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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I would go back to Japan if my partner could/would learn the language.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

If I could live in no country I’d be so happy. But the only place to do that is a desert in Africa and my natural habitat is temperate forests.

So I guess Canada.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Canada, I'm a citizen there as well

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

We prefer the term colonizer or expat.

Refugees are the people from shiti countries invading US 🤡

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Dream? Hard to say since I've never been outside the US. Maybe Ireland?

Reality? Pretty much anywhere that I would have the opportunity to make a living.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Canada, Iceland, New Zealand, or Germany, in no particular order. Then again, of those 4, I've only been to Canada.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Even though things aren't going as they should, I wouldn't be likely to leave. I don't agree with a lot of what's happening here, but there's no nation I know that supports more of my beliefs and lifestyle than the USA. Plus, my family, my friends, and my loved ones are all here. Leaving would mean losing them, and that's totally unacceptable.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can you expand on your beliefs and lifestyle?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Not easily at the moment. I'll probably come back and give you some answers if I remember.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I don’t want to start over. I’d rather die.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In this thread: unimaginative white people mentioning popular European countries or places that will not welcome them due to restrictive and xenophobic immigration policies. Meanwhile I'll be content in Chile, Faroe Islands, Guam or Jordan.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I googled a bit, my best bet is Canada.

Large population of the Chinese diaspora, so I don't feel too much like a minority (I am Chinese American).

The other choice is Australia.

EU is great, but since the UK isn't in EU anymore, I'd have to chose a non-English country, meaning, I'd have to learn another language. My brain can't handle that. Already have 3 spoken and 2 written languages stuck in my head (mostly dormant, haven't used some those languages for a while), I think my brain will explode if I try to learn more. Population of the Chinese diaspora is too small. So I'd also feel alone, because like... Imagine living in a place where nobody looks like you. Like a Black American kid in the deep south of the US and all your classmates are white, that's how it feels basically. As for the UK, I wouldn't need to learn another language, but UK just had a xenophobic riot in 2024, doesn't seem too friendly in my opinion. If the UK was in EU, I could just pack up and to go another EU country if Shit Hits the Fan, its what I like about the EU, options. But too bad UK isn't in EU...

There is also Singapore, which has like over 70% ethnic Chinese, and the official languages include English and Mandarin, which I already know.

Not technically "dream countries", but the most realistic countries that would be livable for me. Because I doubt I can speak Norweigian or Finnish. (Even tho I would love those countries)

TLDR: As a Chinese American, Canada as first choice, Australia as second place. Then probably Sinapore.

(Sorry if I'm rambling, can't express it coherently since ICE raids are on my mind)

Edit: I would probably also say Taiwan as an option, well... other than the fact that they are constantly on the verge of getting invaded, and I am not fond of the CCP.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Probably Romania, cheap cost of living while still being in Europe and being a part of NATO.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Saint Kitts and Nevis. Economy sucks, internet too, but you can't beat the view.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (4 children)

No where. I like America. What are my other options, realistically? Britain which just banned porn? Australia which banned Hentai? Canada, which is just America but cold and sky high housing costs?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

I was trying to repatriate to Italy but they closed down the policy that would have let me return with my family.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Vietnam? Cuba? Hard to say, never having been out of the Continental USA.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Canada. I live on the border, been there more times than I can count, and it would be the easiest to move to.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Probably Argentina. Maybe SE Asia. But honestly, where ever all my friends decided to move, since we'd prob drag each other to one place or another. Although most likely scenario there is that we'd become a travelling commune with no official country. If the US actually collapsed, I'd lose a ton of money and would need to find some kind of work, so I'd hit up my connections and probably get a remote software gig. Idk, I'll figure it out when it happens.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Finland first, New Zealand second. Both have gun rights. Finland has a lot of empty space in the north, and Finns are, in general, not super interested in being highly social, despite historically having pretty solid social safety nets (although I hear the right is rising there, and that may not last). The largest barrier is that Suomi is a very difficult language to learn.

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