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It's been difficult to broach the subject and explain the technical concepts to the average person. I did have some success in first sharing the email comparison, which lead into interoperability.

I'm just curious to hear people's success stories, if you have any.

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[–] Zarxrax@lemmy.world 43 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Why would I tell them about "the fediverse"? Tell them that you use Lemmy or Mastodon or whatever. If they are interested then give them a link to a good instance. That's it.

[–] Blaze@reddthat.com 21 points 10 months ago

Definitely. People don't care what's behind. They just want an app or a website.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I send a fiend of mine image macros and shitposts from here

They’re like “WHERE DO YOU GET THESE MEMES”

I say “Lemmy, it’s like Reddit minus so much corpo garb”

They say “the fuck is a lemmy”

I send the link to voyager and say “all you gotta do is sign up on one of these places I think you’d like”

They’re still just on tiktok

I have tried

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[–] Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

How likely are you to recommend Lemmy to a friend or colleague? Give a score from 1 to 10.

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[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 4 points 10 months ago

Fair. I just find it interesting and want to share it. I should just let them decide on their own if it's something they find interesting or not. I'll try to remember to just give them an app recommend instead.

[–] jacktherippah@lemmy.world 32 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I don't tell people about the Fediverse.

[–] neo@lemmy.hacktheplanet.be 7 points 10 months ago

The first rule of the Fediverse.

[–] Blaze@reddthat.com 24 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

"It's like email. You can have an account on Gmail and still send emails to Outlook".

Edit: just saw that you mentioned email, so that's usually the easiest analogy.

About success stories, I don't have many, people I know IRL weren't interested in Reddit, so Lemmy is the same.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 9 points 10 months ago (3 children)

This is literally how I explained it to somebody tonight actually.

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[–] Varven@lemmy.world 22 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I just showed one of my friends the memes on it and they said tell me what this platform is

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 9 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] Today@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Will you share your name with them? Did you communicate with irl people on the other place?

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm not sure exactly what you meant here, but I probably wouldn't tell most people who I am on here. That's not to say I wouldn't share in other places, it probably just depends on the platform really.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 10 months ago

Hahaha there’s NO CHANCE I’d tell my friends I’m Rai here even if they already know I’ve got a grand in bad dragon dildos that I certainly don’t talk about here

[–] nycki@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

I dont. Its honestly not great. I'd rather that effort went to preserving and repairing the existing tools of the free and open web -- the old protocols are extensible. Imagine if we had an RSS client with a "reblog" feature!

"Federation" adds overhead and honestly creates as many problems as it solves. It's not a selling point, its a price tag.

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I like using a mall as a really basic analogy for the shared social space:

There are multiple entrances to the mall through various shops, but once you're inside, you can go visit wherever you want.

[–] Fake4000@lemmy.world 9 points 10 months ago

That's actually a great one.

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 6 points 10 months ago

I like that analogy, thanks

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 5 points 10 months ago

I likened it to a room with bidirectional portals yesterday - your analogy is much better, and has been stolen for future use.

[–] Today@lemmy.world 16 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I don't. When people say, "Do you use r/?" I reply with, "I left it during the blackout." That usually ends it.

[–] Neato@ttrpg.network 11 points 10 months ago (3 children)

It really annoys me how often I see major media others citing reddit these days. It seems it really ramped up after the IPO. It's never anything good either. They're just either outsourcing basic journalism or complaining that reddit is too negative.

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[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Why not tell them about Lemmy (or other alternatives) instead?

[–] Today@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Most of my friends are fully entrenched in mainstream social media and i don't think there's much interest in doing something different. I have a couple of friends and family members who i think are probably here, but we don't talk about it.

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

i don’t think there’s much interest in doing something different

See that's the part that I don't really get though. Why is it so difficult to break free? People always want to complain but never want to be part of the solution.

Interesting that you don't talk about it. Is that just because you prefer to keep your identity here separate from real life, or some other reason(s)?

[–] Today@lemmy.world 7 points 10 months ago

Most people i know don't complain a lot about the other places. When i bring up the constant marketing and such, they mostly don't care. When interacting with people you know on social media there's an expectation that you follow them, post/respond appropriately, etc. It's tiring. I would use a different account.

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[–] recursive_recursion@programming.dev 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I just share posts/comments that others find useful

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Do you have anything specific, or do you just mean in general?

[–] recursive_recursion@programming.dev 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I would say mostly general, and it also depends on context and relevance

  • like I'd send FFXIV memes to my friends who play it but not to anyone else.

For things that people aren't familiar with but is useful to know (like PC hardware) I tend to share fedi-links as sources/citations after providing context

EX:

  1. [Powercolor Hellhound RX 7900 XT], [Partner Model 4070 Ti] - Value Comparison
  2. [ZOTAC 4080 Super], [PowerColor’s Hellhound 7900 XT] - Value Comparison

I'm a nerd

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Makes sense, thanks for elaborating. Nerd!

:P

[–] Ledivin@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I'm not a weirdo, so I don't. My friends don't have to buy into my version of wasting time

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

^weirdlybacksaway^

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 12 points 10 months ago

Don't talk about the high concept of federation, talk about the community that the different services offer.

The classic misstake is to oversell and miss the point that the other party is focusing on.

Don't: "Lemmy is so awesome, it can't be shut down, it is federated, you can even run your own instance and have total control"

What the other party hears: "Lemmy is awesome, and you have to do a lot of stuff to join."

Do: "Hey, have you heard about Lemmy? It is a Reddit clone with a much calmer community, I have had a lot of interesting conversations over there"

This puts the focus on the community rather than the service, people join social networks for the interaction, not the tech.

[–] TokyoMonsterTrucker@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Usually as loudly as possible while wildly gesticulating and showing huge quantities of bloodshot eyeball. Seems effective so far, will continue to report in.

[–] technomad@slrpnk.net 6 points 10 months ago

I'm going to need to see some evidence.

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[–] Nougat@fedia.io 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

What are these "people" to which you refer?

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[–] autonomoususer@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

"Reddit rapes us because they control it, not us. This is like that but we control it, not them, libre software. They can get fucked!"

Yes, literally, it works for me. Most people don't give a shit beyond that, that's all they need to join. But, start with a chat app first. Also, this is a replacement but they only need to add an app, not replace yet.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 6 points 10 months ago

I generally don't.

[–] henfredemars@infosec.pub 5 points 10 months ago

Subtly, not by pushing it on them directly. Instead, I share links to topics that might interest them. Show people the value.

[–] foggy@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I ask if they've heard of mastodon because most people with any ties to the internet have. Then I say there's a new wave of platforms that are all federated, kinda like how like someone could send an email from a user @aol.clm to a user @msn.com or whatever, which means there's no real way to centralize the platforms.

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[–] Chainweasel@lemmy.world 5 points 10 months ago

I don't, sites like this are they best when their a hidden corner of the internet

[–] countablenewt@allthingstech.social 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

@technomad I’ve been keeping a lot of my friends aware of what’s going on in the fediverse (especially around Threads, which they’re more aware of) through a discord channel I run on our server that’s dedicated to what’s going on in the world of tech

Conceptually I prefer using the email analogy for how it actually works since that’s pretty close

Gatekeeping the fediverse isn’t good for it, get people to join up, you have control over what you see

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