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Dull Men's Club

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An unofficial chapter of the popular Dull Men's Club.

https://dullmensclub.com/

1. Relevant commentary on your own dull life. Posts should be about your own dull, lived experience. This is our most important rule. Direct questions, random thoughts, comment baiting, advice seeking, many uses of "discuss" rarely comply with this rule.

2. Original, Fresh, Meaningful Content.

3. Avoid repetitive topics.

4. This is not a search engine
Use a search engine, a tradesperson, Reddit, friends, a specialist Facebook group, apps, Wikipedia, an AI chat, a reverse image search etc. to answer simple questions or identify objects. Also see rule 1, “comment baiting”.

There are a number of content specific communities with subject matter experts who can help you.

Some other communities to consider before posting:

5. Keep it dull. If it puts us to sleep, it’s on the right track. Examples of likely not dull: jokes, gross stuff (including toes), politics, religion, royalty, illness or injury, killing things for fun, or promotional content. Feel free to post these elsewhere.

6. No hate speech, sexism, or bullying No sexism, hate speech, degrading or excessively foul language, or other harmful language. No othering or dehumanizing of anyone or negativity towards any gender identity.

7. Proofread before posting. Use good grammar and punctuation. Avoid useless phrases. Some examples: - starting a post with "So" - starting a post with pointless phrases, like "I hope this is allowed" or “this is my first post” Only share good quality, cropped images. Do not share screenshots of images; share the original image.

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I've created a new Lemmy instance at dullsters.net

When I created this community several months ago I had no aspirations of it becoming much of anything. In a short amount of time it has grown to over 1500 subscribers and is one of the top recommended non-political communities. I am always looking forward to the posts that are shared here, and the unique culture being developed.

I see the importance of the decentralized aspect of the Fediverse. We frequently see drama surrounding moderation and federation policies. None of that applies to the content in this community.

I have no qualms with admins running their site the way they want to and they are often placed in difficult positions. However, this is one of the true places of neutrality on the Fediverse and it should remain that way.

In the few months this community has existed there have been maybe a half dozen moderation actions taken. You have remained, for the most part, very dull, and I thank you for that.

The name of the community should be changed, I hadn't realized that dull men's club was the result of someone else's ideas and work. The new name should represent this community that you all have created and the place it exists, The Fediverse.

The new instance won't have any users except for the purpose of moderation, you will still use your account from a federated instance. I'm still ironing out a few wrinkles with the site, it should be done whenever I get around to it.

In the meantime suggestions for the new name should be made in a top level comment so that they can be voted on.

Thank you all once again for making this community what it is.

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[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Don't overthink (or try to be too interesting, LOL).

dullsters @dullsters.net

I also like that's a touch more inclusive.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Of course. Figured I wouldn't make it an auto-link since it doesn't exist, and may never exist.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Okay, I’ll just email you my posts then.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I like this one (although there are some really good ideas here!). It's a spin on the original name and unique to the Fediverse. Also not everything needs to be inclusive. It's just a place meant for guys to shoot the shit. Changing the name that way would take away from the comedy imo. And anyway you can pose as a dull man on the internet, who's gonna know? Lol ;)

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

That sounds like way too much effort for me.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

On one hand it feels weird that a whole instance should be spun off for this. On the other I just say fuck it, decentralization helps spread the load.

Cool to see this happen and I'll be following on how it turns out

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

But now we can branch it off and have like a dull gardening community and a dull cooking one, a place for people to say something they've done today that was dull but worthwhile, the dullness is endless.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

That's what I was thinking, too. Dull DIY, Dull gaming. Maybe one like Dull Work where you can share minor work wins nobody else you know would care about.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

It actually increases the load, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing if it helps prevent centralization.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

boring buds

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Worldwide Federated Association of Men and Guys For Whom Life is Pretty Plain Actually

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

WFAOMAFFWLIPPA would be a lot simpler to remember I think.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I'm a simple man. I see IT Crowd, I upvote

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Just the word "Vanilla"

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

boring beings bar

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Boring Boys Brigade

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Average Guys' Gang

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

plain jane jamboree

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

So what if someone else came up with the name "Dull Men's Club"? We can co-opt any name we want. There's no rule that says whomever says a name first on the internet gets dibs forever.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

The real dull men's club has existed for 40 years, they have branding and a website.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

casual comrades

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Mundane mUSERS

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

'Dullards United'?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Simple_Satisfactions

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Conflicted.

The only thing you've done is create a competitive community, which will no doubt split the community.

If something had grown popular, and there's no reason to move, why initiate it imo.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Musings of Mediocre Men

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Mehn

And Womehn.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I understand why it's called as such, but I'm not really a fan of the community being called 'dull', as I've found quite a few of the posts pretty interesting. Maybe I too am just dull, lol.

Maybe something like "Everyday Life" would be a good fit.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

I like dull. I think calling it that is a celebration of the mundane.

Everyday Life somehow sounds more boring

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Average joes

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's offline at the moment

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, I'm still making changes getting things ready and whatnot. It's a bit of a learning curve.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

If it was about ex-ussr countries, I could've suggested 'Me and my carpet', since wall carpets were a default sign of doing good back then and many photoes even now have them in the beckground. It's a part of our nostalgic aesthetics and a sign of a boomer old-timers cringe if used out of context. Is there some international alternative to that?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Just so you know, dullsters was also coined by the person who started the club. He used it to refer to members. It was submitted to the Oxford English dictionary, but I don't think it got in.

https://www.thetimes.com/world/us-world/article/the-rise-of-the-dull-mens-club-where-its-hip-to-be-square-7q0d8fqkv

And the archive link: https://archive.md/hwzsa

There's also been a bunch of rival Facebook groups for this, I wouldn't worry too much about this one also being called the dull men's club.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Yay new instance!

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