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How to go about teaching my son about puberty/bodily changes? (lemmy.world)

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I’m a 27 year old single mom with a 12 year old son (Yes I had him at 15). Ever since I left my abusive relationship with his father, he hasn’t had a male figure around, and I haven’t really had a full on discussion about him about puberty or hygiene/shaving down there. I think he’d probably be most comfortable discussing these things with me even as his mom compared to his grandfather or my brother/his uncle, just because of how much closer we are. I’ve done some research online about male puberty, hormones, and hygiene for uncircumcised boys, but how do I approach having this conversation with him without making him uncomfortable and what else should I talk to him about?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well I think it’s gonna be awkward no matter what, but you’ll have to push through regardless. (If you approach with love, you’ll do fine). Probably a good time to discuss what’s also happening to girls and begin the rolling conversation about developing healthy and consensual relationships with love interests.

And deodorant. Just because he can’t smell it or doesn’t mind, everyone else can. Teens are stinky! Good luck!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Don’t worry I’ve already taken care of the deodorant part 😂