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The title kind of spells it out. I’m a few months pregnant, just about out of the first trimester. I’m a full time student (went back to school last year) with an hour commute each way and I also have 2 jobs (pharmacy tech, server). All in all I have next to no free time. My fiancé has a fantastic job working for his friends company where he brings home significantly more than me and works maybe 10 hours or so a week? The rest of his time is spent golfing, hanging out with friends, etc.

He cooks all our meals & pays about 65% of the bills, and I do have to keep that in mind. But the house is never ever clean. And I know it’s not even his fault at all. He has a great job and I’m glad he does, and he does bring me food to work every day & is generally extremely thoughtful. But hearing about his fun, leisurely day after I work 13 hours just makes me resentful. He also often brings up feeling depressed because he doesn’t have much motivating him career wise/financially at the moment. Can anyone offer any advice about how to stop feeling this way?

TLDR: I, while pregnant, work 2 jobs + am a full time college student while my fiancé and father of my future child has fun all day. How can I stop resenting this?

My(F25) GF's(F25) Coworker(F23) Kissed Her On The Cheek (zerobytes.monster)

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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/needtoknow345 on 2023-08-18 20:17:01+00:00.

So my GF often comes home and talks about her day at work including her coworkers. So I hear about her coworker all the time, they often seem to talk about sexual stuff which I find weird (but thats just me) and ive expressed that to my GF in a non-serious way.

The other day my GF said that they were talking about some lube that stimulates your parts during sex and how she was guna get her some. Then apparently my GF leaned over to look at it and her coworker kissed her on the cheek and said "I bet that's how your GF kisses you".

I'm an extremely jealous person, but when my GF said this I reacted pretty neutrally, clearly not happy about it but didnt say much. I dont want to make a big deal out of it because I guess its not my GF's fault, but she has a history of having sexual encounters with female friends.. both before me and with me. I'm more frustrated by the fact that this isnt the first time her friends seem to have crossed a boundary and I'm getting tired of giving people passes at my GF.

But she is continuing to spend time with her, like go pick up lunch with her etc. This makes me uncomfortable as I feel its disrespectful to continue entertaining a friendship with someone who doesnt seem to respect your relationship.

Am I being dramatic? Im not sure how to go about this.

TD;LR My GF's coworker kissed her on the cheek and Im not sure how to feel about it

Is my boyfriend giving up on me? (zerobytes.monster)

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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/Available-Gur3024 on 2023-08-18 20:12:25+00:00.

I (26f) think my boyfriend (26m) is tired of me honestly and i dont know if he is just with me because he is used to being with me and doesnt want to be alone. A couple of months we had a fall out, i hurt him bad and he wanted to break up with me, we broke up and a week later we couldnt stand being apart. I apologized, and started working on myself so he could trust me and feel comfortable around me again. He told me he would give me another chance and i took it. Everything was working just fine but i could notice he wasnt himself anymore. He slowly started to lose interest in me anytime we would face a problem, and it seems now that he doesnt feel much for me. I wish he would let me know if in doing something wrong instead of telling me he is tired of me whenever we discuss about something because of me wanting him to be more caring and loving towards me. He also doesnt seem to feel attracted to me anymore. I love him so much and he tells me he does too and wants to spend his life with me, (buy a house and such); but i feel like he is just saying that just so i dont feel alone or just so i can keep doing my life, because he knows about my mental issues and anxiety, im heavily insecure about myself because of trauma and i constantly think that he will leave, so whenever we are not okay, i find it really hard to function like a normal human being. Im a depressive person but i love him so much i dont know what i would do without him; but it depresses me more that i know he would be better off without me because my insecurities hurt him. I want to get better but i think he is just tired and doesnt have the patience anymore to be with me. Everytine we discuss, i think he is going to break up with me and abandon me. He is my best friend and i feel like i have noone else… i dont know how to fix myself, i keep trying but sometimes i fall. 😞

TL;DR i dont know if my boyfriend wants to be with me anymore, my depression and anxiety is tiring him and i sometimes hurt his feelings without noticing but he doesnt let me know until its too late. I love him very much i want him to be the father of my children but i dont think he believes i love him much honestly

My (F35) boyfriend (M38) chose his friend over me (zerobytes.monster)

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The original was posted on /r/relationships by /u/StringOfHearts86 on 2023-08-18 20:11:08+00:00.

I’ve (F35) been dating my boyfriend (M38) for about a year now. He was going on a stag holiday with friends so I said I’d give him a lift to the airport at 3am in the morning. It was the last week before he was going away and I was going away on a separate holiday so we weren’t going to see each other for 6 weeks. He also works away for work so we don’t get a lot of time together. Anyway I asked him if he wanted me to come over one last night or did he want to try and get some sleep before his flight. He said he wouldn’t mind getting some sleep. I was a bit gutted that I wouldn’t get that time with him but understood.

So I pick him up at 3am he shows up drunk. He said he doesn’t want to lie to me he’s been out drinking with his friend instead of sleeping. Apparently his friend called him up and asked him.

I feel really hurt. I’ve had issues with his lack of effort and making time for me when he’s home in the past and I’ve actually ended things over it. He’s been really making an effort since getting back together but then this happened and now I feel like he’s back to his old ways.

Should I confront him about it and what do I say? It’s been a month and ive not brought it up. Should I just accept that’s how he is or move on. Really interested to know what other people think of this and what I should do about it. Thanks.

TDLR: Boyfriend chose spending his last night with his friend instead of me. How should I handle this?

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