Please try to be as active as you can. Don't just come here, fap and then leave. Try to contribute and interact with the communities here. Because it's not the numbers that will drive growth for Lemmy but the engagement. Even if you don't want to contribute, you can always comment and interact by downvoting or upvoting posts.
We need to work together to ensure the best success we possibly can for Lemmy and the wider Fediverse.
Fuck Reddit, let's all try to move away from that absolute shitshow.
On another note: If you can't view the Lemmy NSFW
communities, check out the other locally pinned post for some potential communities you could join.
Spread the Word about Lemmy NSFW if you can, as many instances don't like hosting NSFW content.
Build your own Community. No fetish is too niche, try creating your own communities to help grow Lemmy NSFW further! (Make sure your community follows all instance-wide rules, though!).
Finally, a NSFW instance! Is this the first one or have I just been missing them somehow?
I think most people don't want to deal with having to moderate to remove CP, basically. It's a big risk for small timers. Once you get to a certain size, plausible deniability becomes a more functional excuse. Lemmy instances are pretty damn small (at least at the moment), so you can see why peeps want to avoid problems.
There are some that allow it, but this (or maybe federotica.com) was the first dedicated instance. There's also booty.world which is nfsw but very focused on one area.
Some more nsfw: