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I met this really annoying creepy guy today in my apartment. He was being all frinddh friendly with the neighbour who hates me.

He immediately asked me when we were in the elevator together if I rent or own.. who TF asks that especially to someone who you just met???????

Also he asked where I'm from cause I have an accent (speak some language there). I told him I'm from here and he was really annoying about it and didn't believe me.

Anyway I'm thinking he is planning to get me evicted with the other guy, otherwise why would he ask if I'm renting ..

Also I was carrying a bunch of groceries and left them on the stairs. And I took all of them up except my tea fell. So on his way down he was like "is that urs" and I told him yes but please don't touch it

AND HE PICKED IT UP AND SAID ITS YOURS ISNT IT I KNOW ITS YOURS HERE YOU GO

Like bruh I told him don't fucking touch it I don't want you touching my stuff!!??

Anyways what can I do next time I see him to fucking annoy the shit out of him

I was thinking of asking him how old he is and how much money he earns

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[–] Majorllama@lemmy.world 48 points 1 month ago (2 children)

You sound like you need some help. Like therapy help.

Based on the way you told the story and your responses to other peoples comments it seems like you might have some undiagnosed condition making you paranoid and aggressive at what seems like fairly normal neighbor behaviors.

Best of luck.

[–] IMALlama@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Agree. They also made a post about getting back and their neighbor for making noises at 5am (early, sure) about an hour ago.

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Jesus. As long as it's not "noises until 5am", 5 is a perfectly fine time to start the day

[–] weststadtgesicht@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, their world view is incredibly negative, and they harbor so much hate based on things that seem to happen purely in their mind. Sadly, they don't seem to truly engage with comments (other than criticizing the neighbor more), so I'm not sure we can do much.

[–] Majorllama@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

It's the internet. Not much we can do. They will read the comments and do whatever it is they are gonna do. Nothing we can do to stop em.

[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 24 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I wonder why your neighbor hates you.

The neighbors are CIA Agents trying to use MKULTRA on OP.

/s

[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 points 1 month ago (1 children)

🤔

(Do lemmings just never talk to people irl?)

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I hate him

Wow I got 14 down votes because I don't like somebody who is ruining my life??

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Speak for yourself, i love him 😤

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Okay go get pregnant and ditched then

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

🥰🥰 you're invited to the wedding 😍

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The way you've described the situation, it sounds like you're the problem.

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

You sound like you're the problem in everything tbh, just based on your comments

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

you could try and be the better human, assume the other person meant no ill will and just move on with your life.

unless youre just not capable of that.

i think it was the doctor who said "try and be nice, but never fail to be kind"

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What room is there to be the better person here? Other guy sounds like he was 100% fine and decent

good point, in this case it would be 'better than yourself' cuz theyre acting like a child (or troll)

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What how can I move on with my life if I'm never able to sleep properly

this indicates your problems are less with your neighbors and more internal. maybe seek some professional help

Maybe you could just try being nice to him and have a normal conversation? If it pisses you off so much, surely it will piss him off too?

[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 13 points 1 month ago

You could do with being a little less disagreeable and negative in all your posts and comments.

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Asking do you rent or own is just normal conversation. Nothing big there.

The part about the tea bag and your saying don’t touch it, then him saying I know it’s yours. This tells me he didn’t hear you say yes.

Why would asking a person how old they are annoy anyone? I guess women might not like it but a guy is basically never going to get annoyed by it.

Same for how much a guy makes.

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

HOW IS THAT NORMAL CONVERSATION that's a personal question and why tf is that the first thing he asked why does he care so much

He heard me he's just a fucking shit

Lol cause he probably doesn't make that much if he lives in this shithole apartment

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I’m not sure where you live, but I’ve lived all over the US and for us it’s basically normal conversation.

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

He's not US he's some creepy dude. He could tell I didn't want to fucking speak to him and kept pressing me

[–] thisisdee@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I live in Australia and that’s normal here too. Probably a question my current neighbor asked the first time we met (he saw us moving stuff in) and he’s the nicest guy.

[–] Cypher@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago

Can confirm this is normal in Aus, Ive regularly been asked how much I paid for the house as well, which I have no problem answering.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Try guessing his weight and height, but shorter and heavier than you think he really is.

EDIT: I'm now sorry I participated in this. OP, I have a loved one who sounds a lot like you. His psychiatrist saved his life. I highly recommend you find one to talk to. It will help you. I promise.

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

He is really ugly . I don't usually think people are ugly but his skin is actually disgusting it makes me want to throw up

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You sound like a pleasant person to be around 😐

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago

thank you <3

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

There's your opener: "Dude, what's wrong with your skin? Have you talked to a dermatologist?"

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Lol what if he rapes me in the elevator or something

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Why the fuck would he rape you in the elevator? How the fuck did you get to this point lol

[–] Djfok43@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Cause he might get pissed and want to assert his dominance

[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Carry pepper spray?

Edit: I mean, you can't really use it in the elevator, but just have it in case.

[–] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago

Thats a "I don't need to win, you just need to lose!" sort of tactic