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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

I dislike words with the nasal E sound, specifically meal. I don't know what but for the last three years I can't stand the word meal. "Oh I hope you had a good MEEEEEEEeeeeal"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Literally.

Because holy fuck, Carter, learn a new word.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

Bro. Are you kidding me right now? Are you kidding me bro? Bro. Bro.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

'Woke' when used as a perjorative.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Feminism

Between the toxic terfs and the toxic trads i think the word has been sullied, maybe beyond recovery.

I beleive in equality and free expression for all, but I don't feel like that's a goal that aligns with most modern forms of Feminism.

It is a word that's supposed to mean eqality, but these days when someone identifies as a feminist my mind assumes they're gonna be a reactionary bigot.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I don't agree. I think it's still just as powerful a word even though people purposely try to weaken it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

What could I call myself to show I am a feminist, but not that type of feminist.?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago

I personally feel like anyone who's not a bigot IS by nature a feminist at least in a solidarity for the ENTIRE human race sense, but keep in mind, this is coming from my perspective as a male, so I might be missing something by virtue of it not regularly impacting me personally.

I'd love a less-abused word, personally.

As a guy, I don't think I'd WANT to call myself a feminist, lest I be incorrectly associated with the likes of Joss Whedon, Neil Gaiman, or a whole host of other clearly NON-feminists who hid behind the word to cover their actions.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 hours ago

Equalitarian?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

I like woody sort of words. Bound, prudy, recidivist. Erogenous zone, loose woman... concubine! Errrogenous zooooone!

Funny thing, dear. All the naughty words sound woody.

E: It appears I have misread the question. But I'll leave my Monty Python reference here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

Well my dear there were only 6 words in that question.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago

Ointment… it sounds so gross

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm so fucking tired of the word "cringe" lately.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

biweekly, bimonthly, etc.

Wtf does it mean? Twice a week? Every two weeks? Who knows. What's the point of this word when it's so ambiguous.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Twice a time period. Semi for every two time periods. So every two weeks is semiweekely. However it gets misused so often you almost always have to check making it almost useless.

Similar to failsafe vs redundant.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Frustratingly enough, it's the other way around. Biweekly is every two weeks, semi weekly is two times a week.

I remember it like this:

  • bicycles are two circles, biweekly is two weeks
  • semicircles are half a circle, semiweekly is half a week

But yes, people use the words interchangeably so often that it's faster just to avoid the problem altogether and just say "every two weeks".

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Blah got it backwards. Back to coffee for me.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

In the UK we have the word "fortnight" for two weeks, which helps. I also found out very recently that "biannual" mean twice a year and "biennial" means every other year so, yeah, fuck knows.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Irregardless, inflammable, idiom are all like nails on a chalkboard to me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Just can't stand the way it sounds, starts with an idi like your going into something then ends with an um. It feels like someone stopped making the name partway through.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Penultimate. Anyone writing about or reviewing the second last of anything uses it in their first breath like their English degree depends on it.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago (12 children)

When people call sex "breeding".

It sounds like some puritanical shit where they believe that sex is only for procreation.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I only use "breeding" to refer disparagingly to the actions of those who believe that having kids is mandatory or, at least, unavoidable.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 21 hours ago

That's how I thought it was used.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'd say that is more about a kink than anything remotely religious

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm not typically one to kink shame, but that's just creepy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I've known a few people who used "breeding" as a kink word and I'm like motherfuckers i raised four kids it's not a fucking kink, it's a lifelong occupation.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Right? I'm raising one amd I'm constantly exhausted.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

"y'all" its so wierd how people normalized such a cringe word, and it was originally laughed at because people who often say it dont seem so intelligent.

also the words "academic incest" which is really wierd an cringe, it suppose to describe getting more than 1 degree, usually a grad and a UNDERGRAD In the same university.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

As an intellectual from The South, I’m taking it back. Y’all is a missing part of speech in the English language and follows known patterns. I use it with pride.

However, saying that out loud I realize I have opened myself up to w’all and will have to give that a try.

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