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Paraphrased:

The narcissist’s smirk is a subtle but telling expression that occurs when a narcissist experiences pleasure from manipulating or deceiving someone.

For narcissists, the smirk usually reflects contempt, which is a deep-seated disdain or lack of respect towards others. For narcissists contempt is tied to their belief in their own superiority. They view others who do not serve their needs as worthless or beneath them, showing a complete disregard for how their actions impact those around them.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Nah. They're reminding people that nuance exists and that reading the actions of others in absolutes can lead to severe mistakes in the way we engage with the world. There is always more that we dont know than there is that we do, and, when it comes to people, forgetting that can make it easy to mistreat others over simple and preventable (with the appropriate amount of communication ofc) misunderstandings. It's a valid and important point to remember imo

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

narcissism isn't a gradient, you either are and display the behavior, or you are not and do not.

There are no 'semi-narcissists'

Is there room for nuance in what TYPE of narcissist they are? Sure, I'll grant.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (2 children)

a lifetime of dealing with narcissists

Autism is a spectrum as swell but again, there is no such thing as a half autist

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I don't think you know what "spectrum" means

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 hours ago

I don't think you think.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

There's a conceivable reality where you have a spectrum of autistic traits, but whether someone is autistic is a strict binary. Imagine a lamp that can have any color, but that is either turned on or off. This would be quite funky, because there'd have to be some sort of mechanism that causes strict grouping - something you see in psychology maybe sometimes in sequence learning research and some types of reasoning research, but otherwise is quite rare.

However, this is obviously not reality.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

That's a bad example. It would be like a lamp with a dimmer switch, and at some point you have to decide how bright the lamp has to be for it to count as "on". The lamp can have different colors too, but there is an overall brightness that can be measured.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

That's a more realistic analogy, but my point here isn't that autism is not a multidimensional and continuously distributed trait. My point is only that a spectrum and dichotomized group membership are technically conceivable, even if substantively absurd.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Yeah that's valid, makes sense

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

There's people with more pronounced autistic traits and those with less pronounced ones. There isn't half an autist, but there can be someone whose autistic traits' intensities are near the middle of those of a person who clearly is autistic and those of a person who clearly isn't.

The categorical nature of diagnoses does not reflect the underlying phenomena, it reflects arguments about healthcare resource allocation. The actual phenomena are more nuanced

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Should we trust someone called Angry_Autist on how black and white we should treat the human psyche? Probably not.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

The phrase you are being nudged towards is "false positive".