But it's not really impossibile. I just had a gay friend give up on the local pride rally because it has become overpoliticized by my country.
Just because there is a political aspect and assholes are using the whole queer movement as political propaganda doesn't mean the community wants to discuss it (especially how these can derail almost any conversation).
Of course I don't know the exact motives behind your issue, but with the info you provided I can still campaign against malevolent intent in this specific case.
This is a very hard knot to untangle. Is being a woman political? Feminists for sure, but do you count being 'not a feminist' as a political act? Is my attraction to certain sexual characteristics inherently political?
There is definitely a lot to be said on the matter of politics, and while I hate blanket rules/bans in most cases, I can see why the community wants to keep current propaganda out.