khannie

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Enjoy it and really, congratulations!!

I've been the young dad at school and now I'm the old dad. There are 21 years between our youngest and oldest. I wasn't quite your age when we had our happy little accident but I'm so happy to have him and it sounds like you are too.

I'll offer one piece of advice and that is to start looking after your health if you're not already. You're going to want the extra, high quality years with your kid that good diet and exercise bring and being fit really does help with the parenting adventure (in my experience anyway).

Enjoy the ride! It's so much fun. I'm really happy for you.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Agree with everything you've said. They only thing is China has been contesting a North Eestern border with India for some time so they might take the opportunity for some shenanigans.

Still don't see it escalating beyond regional though as you said.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

On one hand I think you're right but on the other, if they're correct, I'd say they want India to know they're in their systems or have spies.

That kind of an opsec failure is going to be disconcerting at a minimum.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Mars Guy video on Sunday had me worried after it was stuck for days then of course the big reveal in the last 30 seconds that Perseverance can just drop the drill bit and that it has lots more. C'mon man!

Glad to hear it's all worked out though.

[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

An I remember that one. It's good. I'll see your solid paddywhackery and raise you this (which I honestly pissed myself laughing at the first time I saw it).

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

She married an Englishman and raised her kids there because Ireland in 1980 was not exactly thriving. She was around 20 when she left so definitely old enough to feel thoroughly Irish for a lifetime. She still has her accent and all.

She does talk about moving back here occasionally.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (3 children)

You don't have to but I wouldn't naturalise in her situation either. Under no circumstances would I pledge allegiance to a country that I felt wasn't mine and if I had a green card I wouldn't bother.

That's not to say I might not feel that way about another country in the future but as I said my sister has been living in the UK for over two thirds of her life and would never consider getting a British passport. Even her adult daughter chooses an Irish one.

If you don't mind me asking why bother with the dual citizenship? And did you feel any weirdness pledging yourself to the second country?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

Regardless, 40 years here and hasn't naturalized yet? Odd.

Nothing odd about it. An Irish passport is measurably better than an American one.

Edit: You can live in a different country for the vast majority of your life and still feel like it's not your home country. My sister has lived in the UK for over forty years and is very much Irish.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The old bigot who lived next door to me growing up called me a tater tot

Prick. I heard two young American girls refer to the Irish as potatoes, in Dublin. They thought nobody could hear them then were properly embarrassed when they saw me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

I've been reading bedtime stories nightly for 23 years now and I've a good six or so left before I'm out.

If you want to try again in the future I would gently suggest listening to a few audio books from really good narrators. It upped my game quite a bit.

Also, even for an adult, Charlotte's Web. Incredible story. Easily my favourite of all time to read to others and gripping from page one. Think I've done it seven times now. God damn I love that book so much.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Went for a swim with the kids today. Predictably fucking freezing. Still was fun.

 
 
 
 
 

[email protected] has started (back) up. If you need advice from any dads or just need to get something off your chest, feel free to drop by.

 

Then picking the exact correct thing

 

Some things may go without saying, but Belgium's food agency issued a public health warning as the festive season wrapped up: don't eat your Christmas tree.

The unusual message came after the city of Ghent, an environmentalist stronghold in the country's northern Flanders region, raised eyebrows by posting tips for recycling the conifers on the dinner table.

Pointing with enthusiasm to examples from Scandinavia, the town website suggested needles could be stripped, blanched and dried - for use in making flavoured butter, for instance.

Asked what they thought of the idea, the reply from Belgium's federal agency for food chain security, AFSCA, was a resounding "No".

"Christmas trees are not destined to enter the food chain," it said in a statement.

 

Coming up to Christmas I generally make some small donations. Some of these I ask for as Christmas gifts because I'm old and basically have very basic wants and needs so I'm hard to buy for.

Curious to hear if / what others do.

I've expanded my annual list to include:

  • Wikipedia
  • Lemmy.world (my home instance)
  • Mozilla (I'm not happy with how they spend their money necessarily but I'm very thankful to have Firefox)
  • Signal messenger
  • A few Ukrainian things (u24.gov.ua is the official site if this is your thing but there's a great lady on Reddit I give to occasionally too)
  • The guardian (I read so many articles from there linked on here that I feel like I should and I really appreciate the lack of paywall and easy cookie rejection but never use the site logged in)
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No! (lemmy.world)
 
 

Initial results look like a slight shift to the left. The candidates fielded on a hard right stance are taking a hiding which gives me hope for our little island.

Interesting about "the monk". That would be a cat among the pigeons if he gets in.

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