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Seems pretty basic to me and only good if you butter them.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (4 children)

What we call an English Muffin. Which people from England have informed me they call a muffin.

What we call a Muffin. Which people from England have informed me they call a bun. Which yes is not eaten with butter, or jam, or anything else that you might spread on an English muffin.

You really don't need to resort to personal attacks.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

Those people were the weird ones, then. This is a bun.

If you do weird things, like mistaking muffins for bread rolls, I'm gonna call you weird. It's not a personal attack, it's an accurate description based on what I can see. You seem to have been misinformed, but are also trying to explain my own culture to me incorrectly, so I downvoted you. I think that's fair.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My last message to you is that acting like that is a personal attack and you shouldn't do that IRL or online.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You're here trying to explain my own culture to me, and you're not even right about it, and you're upset I'm upset about it? Is the phrase "personal attack" just your way of demonising the consequences of your own actions?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Sigh, ok one more message. If you said "I think you are incorrect, we call this ...." that would be fine and polite manners. But you didn't do that. You went for a personal attack. Yes calling people weird is a personal attack. Ok I'm out.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I think you are incorrect, an accurate description is not a personal attack.

Either you referred to what we call "buns" as "muffins" (and ate them without anything in them), which is weird, or you thought we called muffins "buns", which is also weird. And you were sticking to your guns while american-splaining to a brit about british culture (without even being right), which is weird and kinda offensive.

I've had enough of people hiding their bad behaviour behind a wall of "please be civil". I will be as uncivil as I like in calling out bad behaviour, and I will think very poorly of anyone who thinks I shouldn't.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

Calling someone weird is a personal attack.

Saying that what they said is weird is not. Attack the argument, not the person.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

That's a dinner roll. Now show us what a roll is over there, this is interesting!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

To me, they're synonyms. Buns, rolls, baps... There's a ton of other terms for it, too, but those are the ones I use.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don't know what that is - looks like a fruit-filled pastry? What's the filling consist of? Not sure we have an analogue over here!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

That's a pile of sausage rolls.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I think the closest thing we have in the US would be pigs in a blanket:

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

For added confusion we have pigs in blankets in the UK too, but it's small sausages wrapped in bacon instead.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"What's the deal with English muffins and why do the English like them so much?"

The statement is making the assumption that those of British descent "like them so much"... However, it turns out your assumption was wrong per comments on this thread (most people think theyre just okay in general, even the British). So people are agreeing with your personal opinion of "English Muffins" but not your approach.

A more open ended, respectful question could have been something as simple as"Why do some people like English Muffins?" Something introspective for communication if you choose to reflect.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Now you're conflating British and English.... dude's looking for the Internet fight of his life

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Now you're just making stuff up and putting words in other people's months.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

Small cakes baked in greaseproof paper cups are called buns in some parts of the country, but they're about a quarter of the size of the US-style muffin. They're also known as fairy cakes, party buns and possibly a handful of other names to avoid confusion with other baked goods that may also be called buns.

The person who said that many of us here think of the US-style muffin when muffins are mentioned is telling the truth. (Edit: clarification)

Now if you want a local delicacy (I use the term loosely) that has a well-known name and origin within England, with widespread appeal and no doubt large consumption, look no further than Yorkshire puddings. I ate one myself earlier today as part of a meal.