People on here say there are bad parts of Lemmy, but other than the dork who threatened to sic the FBI on me for Luigi Mangione memes, I haven't had anything but pleasant experiences.
Lemmy Be Wholesome
Welcome to Lemmy Be Wholesome. This is the polar opposite of LemmeShitpost. Here you can post wholesome memes, palate cleanser and good vibes.
The home to heal your soul. No bleak-posting!
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1. Be Respectful
Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.
Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.
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2. No Illegal Content
Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.
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-No CSA content or Revenge Porn
-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)
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7. Content should be Wholesome, we accept cute cats, kittens, puppies, dogs and anything, everything that restores your faith in humanity!
Content that isn't wholesome will be removed.
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Yeah, it's not all bad. Although I think just like Reddit, your experience is largely influenced by the communities in your feed. Seeing the general outlook in here makes me realise I could stand to spend more time in communities like this than I have been.
There's actually a lot of good about this place, even if it's not sunshine and rainbows all the time or perfect.
I do think it could be a little busier though. A lot of communities could do with more posters and conversation in the comments in general. Like, there's still a lot of room for more activity around here without it getting overcrowded and not seeing regulars anymore.
That said, there's actually more than enough good content and people, to make it worth coming back here tomorrow, particularly in the non politics and news cycle side of things here. And I agree that it does feel more international here than Reddit, even if 90% of the news still revolves around the USA anyway lol.
I started being online back when forums, geocities, mIRC, AOL IM were the norm... then MySpace, then Digg, then Facebook, then Reddit... etc etc...
Yeah, at this point, I basically just non religiously pray that Lemmy never becomes super duper popular.
Its the Yogi Berra quote: Nah, that place is too crowded, nobody goes there anymore.
Seen basically every online... social interaction zone of any kind ... be neat initially, then start getting lame, and eventually become an active SCP style cognito hazard that actively destroys the minds of those who use it, yet they become the new default norm standard.
Lemme have my pork and beans and memes in peace, away from the rightwing/russian troll armies, away from the idiot boomers that ruined facebook (I know a good number of non evil ones are on lemmy), away from the dramatubers and streamers and psycopathic tiktokkers...
I had to scroll too far to seeing some beans! Thank you fellow gen x.
Hah, I was born in the very late 80s... I know the exact generation lines between X and Millenial are somewhat contentious, but I'd probably either be a Millenial or 'Elder Millenial'.
... I just picked up tech stuff at a very young age, and also had a number of ... not actual uncles, but 'cool uncle' type people in my life, guys and gals a bit older than me, but not as old as my parents... so I've had more exposure to the music and culture and such more particular to Gen Xers.
Uh I guess, smell you later, bodacious, r a d i c a l ! ! ! or something rofl.
Party on! It sounds like you had a rad childhood!
Eh, extremely dysfunctional family, looked to neighbors and others to... fill the gaps.
Well shit. I guess I'll hush my mouth 😅
hangs 10 with an unenthusiastic, forced smile
A platform like Lemmy wouldn't be possible without everyone that is involved with both running instances/communities and those that post content in those spaces, and I think that's really special because...
Thanks so much for sharing this! I love Lemmy, it's a really positive environment and I like seeing the same users around. It feels more like the old days of message boards which is a good thing. There's less content but its way better quality stuff
Also if you like memes this post in [email protected] has some suggestions
Anytime, and thanks for the suggestions, have subscribed :)
Anytime and enjoy smile 😊
I'm with you. I've been a redditor for more than a decade, and I've really been disappointed with it's decline. It's gotten much worse lately. Not only is reddit clamping down on speech, more people there are just assholes now. Yesterday I made a comment on a thread about cops chasing a graduate that had brought a baby on stage. In response to a comment about the cops handcuffing the baby, I suggested that they would probably punch the baby in the face while yelling "stop resisting!" Obviously a joke and clearly not advocating violence, but my comment was deleted and my entire reddit account was suspended for 3 days. Jokes on them, as I'm not interested in going back.
Edit:
I didn't word this well. Someone made a joke something like "what were they going to do when they catch her, handcuff the baby?" No babies were actually harmed.
That's pretty funny, also sad because it's sorta believable
Holy crap that is harsh. Reddit is dead to me, and you.
Did they really handcuff a baby?
I'm sorry, I didn't word that very well. Someone made a joke something like "what were they going to do when they catch her, handcuff the baby?"
Been on Reddit since the digg migration, ran a few big subs at various points. It’s unusable now. Automod filters silently remove so much. So many people speaking into a void. Mods are increasingly ban happy. Lifetime bans from the default subs for daring to question Israel with facts, or calling someone thick as fuck. My last account got nuked for making a guillotine joke.
Fake news and conservative misinformation subs are rampant, creating a mainstream pipeline for the general public into all this delusional shite. They are a major contributor to the current algorithmically induced psychosis epidemic tearing apart society.
Lemmy is good now, agreed. Same flawed moderation system however. At least it’s a bit more transparent here usually and communities are a bit more decentralised. Maybe moving away from individual communities to something like combined feeds (ie subscribe to @uk and you see all uk communities) could help mitigate any one community gaining dominance.
Would you mind pointing to some info on following combined feeds? I've never seen that mentioned before and it sounds interesting but I'm not sure how to, as you say, subscribe to @uk for example.
I'm on one of the apps so its not the first time I've heard of some magical feature I never conceived of
It’s not a feature that’s implemented, just an idea. I did see something similar floating around as a proposal last year though
Fair enough! I would be none the wiser if it was or not lol thanks for letting me know
:D NICE!!!! I also love Lemmy.
Yes, Lemmy is capable of satisfying one's need for memes and most important news. But that's it. More narrow-interest themes are not represented here at all. Just memes and news.
Depends on your hobby, but yeah. Mostly true. There's a decent little tabletop rpg community, and the guitar communities occasionally have discussions. That's it as far as my hobbies go. Well that and patientgamers has some decent discussions.
Yeah this is also true. Lemmy not being mainstream means any official space is reserved for the likes of Discord or Reddit. But being the under-dog also has its own benefits. It's a much tighter community. I recognise peoples names on Lemmy, like the internet of old. I think the two things are mutually exclusive, and eventually it'll change from one to the other.
Lemmy isn't big enough for much that's niche yet. At ~50k MAUs (not all of whom post) there just aren't enough posters to fuel many narrow interest communities.
if i could put you in a time machine, the last place i'd send you would be 2008. but if i was horrible and sent you there, you'd go to reddit and think it was lemmy.
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nah, i think the word was "fetch"
Thanks for sharing.
My instance is hosting a popular up and coming community, of which I'm honoured, even if I'm not welcome.
May I ask what happened?
[email protected] is for women only. I don't fit the requirements :)
Sorry to double post, but now I just saw a post there from its ... main? only? ... moderator, and now its apparently 'woman and non binary'...
...so ok, not just women anymore, I guess?...but uh... I am a guy who is generally cishet presenting, but also has cosplayed as female characters, done... not quite dragshows, but basically gender norm swap themed parties, I've helped a whole lot of romantic and platonic female friends put together their own outfits and makeup styles, and visa versa, and I sometimes will just incorperate articles of clothing literally sized for and advertised as womens clothes into my normal dress... but I don't identify as nb, because ultimately I am comfortable with the moniker of 'male', I just think 'maleness' can or should extend beyond the stereotypical social 'presentation' norms...
Yep, I got no clue at this point whether or not my presence there is allowed or not.
You should message one of the mods and ask
Which is a fundamentally unenforceable rule unless you rely on posters to go out of their way and be polite enough to say 'hey I'm not a woman but I appreciate many topics of discussion here.'
Before I realized that 'girls only' was an actual rule, I made several comments there that were generally popular, and only the ones where I added a 'I am a guy, but here is how I would approach this woman's fashion' type comments... those ones, I got asked to leave, with other commenters saying 'no, let them stay!', and the ones where I didn't mention I am a guy, they just got upvoted and spawned other silly convos.
Oh well, I guess?
Ah, ok. Understandable. For some reason I thought of actual drama. I am a real troglodyte in that regard and can’t help it.
Decentralization working as intended ✊
It's the WomensStuff community. It looks like a really good group, but it's women only allowed to post and comment I believe.