jeena
joined 11 months ago
I guess it's time for a preemptive strike Canada, don't wait until it's too late.
I wonder, if you're not harboring any immigrants and ICE is breaking open your door because they suspect you do, is it morally OK to start shooting to defend your home? How would you even know it's not a burglar?
No, I just moved here 4 years ago, first a business trip, then I met someone and asked to go on more business trips until I asked them to move me to the Korean office and I me and my now wife moved in together.
Do you mean living in Asia or born and raised? I moved to South Korea 4 years ago.
Nextcloud it just too heavy I totally agree, and everything feels slow and sluggish.
For just files I use Syncthing and couldn't be happier, it just works in the background without a central server just syncs the files between phones, PCs and laptops by itself. I set it up like 5 years ago when I had enough of Nextcloud and to be honest most of the time I forget that I have it, but I use it every day to sync my password database for KeePassXC, my music, my private and work documents between all my devices.
Here in Korea there are so called Kids Cafes which are basically indoor playgrounds where you pay an entrance fee. There are often quite many children different ages and we take our kids there sometimes.
The more obvious one would be just the normal public playground, check when other kids usually are there and join them. If you do it regularly you will find that there are more or less the same children there at the same time.
But the biggest problem for the child in first day Kindergarten is that their parent suddenly disappears, over time they get used to it bit even after years in Kindergarden there are days where they don't want to go :D
We practically only use the calendar, it's possible to use tasks also with it but there is no native tool for it on iOS which my wife uses so we don't use it.
I selfhost https://radicale.org/v3.html and just added the calendar to iOS as a CalDav calendar, in GNOME Calendar and with help of DAVx5 on Android with the built in calendar. And then I added it to Home Assistant too, and made a dashboard which I automatically show at 7am on the TV.
If you're self hosting other things already then https://radicale.org/v3.html or https://nextcloud.com/ offer shared calendars.
It's just a drop in the ocean, but I set up a family calendar and I put in everything I come across which needs to be dealt with into it and we both can see it in our phones and on the morning dashboard in the living room. I ask my wife to also populate it which she occasionally does. It helps to not need to keep it in your head all the time because you see it every morning on the dashboard for the next couple of days. Things like:
- Renew child A's visa
- Make child K write an essay on a regular basis
- Vaccination for child A
- Prepare for child K's school trip
- Change bed sheets
- Bring child K to birthday party
- Register for child K's Summer Program
- Go to Photo studio with child A
- Call the bank about moving money abroad
- Ceramic class
- Visit grandparents
and so on. The thing is when I don't know about it then I can't even offer to take it over. This way it's also a bit more visible for both of us what the other is doing so we can share easier.
Tired of winning yet?
So probably mostly for retirement. The problem is that I've been moving between counties and studying and doing stuff so I'm afraid it will be impossible to collect it from all the countries together so that I can get a normal pension, so I will have to work quite long and yeah if I'm lucky and get old then I'll be probably very poor.