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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] [email protected] 67 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Seems like there's plenty of entitled wealthy people in this thread. People who don't understand what it's like to be systemically pushed down into the mud; what it's like when all of your choices are either bad or worse.

"But you can recycle..." Shut the fuck up dude, recycling doesn't feed my fucking family. Recycling doesn't replace the years spent in an education system that's designed to make you a factory worker. Recycling doesn't bring living-wage-paying jobs to my hometown.

When the bills are in the mail, the tax man is coming, the landlord's raising the rent, and the bossman is driving a new car every year but can't pay you enough to keep your bank account from overdrafting, sometimes you have to do "immoral" shit.

Sometimes you have to kill an animal with no hunting license, sometimes you have to find a place to stay warm for the night, sometimes you have to feed your kids when all you have is cardboard and that might mean stealing bread from the dollar store.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

warning satireAre you sure your not just being lazy? Maybe it was the choices you made that landed you there. It's not like there is a whole system in place to oppress a certain class of people.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I cannot believe that you're being downvoted. This place disappoints me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I was told I'm a politician in another thread so... yeah I don't know man.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Looks like the consensus finally turned around somewhat

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

This is true and I am saying that as someone who is well off, the movie parasite talks about this great. Its easy to be a nice person when your rich

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

I remember the millionaire who wanted to prove that he could rebuild his wealth if he started from scratch again. He cheated a little bit because he used his friend apartment for free.

Fast forward, he gave up after a couple of months and understood what the rest of us knew for ages.

Wealthy people are delusional and no amount of reasoning will work with them.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

So you listed a bunch of things that make sense for illegal things you might have to do in order to acquire food but just because you are poor why can’t you recycle?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

That's not the point.

The point is that doing little things like reducing reusing and recycling are not the end-all be-all solution to being broke. I'm saying that doing moral things doesn't automatically give you a liveable life; it doesn't magically make everything ok.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Poor people are excellent recyclers. Even in states that don't offer bottle exchange they will collect for the aluminum/other alloys, alone.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

That's the problem with this entire post. Who is saying any of this? Whose morals are we talking about? If you can just as easily recycle something as throw it in the trash and you choose not to recycle because your rent is too high and your boss is a piece of shit, that's just nonsense. On the other hand, as a vegan, I personally do not have any moral objection to you illegally hunting animals for food if that's the only access to food you have. What is the point of any of this, is this some kind of vaguebooking about some other post?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Well this is getting added to my playlist.

Dude looks like Tyler Cassidy's nephew or something.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I guess? But it's also morally just to reuse disposables, repair instead of replace, conserve and reduce waste, and delay new purchases as long as possible. I'm doing environmental conservationism just by being poor!

[–] [email protected] 48 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The reason that the rich were so rich, Vimes reasoned, was because they managed to spend less money. Take boots, for example. ... A really good pair of leather boots cost fifty dollars. But an affordable pair of boots, which were sort of OK for a season or two and then leaked like hell when the cardboard gave out, cost about ten dollars. ... But the thing was that good boots lasted for years and years. A man who could afford fifty dollars had a pair of boots that'd still be keeping his feet dry in ten years' time, while a poor man who could only afford cheap boots would have spent a hundred dollars on boots in the same time and would still have wet feet. This was the Captain Samuel Vimes 'Boots' theory of socio-economic unfairness. (Terry Pratchett, Men at Arms)

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The rich will throw away their perfectly fine boots after a few years because they aren't in style anymore.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The rich have that option.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

This is the single greatest example I have seen highlighting the problem.

The poor cannot afford to have things that last, things that allow them to think of the future, and hence are stuck in a cycle of debt in the present to near future time periods.

However what I don't understand is how the rich get so short sighted when they have both the motivation and resources to plan for long term outcomes. Doesn't make sense.

Underpaying workers leads to worse productivity and apathy towards your superiors.

Does the world really have so few resources that the only way to keep number go up is to exploit the less fortunate? When will feudalism truly end?

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 weeks ago

I think it was Mark Twain who said that in order for a man to be moral he needs to be well-fed first.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is what people tell themselves to cope better. There's nothing good about not being able to afford stuff and juggling between buyin groceries and paying the bills.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I dunno, you really want to stick your head out for capitalism like that?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Wanting to live a non-shitty life is somehow bad? Dounds like someone who's working for capitalists would say. "Shut up and eat your mac and cheese, it's your destiny!"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

No, i have to admit, I'm trying to gauge what people actually believe. I understand morality can't be summed up into a set of infallible rules and it's incredibly hard to teach everyone the ethical frameworks necessary to determine true moral justification for any given situation. The argument about personal liberty is just one that everyone has to reckon with and I'm curious if people still come to the same conclusions I always have.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Long sentence, zero substance. I'm trying and I can't sum it up to see what you wanted to tell, in ahort, or how is it connected to previous conversation. I think more and more that you are a politician.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Righteousness doesn't put food in my stomach, shoes on my feet, a roof over my head, or solve any of the other problems caused by poverty.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You just went from having to be immoral when you're poor to being poor being righteous?

Please make up your mind.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My interpretation of this might be different, but I agree wholeheartedly with my interpretation.

Being morally just doesn't just mean "not causing harm" directly. It means striving to not cause harm both directly and indirectly. As someone who lives in the USA, our entire society is built off of exploitation. The less expensive something is, the more heavy the exploitation likely is. The cheapest manufacturing is done in countries where labor is exploited or even enslaved, where the manufacturing process can pollute and poison the area with little consequence (to the manufacturer), and where the powerful can force deals on the government to let them extract valuable resources and pay a fraction of its value - depriving the locals and nation prosperity. Even when buying US food products, the food industry mostly relies on extremely poor conditions for the animals it keeps, taking advantage of farmers it buys from or employs, and may even employ migrant children for dangerous slaughterhouse labor.

Avoiding these kinds of practices throughout most supply chains is sometimes impossible and usually more expensive the more thoroughly you manage to avoid the practices. Even then someone has to check in and constantly verify that the practices are legitimately avoided and not just greenwashing or fraudulent.

It's really quite depressing.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

According to Lemmy poor people who have done not harm to others have the same morals that poor people that hurt others.

I personally know a homeless person that have never steal or hurt. And several poor people with homes but small income that have stab and stolen other people, probably justifying their shit behavior in being poor.

According to some out of touch lemmings those two people are morally equivalent.

Being poor doesn't justify being a shit person. And defending that is insulting to honest and moral poor people.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I guess you can always find "some" people that can fit with your strawman, doesn't really make it a valid argument.

"Some people" on Lemmy think the earth is flat. "Some" are pedophiles. "Some" are even Republicans. That doesn't mean they are correct or common.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Honestly, rich people are pretty shitty themselves.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

But not for lack of choice, that's the point here.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

I understand where you're coming from, because many societies are being structured in ways that make it feel like you are only hurting yourself by not being just and moral. It's truly horrible when trying to live a life following "the good" puts you in the path of pain all the time, working jobs you don't want to afford not to be put out on the street (and God forbid you want to have kids if you're in a high cost of living area).

With all that being said: I'd fear becoming an evil person more than dying poor. I hope that we can work together to make a world that isn't run by greedy, bad people.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm sorry but this is fucking stupid. WHO is calling WHAT immoral? Someone babbling on recycling, who the fuck cares about recycling?

Poorest people are 100% capable of making choices that align with their personal values as anyone else. This is such a fucking Christian thread. What, do you think morals come from the Bible? what a joke

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Don't use being poor to justify your shitty choices bro, wtf? Trash take.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

They can choose not to.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (25 children)

Wait till you realize morality is shitty fucked up crutch that doesn't work at best and a tool to control people at... usual, not even the worst

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

This is a word salad that I can support.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

People is bad or good. Money don't have that much factor in that. It only changes the type of "bad things" you do, but bad people will do bad things and good people will do good things.

Don't fall for the ~~sentient~~ sentiment that all poor are good and all rich are bad, or that all rich are good and all poor are bad. Because that doesn't correlate with really.

Yes, maybe a poor bad fella will stab you, while a bad rich guy will deny your medical insurance. They both are taking your life, different approaches to evilness due different disposable income available to do evil shit.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm rich and I love stabbing. Stop excluding me from your straw men arguments.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sentiment. The word is sentiment.

A sentient is an intelligent being. You are a sentient. One might fall for a sentient, but then they would have to consider wedding plans.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Thanks!

Sometimes I have issues spelling these similar looking English words.

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