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[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago (3 children)

On one hand arguing that a 15 yo isn't old enough to realise the consequences of spreading AI nudes of a real girl.

On the other hand arguing that 15 yo's are totes old and responsible enough to undergo life changing surgery/procedures.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

Kids are never offered "life changing surgeries". This doesn't happen. Evidence very much suggests being trans is a genuine neurological condition that we are born with.

Our brains match our gender.

Brains are not necessarily binary.

We understand some of the causes.

"Risk" of being born trans seems to be partly genetic.

Our identities are stable.

The American Academy of Pediatrics is on our side.

Adults don't regret surgery. And another study on the same.

Additionally, getting a diagnosis is a long process (and it's not guaranteed that you'll get one), and then actually getting treatment takes even more time (also not guaranteed).

EDIT: I can't read what the transphobe is saying anymore as they have rightly been banned from the server I'm on. Detransitioning is uncommon, but of course perfectly valid. Typically people detransition because of transphobia or for economic reasons. Have some additional links:

Rates of detransition are low, and they are only very rarely permanent and caused by true regret.

GenderGP links multiple studies saying essentially the same thing.

This one mentions detransition rates of 13%, but again mostly to escape stigma.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Hence the /procedures. 😉

Weird how you left out the links of studies, reports of people that actually do regret it. I mean should we just ignore those people?

If you want kids to be able to make these decisions, you will have to inform them. Properly. Not just paint them a nice picture. That's what you're currently doing. Not informing them and painting nice pink pictures.

It is not sunshine and rainbows for everyone. There are trans people who regret it. Ignoring that fact is being dishonest with yourself and the transcommunity.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

The rate of regret for transition is massively lower than almost any other medical intervention. Why do you care so much about this one specific type of intervention, above all others? Why not invest your activism into medical interventions with much higher rates of regret?

And why do you choose to spend time on your pedophilic tendencies/anti-trans activism?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

They would have known this if they bothered to open the surgery regret rate studies I linked them (but we both know studies won't change their mind). For the lazy it's less than 1% for both transmascs and transfems.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

So requesting you be honest and fully inform kids is pedophiliac tendencies? You do get how this makes you look? Right?

Please point out where I mentioned anything anti-trans. Or is this again by requesting honesty and transparency? Again, you do realise how this makes you look? Right?

Judging from the responses and downvotes, I can see this community still doesn't want informed consent....

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

So requesting you be honest and fully inform kids is pedophiliac tendencies? You do get how this makes you look? Right?

No, I'm talking about your kiddy diddling/anti-trans rhetoric. Why do you diddle kids/spread anti-trans rhetoric?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Please point out where I wrote anything like that. Go ahead, I'll wait.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Well, you're posting anti-trans rhetoric (talking about regret rates without mentioning that they are much lower than almost any others, talking as if people weren't well-informed about the risks during the multi-year process it takes to transition etc). I can quote your whole post back to you if it helps you? But you can just scroll up and read your own comment, it's a neat function of messaging boards.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Informed consent is now anti-trans? Really?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Implying that the current levels of informed consent aren't enough to properly inform people, and further implying that large amounts of regret exist due to transitioning, is without question anti-trans.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Please point out where I made those statements?

As was mentioned, it's a long process. With still 1%, which is a very conservative estimate, regretting it after all those years, all that information. I feel this should be mentioned.

What you did not mention however was the 13% that stopped transitioning and started detransitioning. The previous 1% only takes into account completed transitions. Since it's a lengthy process, there are many that stop during the process.

That should also be mentioned and the fact that you willingly choose to omit it shows you do not want informed consent.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Wow, you really can't scroll up? Fine, here's your previous comment:

Weird how you left out the links of studies, reports of people that actually do regret it. I mean should we just ignore those people?

If you want kids to be able to make these decisions, you will have to inform them. Properly. Not just paint them a nice picture. That's what you're currently doing. Not informing them and painting nice pink pictures.

It is not sunshine and rainbows for everyone. There are trans people who regret it. Ignoring that fact is being dishonest with yourself and the transcommunity.

Not sure why you're telling me I didn't mention some 13% number, when I didn't mention any numbers at all. Yet it's even more weird that you're not bringing up that even those 13% are lower than most other medical interventions. Again, why do you keep focusing on trans topics, when other medical interventions have this issue to a much larger degree?

Why do you want to diddle small children/spread anti-trans rhetoric?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Provide peer-reviewed evidence to your claims, or you will be banned for multiple instances of misinformation.

10 hours.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Awfully quick to jump to conclusions. Awfully quick to remove people from society.

Sad that you think those actions are just. May you be treated how you treat others. 😉

[–] [email protected] 17 points 9 months ago (1 children)

On the other hand arguing that it's between the parents, their child, and their doctor. Not lawmakers and not you.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's funny how you just downvote and provide zero arguments. Just jumping to call me anti-trans and a pedo.

Good thing I'm not as phobic as you people and will still support the trans community, just not the individuals being dicks.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I did not downvote you, I did give an argument and I did not call you either anti-trans or a pedophile.

Why are you lying? Everyone can even see that all but the downvote lie are lies.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

No. You did not. Parents aren't required. Neither is the doctor initially. Psycologist or psychiatrist would be better. They have a better understanding than your run of the mill doctor.

Perhaps I should've been more clear that my response was not aimed only at you, but the others here as well.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What are you talking about? Teens undergo life changing surgery all the time, whether it is for a sports injury, to correct scoliosis, oral surgery, etc.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

True. And how do those differ from trans care?