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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 day ago (4 children)

When people call sex "breeding".

It sounds like some puritanical shit where they believe that sex is only for procreation.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I only use "breeding" to refer disparagingly to the actions of those who believe that having kids is mandatory or, at least, unavoidable.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 hours ago

That's how I thought it was used.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I'd say that is more about a kink than anything remotely religious

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

I'm not typically one to kink shame, but that's just creepy.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I uh... I'm not sure what your source is, but for mine 'breeding' is anything but "only for procreation"

E: in case it isn't painfully obvious, I am le gay, so that may factor into your source woes :p

[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago

that made sense, i was thinking breeding is a gay term, and often used gay porn alot, for young/older trope, which another cringe thing.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It kinda depends on context.

A gay guy? Hedonistic, in the best way.

An incel? Puritanical, in the worst way.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Apparently it's urban slang.

Sounds like some misogynistic nonsense to me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It is, maybe, something very particular as I am not familiar with that term used through "Puritanical thingy". Sorry, I am located in Europe and lack of knowledge about Puritans 😬 [ANSWER RECEIVED]

[–] [email protected] 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

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Did you look them up? That's basically what most of the mainstream US churches are based off of.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago

I had to as I am not (like veeeerrry far away) familiar at all with any mainstream US churches phrases. At least, I have learnt something new