hex

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[–] hex@programming.dev 6 points 3 months ago

No, since it's bigger it stretches the lines apart :)

[–] hex@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I think he knows

[–] hex@programming.dev 6 points 3 months ago

Man if I was a doctor I'd probably get my control kick by giving people what they want and making them happy.

[–] hex@programming.dev 9 points 3 months ago

When the video games were a symptom of the ADHD. Lol

[–] hex@programming.dev 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

And you wait 6 months.

[–] hex@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I don't think he means it.

[–] hex@programming.dev 41 points 3 months ago (17 children)

The game itself isn't ripping off anything. Pokémon is such a direct "rip off" of digimon, too, then. Except it doesn't matter, cause that's what stuff is. Stuff is made up of other stuff and oftentimes there will be similarities!

[–] hex@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, it's less like football bro-y and more like send each other memes and play video games and make music together:)

[–] hex@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago

Yup. These days porn has to be involved if you want to be successful, or lots of luck.

[–] hex@programming.dev 11 points 3 months ago

i use it and wonder what people think when i do. they never seem to react negatively. maybe they're silently judging me

[–] hex@programming.dev 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

No, I definitely get it. Maybe not exactly the same, but I have been traumatised enough to learn to present myself like an amicable, calm guy(masking culture, limiting my energy levels). I definitely need to get close to someone to allow that side of myself to get out, but sometimes it just comes out without my control if I really feel comfortable. But yeah, the comfort only comes out when I really trust someone.

One of my exes definitely cemented it in too. Shaming me for some behaviors 💀 Then, another ex praised my silliness, so it helped me come out of my shell a bit more. Nowadays I feel like I let out just enough to be a "fun, chill guy".

Sorry to hear about that cutesy shit comment. That really sucks. If it wasn't his thing, that's fine, but to bring you down for it is just a fuckin asshole move. (I'm a proud user of the :3 face lol, it just represents that cheeky cute emotion perfectly)

Glad to hear you have good connections. That's really what life is about I think. Building connections with others and building yourself up (knowledge, hobbies, wisdom, etc)

I do have my few IRL friends too. 2 really long term ones that have never failed me, another couple stray friends from jobs I've had, and most recently a group of musician friends I met last year. It's the kind of "guy friendgroup" connection I'd been lacking for many years, and they're all just as weird and hyper-knowledgable in their respective special interests lol. I just love people like that!

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