I think a lot of the tech is responsible for the shitty life. Tech got better until perhaps end of the naughts. After that it's just one bullshit excuse after the other to make devices obsolete as quick as possible. Plus the complete enshittification of the internet.
I'm just glad that decentralized social media is becoming a thing and the FOSS movement is huge.
If anything, Lemmy is annoying because of the holier than thou attitude that people like you are showing.
Kinda funny how you try to ridicule people's penises in the very next sentence. Double standards much?