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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

I moved to Japan back in 2015. If I had it to do over, I might do Finland or Norway.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Germany. I might be able to claim ancestry rights. Ironic that my great grandmother fled fascism in Germany but I'd flee America to return to the motherland.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 hours ago

Don't come to Ireland. I've lived in the US for nearly two decades, made lots of friends and even helped some to immigrate here. The harsh reality is, however, that we're going through a really bad housing crisis, with our own homeless numbers growing every month, and house prices and rents exploding (a recent statistic showed that our growth in rents is four times the EU average). So, please, for our sake and yours, try a different country.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 hours ago

Honestly the Netherlands seems pretty great.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago

I was going to say Italy but they seem to be going fash again so... north sentinel island?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I always wanted to live in a country that was totally different from America when I was a kid. I thought either India, China, or Japan back then, but now I’m not sure I’d want to live in any of them right now.

I guess I could go to nearby countries that don’t have global headlines like them say like Bangladesh, Thailand, or Indonesia, but I don’t really know anything about them.

I think the smart option would be somewhere in Europe, but I kinda want to get away or at least take a break from “western” culture.

I guess I can’t name a dream country, but somewhere with a totally different culture. I’d also want it to have a bunch of ruins and historical sites to visit. I’ve never seen anything older than like 150 years in person.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

Where do you live in America? The northeast has cities with things/buildings older than the birth of America (pre-1776) if you want to visit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Kenya. I have friends there, which would help.

I’d definitely be the obvious foreigner, given that I’m pale and ginger, but that’s worked in my favor when traveling before.

I’m also supposing here that there wouldn’t be quite so many other American expats to compete with.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

The kind of american that usually comes to Mexico is very nice, very welcome. Maybe the exceptions are the very loud and self absorbed ones that go to resort locations and act like they're better than everyone there.

As long as people want to integrate and cooperate they are more than welcome.

Now, the sad part is the gentrification that comes with a lot of people moving and outpaying rent vs the locals. Now the average cost of living in Mexico city is about 50% higher than the average salary, and about 100% higher than the median salary. Another very negative thing is that now a lot of locals have to communicate in english because American people will come and not learn spanish over multiple years living here. There are zones where everything is in english now. It's okay speaking english, it's not okay expecting english from everyone.

So a few pointers:

  1. Integrate, pay taxes, consume locally
  2. Try and move into already gentrified places, avoid displacing more people
  3. Push for social policy, increased affordable living spaces, invest in the country where you move into to improve the locals' life

Be friendly, but that's always

[–] [email protected] 3 points 23 minutes ago (1 children)

La ciudad de México is what I've been thinking of. seems like a fabulous place. doubt I could take the heat and I'm more likely to end up in Asia, but Mexico City and Toronto are top contenders

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 minutes ago

Luckily mexico city is not actually that hot, quite humid though

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

No need for muricans here

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago

If I wasn’t locked into this contract with my house I would be applying for work programs in New Zealand on my way to citizenship. When Trump was elected, the first thought that went through my head was, I don’t like winter, so Canada and the Nordics are out. Europe is 0-2 for getting destroyed in World Wars and WW3 is heating up. Africa has its own problems right now, as does South America, and regardless of where you go in Asia it’s not looking good for WW3. So options were Central America or Oceania. I know passable amounts of Spanish, and lived in Central America for a while and I would definitely be OK going back. But if I’m going to move somewhere might as well be somewhere new.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 14 hours ago

As a member of the CAF, if the US Armed Forces are getting rid of LGBTQ folks, I would be proud to welcome them as my comrades in arms.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Anywhere cold, with decent social services, good shipping, and people that leave me alone on the whole.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Ah, welcome to the Nordics!

Hard as fuck to get in, or so I’ve heard.
The shipping might be slower than you’re used to, but we check of on the rest.

See you soon?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

I’ve lived in NYC for 20 years, I’d only give it up for Barcelona

[–] [email protected] 16 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Germany here, only the smart once please. Dont need the idiots. Already got enought here

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Germany has been on my list of places to flee to if the fascists here start rounding up LGBT folks. I have lapsed fluency from when I lived there 30 years ago but I am confident it would come back quickly. The problem is that my husband doesn't speak any German at all and I think it would be a culture shock for him.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 13 hours ago

I was smart once! OMW!!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Americans would do anything to not call a general strike.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Get it organized. I'll show up. Show us poor stupid lazy americans how easy it is to hold an extended general strike to effect a national change. I'm all in on it. Let's fucking go everyone! This armchair analyst knows the way!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago

A birthstrike would be much easier to pull off than a general (labor) strike. Bills don't stop just because you stopped working, and labor strikes require a high degree of coordination. It's a significant risk for those going on strike.

In contrast, a birthstrike does not hurt your immediate situation, and actually likely helps it by preventing an increase in financial burden. Additionally, it requires no real degree of coordination. It can start small and pick up steam as more people jump onboard.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Here in Canada we're trying to catch America's brain drain. We especially need doctors quite desperately.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

doctors

How's the demand for nurses? I'll be finishing up nursing school in less than a year! :D

Or support staff? I'm a surgical tech now, and some of my coworkers (other techs, schedulers - bottom of the medical food chain, but still with specialty experience) feel trapped here by their lack of higher education.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago

Nurses and caretaker staff "Pflege" are needed here in Germany too, but not sure how viable the pay is.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Morocco or Jordan. Been trying to learn Arabic for a few years and would love to be forced to take it more seriously. Mostly can just read the letters. They are relatively safe countries that are in areas of the world I have studied extensively. Also means closer travel to many of the old cities I want to visit.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Jordan is a great country. Lived there for awhile. The people were great. Israel being so close isn't fun though. Morocco would be a safer bet imo.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

That is true, but I would really like to live in the region and Jordan is probably the safest bet. Otherwise Morocco is the smart choice for arabic speaking nation tolerant of Americans with a reasonable margin for safety. I won't be leaving anytime soon either way, this is more of a dream living abroad answer for right now. I intend to vote, protest and be a pain in the ass until they drive me out.

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