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The family of 3-year-old Ke’Torrius “K.J.” Starkes Jr. is remembering the little boy as a “joyful,” “brilliant” “happy boy who loved life, who would light up any room that he would enter into.”

The toddler died after he was trapped inside a hot car while in the custody of a worker contracted by the Alabama Department of Human Resources, the state’s child protective services agency, according to the Jefferson County Medical Examiner’s Office and the state Department of Human Resources. The Birmingham Police Department is investigating the death.

K.J. had been left inside a car parked outside a home in Birmingham for several hours during the middle of the day on Tuesday, the Jefferson County Medical Examiner’s Office said.

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[-] [email protected] 86 points 1 day ago

This is fucking infuriating. Pure rage.

I remember being in a car too long around the age of 5/6. I'm middle aged, I still remember due to the mild trauma.

Fuck. This poor kid died suffering, crying, screaming. Until he probably passed out due to exhaustion and dehydration.

FUCK.

Those involved deserve prison. Long sentences.

[-] [email protected] 34 points 1 day ago

Let's not forget that this was after he had his entire concept of safety and security shattered due to being taken away from his family.

This involved have never deserved the air they breathe.

[-] [email protected] 103 points 1 day ago

Wow. CPS takes your kid away, and promptly proves that they aren't capable of being a safe guardian either.

[-] [email protected] 44 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feral_child

Raised by wolves

Hessian wolf-children[19]: 15–7 [20] (1304, 1341 and 1344) lived with the Eurasian wolf in the forests of Hesse:

  • The first boy (1304) was taken by wolves at age 3 and found when 7 or 8 by Benedictine monks, the wolves having cared for him by "surrounding him in cold weather, and fed him the best meat from the hunt." He was later sent to the court of Prince Henry, and became accustomed to human society but said he preferred the wolves.[21]

Frankly, Alabama, I think that you need to up your child-rearing game to at least wolf-level.

[-] [email protected] 62 points 1 day ago

So the family managed to at least keep him alive for 3 years, the state takes him and he's dead after a few hours. This isn't going to go well for anybody. Poor kid.

[-] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago

The fact CPS is part of the Department of Human Resources seems about on par for Alabama

[-] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago

Workers contracted? Independent contractors are allowed to have custody of children? That's psychotic.

[-] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Sounds like that should be illegal. You would at least hope it is but we will sub contract anything.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago
[-] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago

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According to the article the woman picked him up from daycare, went to a supervised visit with the father, then ran errands with K.J. still in the backseat for an hour instead of bringing him back to daycare, then went home and left him for 5 hours still strapped in the backseat and was only made aware he was still there when the daycare called to see why he hadn't been returned.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

How the hell do you forgot you have child in a car? That has to be a drug situation or some kind of mental impairment.

[-] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago

How the hell do you forgot you have child in a car?

This situation aside, quite easily. Especially if not your own, you don't drive kids places often, are exhausted or feeling unwell, have too much other stuff getting overwhelming, and of course the kid being nice and quiet. Possibly also just leaving the kid there for a short time at first, and then forgetting, which would be the irresponsible way under these conditions (heat, closed windows, no escape).

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

It can happen to anyone, according to research. I can’t fathom the guilt someone must feel over such a horrific accident.

[-] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago

Several hours? Unbelievable! JFC!

[-] [email protected] 26 points 1 day ago

If I lived in Alabama and CPS tried to take my child away, I would rather die protecting him.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago

Exactly. Even if the parents are unsafe for the kid, the government's just proved that it's even worse. Good luck trying to get people to give up their kids voluntarily.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

It's not just Alabama.

Georgia has repeatedly failed my kids by not preventing them from being abused (obviously not by me)

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

This country has repeatedly proven itself to just not care about people, especially kids and the elderly. It's depressing and horrifying and monstrous. Guess we can add that to the pile of depravity.

[-] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Being abused while in CPS custody, though?

[-] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

Send the guy to prison. Term length doesn't matter.

[-] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Someone needs to be hanged for this

[-] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

https://www.findlaw.com/state/alabama-law/alabama-capital-punishment-laws.html

Methods of Execution Allowed in Alabama

Lethal injection is the primary method of execution allowed in Alabama. Also, the state allows the use of nitrogen hypoxia as an alternative method.

Looks like you're out of luck.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hanging_in_the_United_States

The hanging of Billy Bailey is likely to be the final hanging in the United States, considering that all three of the states that maintained hanging as a secondary method of execution alongside lethal injection after the 1976 restoration of the death penalty have now abolished executions. Delaware's Supreme Court declared the death penalty to be in violation of their state constitution in 2016,[20] Washington abolished executions in 2018,[21] and New Hampshire abolished executions in 2019.[22] However, the last person on death row in the three states is Michael K. Addison in New Hampshire, convicted in 2008 of the 2006 murder of Michael Briggs, an on-duty police officer. Should the state carry out Addison's execution, the method could be hanging if lethal injection was found unconstitutional or inefficient, or if he chooses to be executed by hanging.

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

For...several....HOURS

[-] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

The whole domain of foster care, CPS/CYF offices, and adoptions is a huge and tragic world that exists all around us but is invisible to most people.

Almost anybody who works in that world is in the same situation as jobs like teachers and game developers where passionate people are aggressively exploited by the business drones. But they have to deal with sadder higher stakes while getting even worse pay and nowhere near the resources they need. So then they become victims of the system too.

And we all know that here in the US at least, our population does not give a fuuuuuuck about living children breathing air outside wombs. And when they are poor and "urban?" Forget about it.

I can hear conservative distant relatives now: "Sounds like his baby mama should have taken better care of him!" (Of course with the term "baby mama" shoehorned in where it doesn't fit in order to make sure the sentence ends with an air of racism and dehumanization of an innocent child)

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

When the CPS isn't CPSing

[-] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Mistakes happen. Even the best of parents can forget their child for a few minutes. Not being accustomed to transporting children makes these kinds of mistakes so much more likely.

I don't blame the person who did this. I blame the system that allowed this situation to occur without any safety checks.

School bus drivers need to walk to the back of the bus before leaving. This is an example of a system that has been improved to prevent simple mistakes from having disastrous consequences again. If the person responsible is fired and nothing else changes, then we've learned nothing, and it will happen again.

The system must be improved to prevent this happening again.

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