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Posting this here because the metal community seems to be entirely links to tracks and I'm not sure how well received this would be there. Also, I'm open to anything that goes more on the punk rock side of things. I like a little punk in my metal and a little metal in my punk (which is very subjective anyway).

Basically as the title says. I'm bored of my current selection of heavy music and looking for new stuff. To per-emptively get ahead of these answers: yes, I've heard Kittie, Nightwish and Arch Enemy before (actually haven't listened to Kittie since the nu metal days and maybe I should check them out again).

Two bands that I have found in recent years that I absolutely love are:

In This Moment. They started out as pretty much straight metalcore but have a noticeable evolution with each album, to the point that the most recent album sounds like this. Evolution is something I appreciate in a band.

Butcher Babies. Just straight up chaotic. And good shit. And they're even named after an old school punk song. Chaos and attitude is something I also appreciate in a band. Pity that one of the vocalists left though, having two vocalists was something that really set them apart.

Any other suggestions?

Edit: wasn't expecting so many great suggestions here. I promise I'll make my way through each post and suggestion here but it's going to take time. In the mean time, thanks everyone. At this rate I'm going to have more than enough new (to me) stuff to listen to.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Jinjer is at least fronted by a woman

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Bones UK, I dunno if they're a full female band but the two main ones are.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Lambrini Girls, a little more political punk than metal. A little lighter than that but mannequin pussy when you're feeling a little more melodic

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Hanabie

Especially this live performance and their album from 2021 has some real bangers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

War on Women is a group I really like from Baltimore. feminist punk metal. https://waronwomen.bandcamp.com/track/white-lies

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Animal Alpha - Bundy is a favorite I return to every now and then. I don’t know the rest of their music

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Loved this song on while playing burnout

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No one mentioned iwrestledabearonce yet, so a toss out if that. Rad metalcore band from when metalcore was rad. For (much) less metal/more punk or riot grrl vibes check out Amyl and the Sniffers and Be Your Own PET. Don’t come at me if I used genre names wrong with those.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Spiritbox has been mentioned elsewhere in the comments, but I'm not sure how common knowledge it is that they were started by former iwrestledabearonce members.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

If you like death and a more extreme sound you have to listen to Crypta. All female band and they are honestly one of the best out there. Impeccable riffs, drums and singing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Vana The Pretty Wild Enemy Inside Not Enough Space Poppy Foie Gras (gothy music)

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Brutus. Stefanie Mannaerts is the lead Singer and drummer. Simultaneously! She is absolutely amazing and has so much power in her Voice. My favorite Band of 2025.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I posted this on a similar question a few weeks ago. I’ve been down the rabbit hole with these bands lately:

Stitched up heart, New Year’s Day, September mourning,

-chick singer led goth metal bands

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Have you tried hard techno? Check out Cassie Raptor

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Could be slightly soft for your taste, a bit Hole-ish maybe, but I saw McQueen a couple of times (once supporting Mad Capsule Markets) and liked them since. Only one album sadly

'Neurotic' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaqTO4UwHMY
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McQueen_(band)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Dark Moor with their first 3 albums with Elisa is great.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elisa_C._Martin

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Excellent question! Have you tried [email protected] the mod there is lovely

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Hello... Hope you're hanging in there and taking care of yourself this evening. Sorry for taking so long to respond to this, I meant to get back to this thread sooner.

It's a real pity that I can't even see that community (and a couple of others there) from here. I wish you could convince your friend to open an alt community in more neutral ground. Or try to make some sort of amends with all of the instances that are de-federated with hilariouschaos. There's some big ones de-federated from it, even piefed.social, which I tried the other day.

If you're interested, now that I'm attending to this post, it seems likely that my next fixation on something to categorise and make lists of is going to be this very topic lol. I'll probably only be done in a couple of months from now but if you would like, I could post my results in Women's Stuff (or I could pass it on to you to post, if you prefer). Otherwise if you think it's a better idea, I could post it to gpral from another account, although I wish I could do that without feeling bad about Blåhaj people being blocked off from it.

And, just gonna ping your new account in case you never look at the old one anymore: @[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Mate that would be great! We'd love to see your stuff if you do it deffo post it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yay, I'm glad you like the idea! As I say it might take time though. And depending on how much, I might split up punk, heavy and general alternative. There's already some good stuff in this thread, stuff that was out when I was going out to clubs and shit but that just never got played anywhere. Apart from the obvious stuff like Arch Enemy and Nightwish. Funny that.

Anyway, at least now my next stint of making lists won't be so pointless.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Great ideas, and dont worry about time. Making lists doesn't sound pointless and nothing that you enjoy is ever a waste of time. Your enjoyment matters

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Haha no I've spent a lot of time working on things that ultimately don't matter much. And sometimes get consumed by it to the point of starting to pull all nighters. But I do enjoy it, yup lol.

Hope you're feeling better and thanks for the encouragement!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I only have a passing interest in metal, but I heard about this Indonesian Muslim all-female metal trio (Voice of Baceprot) a while back and was impressed when I watched the videos of them playing. It's trippy to see them wearing hijabs and all while kicking ass playing metal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v4728NJ7B8

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Nemophila is an Asian all female band that fucking stomps.

Amaranthe is catchy as fuck melodic death metal with a female singer.

Hanzel und Gretyl is industrial rock that’s on the heavy side and has a female vocalist.

Jinjer is female fronted and heavy as fuck.

Maid of Ace is an all girl crossover thrash punk band. Scowl is good too for this.

Sumo Cyco is Canadian hard rock/heavy metal fronted by a chick who does the voice of Barbie in a bunch of animated Barbie movies.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Jinjer, Arch Enemy, Unleash the Archers, spiritbox (and iwabo), Devil Electric

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Along similar lines, System Divide, though I think they only had one album.

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I got kinda (very) overwhelmed by this thread. I was expecting like 5 responses, so you thank you very much for all the suggestions. I have finally made a list from all of this and will be replacing just about my entire music rotation with everything here. Once I find my favourites, I'll probably let you know some time in the future lol.

Thought I might as well drop some names that are already in my collection that I haven't seen mentioned here, for the sake of anyone that might come past here in future. Including stuff that's more on the alternative / hard rock side of things.

General Alternative / Rock:

  • 4 Non Blondes
  • Anneke van Giersbergen (singer of The Gathering)

Old School:

  • Heart
  • Janis Joplin
  • Siouxsie Sioux and the Banshees

Alternative because off-beat / weird:

  • Portishead
  • Tori Amos
  • Björk

Punk:

Hard Rock / Grunge:

  • DILLY DALLY
  • Guano Apes
  • Skunk Anansie

Heavy:

  • Devilskin (band I discovered in New Zealand)
  • Octavia Sperati (singer went on to do an album or two for The Gathering)
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