OneWomanCreamTeam

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

I'm not criticizing you for sinking to their level or anything like that. I'm just kinda baffled. Like there's so much low hanging fruit, and you're just gnawing on rocks at the base of the tree.

But yeah, you show 'em, champ.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

God, there are so many better way to disparage this guy, and you chose body shaming an AI image? Is this really the best you can do?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

The Electoral College was supposed to be one protection against that

Instead, it only enabled it!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

The Netherlands. Amsterdam seems really nice.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I haven't noticed until you just now pointed it out. It feels so insidious.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Well, most of us don't actually get to vote. Technically we can, but if you don't live in one of 7 swing states your votes straight up doesn't matter. That's why we tend to have such low election. Turnouts, voter suppression is built into the system. Something none of us chose, because the system has been in place longer than any of us have been alive.

To make it worse or educational system has been slowly getting dismantled for generations. That makes huge swaths of our population a lot easier to manipulate. Again, something that has been going on for longer than any of us have been alive.

" Why don't you just protest, or riot?" You might ask. And we do, unfortunately America is fucking huge. This isn't like trying to organize a protest in most European countries. It's an enormous organizational challenge. And if you start succeeding at that organizational challenge, there's a decent chance you'll get disappeared by the CIA. It doesn't help that we have an incredibly militarized police force. It's just salivating at the idea of arresting or beating the shit out of protesters. Go back and look at videos of the George Floyd protests if you'd like some examples. Again, This is a ball that's been rolling longer than any of us have been alive.

Not to mention, I don't know if you remember this, but ever since elect Trump's first presidency there have been dozens upon dozens of Republicans who got caught attempting to rig elections. If you think that all just suddenly stopped the 2024 election, you're being willfully stupid.

And yeah, there are definitely Trump supporters here. And I agree: that minority of Americans absolutely deserve what's coming to them. But what about the rest of us? What about all the people who did vote against the fascist? All of the people risking life and limb to protest? All the children who unlucky enough to get born here? All the queer people, AFAB people, and POC getting our rights stripped from us? Do we deserve this collective punishment just because a bunch of hateful dipshits want us to suffer?

You're using the same line of reasoning that ends in Palestinian toddlers labeled as "Hamas terrorists"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I can tell you're a good, empathetic person from how you blame victims for their own suffering. Keep up the good fight, comrade! /S

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah. He better be careful. He might get slammed next!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean, there's plenty of that out there, if that's what you want.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

Every time I see the phrase "raises alarms" nowadays, I just picture someone tossing a claxon onto the top of an enormous pile of claxons.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

clearly, slavery is actually freedom.

And anyone who disagrees with this is literally 1984 - Also Jordan Peterson probably

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Yeah, it attracts people who feel powerless in their own life, so they're desperate for any amount of power they can hold over someone else.

 
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For privacy sake, I'm changing names into cheeses.

So I've been with my nesting partner (Cheddar) for about 2ish years, living together for most of it. She's wonderful, she's thoughtful, and she means the world to me.

About 6 months ago I met someone really cool (Swiss). We hit it off immediately and things have been great, except for one thing. Unfortunately I happened to meet her during a time when my relationship with Cheddar had a fair bit of turmoil, so unsurprisingly Cheddar reacted with a lot of insecurity and jealousy. The first night I hung out with Swiss we ended up getting in a huge fight. From there on, anytime I even mentioned Swiss all the energy was sucked out of the room.

I did my best to make sure I was moving forward with Swiss slowly, and did my best to try and bear Cheddar's feelings in mind. She still felt like I was putting more effort into this new relationship than I to my relationship with her. To her credit, I was absolutely far from perfect. I definitely didn't communicate how things were going between me and Swiss very well, to the point that Cheddar felt like I had stepped over a big boundary.

Fast forward to about 3 weeks ago: I've been head over heels in love with Swiss since July, but had been putting off prompting the partner conversation for the sake of Cheddar's feelings. It was my last chance to see Swiss for over a month, because she was about to do a bunch of traveling, and I decided I had put things off for long enough.

I tell Cheddar I'm going to ask Swiss to be my partner that night, and Cheddar reacts super negatively. She says something to the effect of "We're moving soon, your work schedule just changed dramatically and now I have to get used to having a metamore on top of that? It feels like too much is changing all at once."

To her credit, Cheddar later texted me to encourage me to have the conversation anyway, but by then I had already decided not to. "After all, even if Cheddar gives her blessing it's still going to hurt" I thought "Better just wait till Swiss is done traveling. Cheddar is right, and in her position I probably wouldn't like all of those changes all at once either."

Fast forward once again, but to last week. We're in the new apartment and slowly unpacking. Swiss has been out of town for awhile, and still has a week or two before I'll get to see her in person. Cheddar has been seeing someone (Gouda) for a couple of months. One night Gouda tells Cheddar "we need to talk". They hang out next chance they get, and Cheddar comes home to tell me "So, you have a new metamore."

It fucking sucks, and the timing could not be worse. I feel like I've just been consumed with jealousy. Watching her do all the things I've been holding myself back from for months: Coming home with hoodies, or hickeys. Spending entire days with the new partner. Nothing unreasonable in and of itself, but all stuff I've denied myself with Swiss for the sake of Cheddar's feelings. In the meantime I won't even get to see Swiss in person for another week. It certainly doesn't help, that because of my new work schedule I've had a lot less time to spend with Cheddar, and a lot of what I do have has coincided with her only opportunities to hang out with Gouda.

Last night we talked about it and Cheddar asked me "Do you want me to put things on hold, atleast till Swiss gets back?"

It feels like I'm being so unfair, but I said yes. Like, why should Cheddar have to put her relationship on hold, just because my other romantic interest is out of town? A lot of the things I've been holding myself back from weren't even explicitly requested by Cheddar, just the sort of thing that usually sets off her jealousy.

This morning Cheddar told Gouda "I need to take a step back for a little while for my partner's sake" and apparently Gouda didn't take it very well. She isn't talking to Cheddar at all at the moment. I feel like a fucking monster.

I don't know. Am I being unreasonable? Am I being unfair?

 

For real, it's all because I got that crazy fuckin banana joker. I'd have been cooked without it.

 
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