this post was submitted on 01 Jan 2025
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[–] [email protected] 144 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You set your status on a dating app to In a Relationship instead of deactivating it. You got likes after that because you're now passing search filters for a different demographic: nonmonogamous people

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It's weird how you're getting more upvotes than he did when all you did was summarize what he already said in a tone like it was new information.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It recontextualizes things a bit - this is not purely a function of vetting, but places him in a different (smaller) category than he was in previously on the app.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Tomato tamato. You end up in the same place and the journey looks the same.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I disagree - it's the difference between a "lol, women only become interested when you're not available anymore" trope v. "You were a single dude in a sea of single dudes, now you're attached and in a smaller pool of nonmonogomous dudes. Pool is smaller, so more bites".

Or this was entirely clear in the other post if reading between the lines, and I'm just very tired.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It's not, and I found the original contribution you clarified helpful.