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I've been doing this for some time now. Even if it's something that I consider important.

I just don't see the value in participating in a discussion that I have seen countless times already where the same points and arguments happen over and over again. One that I know wilI turn ugly. It's exhausting and I've decided to just opt-out.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Maybe try a more formal debate setting? I know there are some places like "the crucible" that facilitate that.

I doubt you will find anything on Lemmy unless you start up a highly moderated community. Even then, people can bring questions against the moderators.

Discussion and debate are pretty lawless in nature.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Several I never comment on or engage with, several I comment on and very few topics I engage with.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I certainly do. Every internet community is a bubble and I do not appreciate getting into fights with a brigade of people who hate me just for having an opinion that does not align with their dogma.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Absolutely and specially in this place. But most topics are ok.

Just pretend that we all vaccinate when we are told and you will be fine. :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yes there are topics I avoid.

I also weigh in on them, but not as often as I feel the urge.

My plan is to comment less, with higher quality.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah. On my personal pages I either unfollowed or deleted so many people so I don't have to deal with it. On places like lemmy it's not worth the energy.

Sometimes I can't help myself though. I was taught to stand up for myself and for other people as well so it's hard for me to sit back on certain conversations. Somehow this week I actually changed someone's mind (Not on lemmy). It's confusing when that happens lol

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