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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

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so… i talked to my ex (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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for anyone who wants to give proper advice or know our ages, yes, we are still quite young. i’m 18f, he’s 19.

i recently broke up with sam, my long-distance bf of a few years because he ghosted me. last night, he finally answered his phone and got to talk to me, that he’d love to still be friends but he was ghosting due to poor mental health.

he explained that he knew it was wrong and he should’ve done something other than ghosting his gf, and despite having mental health problems, he still indeed had feelings for me and would like to give it another try when he can be a better bf and is more mentally stable.

on one hand, i kind of hope he doesn’t lose feelings for me, as i think my feelings for him are still kinda there, but i also would support him with romance and such no matter what, and even if he doesn’t have feelings for anyone.

i also hope he gets better and don’t want to pressure him into a relationship he’s obviously not ready for. i think he should take his time. i also need a break due to being hurt, recently breaking up, and having been ghosted.

but i’m no longer upset that it happened as i got to talk to him, and would be willing to give it another try.

i guess this no longer makes me a lesbian romantically but biromantic :)

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[–] bendovertherainbow 5 points 1 week ago

Thats a super healthy take for your age, for both of you! I hope he is able to get a handle on things, its rough out there (no matter where either of you are), especially for lgbtqia+ folks.

Hoping for the best for you both!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Sending love and hugs, that's a hard thing to navigate, and balancing both advocating the space you need after being hurt, and attending to a relationship it sounds like is still important to you, is worth being proud of ❤️