago (2 children)

This is why you don't plan your life around a job. Plan your job around your life.

[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That sounds like a very privileged mindset to me. Most of us don't have the resources to have that luxury.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Care to explain why you would think only the privileged are the ones who tend not to put the cart before the horse?

Edit: apologies, I skimmed read and was half asleep when I read the post. I did not realise that the person already signed the contract but was suddenly thrown under the bus.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

The mere fact that you think it's a choice for most people is why I think that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

If you're as far along as the guy in OP then you're being irresponsible to not be looking for a place to live. Dude got the job and had it pulled from him, this would get him unemployment in California at least (I should know - I got unemployment in California in basically this scenario)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

As someone mentioned already, wait until actually signing the contract before moving. It is not "privileged" not to put the cart before the horse.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

"signing the contract" doesn't happen at most places, an offer is more than enough to constitute reasonable cause to start preparing to move for a job

If you wait to start moving your gonna not have a place to live with that new job, shit takes time

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Very clearly states that he already signed it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I finally made it to a place in life where I'd rather be where I am and homeless than leave for some job