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Don't have to deal with this anymore, because mine are all at least tweenage.
It's a balancing act, and sometimes running around a little is fine this day in this space, but not another day in a similar space.
I'm not going to act like I've never given my kids an iPad to keep them quiet for a while, but it would be refreshing to see MORE kids playing trains and Hot Wheels instead of sitting in front of a screen.
It's much harder for the kids to create their own fun when a device just spews nonstop entertainment at then. Why use your own imagination, when there's always someone else's available to watch, play, listen to?
There's a HUGE gray area between "children should be silent and invisible" and "HOW DID YOU GET ON THE ROOF OF WALMART?!?". Neither of those extremes are good, and sometimes, as parents we learn during or afterwards that maybe this wasn't the best place to play Hot Wheels. But a lot of the time, it's not hurting anyone.
I worked for a while at a summer camp that didn't allow phones, and kids loved it ... if they could make it through the first two days.
Like you said, kids love being able to make their own fun, but it's hard to compete with an iPad, and not always appropriate given the context (like if you are in a library you have to be quiet).
I definitely think kids should get more opportunities to play and make their own fun in unstructured but supervised settings -- where the adults are there for safety but not telling the kids how to play.