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I know, this is Actually Infuriating, but ... Also she didn't just leave the now-dead kid in the car, she left two in there to die, but one survived. My guess: with brain damage. "Always Beautiful Medical Spa" FFS. Duck lips were totally worth it.

A baby died after his mother left him and his 2-year-old sibling inside a car while she was getting lip filler at a Bakersfield medical spa on a 101-degree day, authorities said.

It is estimated that Hernandez’s children were in the vehicle without air-conditioning for 90 minutes, wrote Det. Kyle McNabb, noting that the internal temperature of a car can rise to a blistering 143 degrees in just one hour of 100-degree weather.

Hernandez told police she found her baby foaming at the mouth and having an apparent seizure after emerging from her procedure at Always Beautiful Medical Spa, according to the police report. She frantically dialed 911, and both her children were transported to a hospital for treatment.

By the time her 1-year-old arrived at Adventist Health hospital, he wasn’t breathing, had no pulse, his lips were blue, and he had an internal body temperature of 107.2 degrees

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I've been fucking tired as all hell, but a) I would not be driving a car with my child in it if I was so tired that I would forget I had a child. The fuck? That's it. There's no b). I would also fall asleep before I would forget I had a child. I cannot believe people really need a "trick" to help them remember they have a child. I just cannot relate.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

a) I would not be driving a car with my child in it if I was so tired that I would forget I had a child. The fuck?

I hope you're thankful for a lifestyle where you have that option. We should all strive to build a world where everyone does.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I mean, taking the bus should be an option in most cases, or? Maybe I'm inconsiderate right now?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In most US cities, no, it's not an option. But we should work to make it an option :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In most cities in the US? That's crazy to me as a European lol. I guess I was acting privileged then.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Nah, you good. There's no way for you to know without way too much time investment.

New York, San Francisco, and maybe Chicago have workable systems. Atlanta's right on the edge, I would say. San Francisco seemed the best by far, but it still wasn't perfect. It also helps that San Francisco is tiny. I haven't been to Seattle or Portland, though. Maybe those are better

The smaller cities have super trash transit, mostly because they're too spread out

[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

San Francisco is tiny

You mean area wise? 😅 Population wise it's like 8 times the size of my city...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Hahaha yeah, area. It's roughly 11km x 11km. Much easier to have frequent transit in that small area. Most US cities are way bigger

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

Right, okay, yeah! 😅

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Plenty of place don't have buses in the states

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (2 children)

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/magazine/fatal-distraction-forgetting-a-child-in-thebackseat-of-a-car-is-a-horrifying-mistake-is-it-a-crime/2014/06/16/8ae0fe3a-f580-11e3-a3a5-42be35962a52_story.html

This article is worth a read. I think that anyone who says "I could NEVER...." are the exact people that are playing with fire. I don't have children, but I still get anxiety thinking about what would happen if I did and any number of variables came up at the wrong moment in time.

This is not an attack on you. This article really helped me understand a situation where it isn't some irresponsible person just leaving their kids alone for hours to get Botox assuming the car will stay on and cool. Humans are humans, and it's sickening and devastating to think about how a simple mistake, a hiccup in the brain, could lead to the death of your own child.