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I volunteer at a food bank, and the company that sends us our food decides what we get. Last Tuesday they sent so much produce we could not fit it all into fridges. We were trying to give away cases of the food on Wednesday, but people were turning it down because they had no place to store a case of tomatoes, or cauliflower. This was what we had left after last Wednesday's morning give away. Not pictured the 5000lbs of watermelons, the 2500lbs of onions (those will last a lot longer).

The company that supplies us wants to move from sending shipments every other week, to once a month. This would cause even more no produce loss.

It is so frustrating to have all this food for it to go bad. Even if we got the same volume of produce, but there was variation in what it is we could give it away easier.

Edit: I posted this in a comment.

Because of bureaucracy we have to request this. If it is found out we are giving away the food to unapproved recipients we can lose all of our funding. If we give to unapproved recipients and they in turn give us prepared food to give out, that is okay.

Word got out that we were loading up my pickup with food and taking it to the homeless camps. I did get a number of them to start coming to the bank to get food. But it was easier when I could take stuff to them.

We are not allowed to simply give it out to anyone. This is not like a church pantry where all of the food is donated by the community and's parishioners. There is government funding, as well as private businesses, which I am guessing get their money back from the government for funding this. If we could simply give it to anyone we would not be in this situation.

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[–] [email protected] 109 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Seldom have I seen a better example of why universal basic income is so preferable to food banks.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

Please explain how that would solve the issue of people not wanting to eat their vegetables.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

People shouldn't downvote you, it's an educational experience.

Edit: Nah, fuck this guy.

People should be able to buy what they need, not be at the whims of what a capitalist entity dumps in a food bank.

Not everyone has the ability to store, prepare or even cook vegetables. Due to lack of utensils, food storage or even something to heat with. For many, vegetables would just be a liability and force you to choose between other necessities as you battle limited carrying capacity.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

the downvotes are part of the education

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 weeks ago

You know, you're right.

Especially after the guy doubled and tripled down on his stupid comments.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

Something something beggars can't be choosers.

Cooking cauliflower isn't rocket science. All you need is a pot and some water, and maybe a bit of salt. You can even eat it with your hands if you lack utensils. It's also good raw with some ranch dressing. You're making it sound a lot more complicated than it really is.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 weeks ago (14 children)

It's not cooking some cauliflower, it's cooking a shit ton of cauliflower. And storing it before and after cooking. Some places you only buy a couple days worth of food because you have a tiny place. And that's actually housed people, if you're unhoused you can't store shit.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago

Less than a block from the food bank is an old motel that has been turned into apartments. But they have no kitchens. The place is so old most of the rooms do not have microwaves. A lot of our "customers" live there.

I worked in the movie industry for a couple years, and I lived in motel rooms with microwaves. I hardly cooked anything because it was a pain in the ass.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Sounds like you've had a nice, pampered life, princess.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Sounds like you just don't want to eat your veggies, princess.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

I like making stew. Great way to make something tasty with the veggies you have that are getting ready to go bad. In my apartment. Where I have a stove, a refrigerator, and a place to hang out while I cook. Being homeless (I'm no stranger), you gonna carry a fucking head if cabbage in your backpack? Fuck no. Protein, sugar, can't expire, doesn't need heat to eat it. That's what you want. You suck, bro. Keep thinking these bums are just too snobby for the food we're all so considerate to give away. Hey, maybe we can skip the part where they carry rotting veggies in their backpack in 100 degree whether, and just feed them compost? You're moralizing the actions of victims of systemic abuse while your morality ain't fucking nothin to snuff at. Justify anything you believe. I'll fucking wait.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

You've just added like 10kg of carrying requirements to someone who likely has all their worldly possessions on their back.

And that's not even counting being forced to use gas for food instead of saving it for warmth on a freezing cold night.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Wow you didn't use a single brain cell considering that from any other perspective than your own with that comment.

Just wanted to confirm that, cause that is the vibe you seem to have purposely put out there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I might be privileged enough to be able to afford to buy whatever food I want at the moment, but you can bet your ass that if I was broke and forced to go to the food bank, I'd be stoked AF to get a whole box of cauliflower for free, and I'd be eating it for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

You'd be lucky to even have a gas stove, let alone a tent and blanket to sleep in.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Give me some ranch dressing and I'll eat a whole head of cauliflower raw. And the rest I'll use to throw at your idiot visage.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You suck so bad. Read. Feel it. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner on cauliflower and ranch? That's fucking cute. Go experience loss, and maybe you can play with the adults in the room.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Sure, if I was starving and there's nothing else available, why not? Cauliflower has a lot of vitamins, certainly not the worst thing you could eat. Snubbing your nose at that sounds like privilege to me.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago

Slime. Mold. Shit that is toxic. It's a storage issue. How do you not understand this? You take groceries home, right? You don't say, let's stop by a fucking roller rink before we throw our shit in the freezer. Might as well ask them to eat roadkill. It's protein, right? You gonna tell your daughter, "buck up. I just saw an armadillo on Grand. Why the fuck you whining?"

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

i cast ten thousand watermelons falling on top of you

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Oh no, a fruity mass driver!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

Except for the fact that a lot of these people aren't capable of managing money.

They are on the street because they have serious issues

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Turns out that money is one of those things that the less you have of it, the harder it is to manage.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

It is also a bit tricky when you can't read or write and are struggling with schizophrenia, bipolar and other disruptive issues. And that is before you take in account all of the drug and alcohol addiction.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Indeed.

Each of the issues you described is mitigated - if not cured - by steady income. And each is greatly exacerbated by a lack of such income.

What is really important is that the family and friends of the people struggling with these conditions aren't also impoverished. The outcomes of each these conditions are vastly improved when the sufferer's caregivers have the time and resources to attend to them.

UBI benefits everyone involved.

For the cases where the individual is not capable of managing their own money, it is still better for their caregiver to receive and manage their money on their behalf than to periodically send them crates of cauliflower and tomatoes.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago

And who's supporting them?

Clearly not you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah, but the crux of it would probably lie in the fact that they've never had money to manage. From what I've seen, everyone mismanages their money. If we had basic income, I would guess 90%+ would eventually get their shit together. 10 people needing food because they can't manage money is better than 100 people needing food because they don't have money.

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