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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Frick. I should really get a proper diagnosis. Anyone here found out they had ADHD well into adulthood? What changed?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah almost 40, was diagnosed not even two years ago.

I had been taking Ritalin to start with, which is great for bringing me out, makes me more talkative actually able to pay attention to your usual boring chit-chat with people.

I've since migrated to dexamfetamine & vyvanse (pro drug / long acting dexamf') which for me is less of the talkative / social and more of being able to focus, time manage & notice when I'm spending too much time on one task.

For me, the biggest changes have been being able to start & finish anything. I've really delved into Linux / home labbing' and have a modest setup, and a decent understanding of Linux / NixOS.

My relationship has improved, I'm now much more attentive around the house, and even proactive with chores / tasks.

Biggest downside has been issues with sleep being on Vyvanse, I'm trialing Guanfacine or Intuniv (brand name) for those issues. Off label it helps with impulsiveness however adjusting to the groggy mornings hasn't been fun.

I'm very happy my wife pushed me to see a Dr about a diagnosis, I'd just thought that I was lazy or a bit of a dropkick when it came to life admin / general chores.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 hours ago

Thank you! What doctor makes that diagnostic? GP? Neurologist? Psychiatrist?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Got diagnosed near the end of last year, well into adulthood. I have inattentive type (what was once called ADD). I'm on non-stimulany meds for it, which helps. But the thing about ADHD is that it's mainly genetic and has to do with the structure of your brain. Its a holdover from when we were living on plains and spent most of our days eating berries and avoiding predators. There's no real symptom relief, only management.

That said, the tools you learn for management while in therapy for it are amazing. And once you understand how your brain works, you gain a deeper and better understanding of how and why you do things. I know that seems like a "duh", but in practice its a lot more profound and empowering than you think its going to be.

But ADHD has a lot of overlap with other things, so don't be too sure until you see a professional. I wasn't looking for an ADHD diagnosis when I got one - I thought I had depression. And I was miserable. Like, considering some unthinkable stuff. My diagnosis and treatment basically 180'd me completely. Find a good doctor, then listen to them

[–] [email protected] 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Oh I don't think I have it. Maybe. But I've related to so much on this community that I think I should be sure. Thank you for your testimonial! And what sort of doctor does that diagnosis? Neurologist?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

A psychiatrist, actually. There's about an afternoon's worth of testing, and that generates a report on a few different vectors, saying if you have it and what kind

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just got diagnosed last week, and I am well into adulthood.

It's a bit early yet. I am on starter meds and have a follow up appointment in a few weeks. Already though I have noticed impulse control is much better. It's like I have a time machine that's given me a few extra moments to respond to stimuli. Anxiety levels are also way down, and I don't feel the frazzled need to jump to the next thing, trying to get a dopamine fix.

Trying now to pursue a 3 prong style of treatment: medication, forming new habits, and mindfulness/observation. I am doing mood journaling to try to capture my experience.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Sounds like I should really look into it. Thanks and good luck!