this post was submitted on 10 Jun 2025
1336 points (100.0% liked)

People Twitter

7362 readers
1843 users here now

People tweeting stuff. We allow tweets from anyone.

RULES:

  1. Mark NSFW content.
  2. No doxxing people.
  3. Must be a pic of the tweet or similar. No direct links to the tweet.
  4. No bullying or international politcs
  5. Be excellent to each other.
  6. Provide an archived link to the tweet (or similar) being shown if it's a major figure or a politician.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

I can say I have been with girls whose friends were guys all wanted to fuck em. I never held against em. Was honest about it with em, but I always put the trust in them to do the right thing.

I've learned in life there's a little truth to everything, and a lot of bullshit with a lot of things. You'll have horrible women, and horrible men. You'll have folks so obviously blind to what's in front of em, they won't know until their bumping uglies with eachother. You just gotta roll with it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 18 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I feel like there is a difference between finding someone attractive enough to entertain the idea of having sex with them and starting/maintaining a friendship for the sole purpose of keeping open the possibility of sex in the future when they can exploit a vulnerability. If a friend treats everyone of his/her friends roughly equal, I see no harm. However, „friends“ that bend over backwards, get overly touchy and so on with the people in a committed relationship they wanna bang and not with people they don’t, I see a problem. Worst case yet that i encountered was a „friend“ that mimicked mannerisms, hobbies and appearances of the partner that „stood in his way“. That’s just plain creepy.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (11 children)

"Do you wanna fuck her?"

"How many times do I have to explain what pansexuality is? I wanna fuck everyone, everywhere, alll the time!"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Having only male friends is a red flag.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

irl I'm a woman and I only have male friends... Okay I have ONE Female friend and I rarely see her anymore. I'm not avoiding her or anything, our paths just drifted apart.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It's only a red flag every 28 days.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

All other days they are flying a black flag.

Yarrr

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What about having no friends at all?

load more comments (9 replies)
[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And that's why I just cut contact with all people in my life every time I get a partner, to be respectful. Haven't talked to my grandpa in years but what can you do?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 day ago (3 children)

This is why all my friends are asexual eunuchs.

load more comments (3 replies)
[–] [email protected] 127 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (12 children)

What happens if he says yes? Then you are trapped alone with him. Seems worse lol

load more comments (12 replies)
load more comments
view more: next ›