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He's always wore sketchers. Like since he was 4. Recently, he got really emotionally taking about shoes he wanted for middle school. He said if he doesn't get Nikes he's going to get teased. Great fucking marketing work Nike.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 hours ago

Buy him a crowbar.

Ultimate tool against bullying

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

The solution to bullying is to do as the bully says /s

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 hours ago

It seems to be working for America right now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Good luck fighting 200 8 year olds

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

Easy as an adult, not so much as a kid with a similar age

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

You're a shit parent if you're just going to give in.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Bullying like that can be extremely traumatic for kids. Yeah it's a shit situation, but I understand why they wouldn't want to deal with it. kids are generally shitty people in middle school and use any excuse to bully each other. You basically have 3 choices 1) give in and get the thing, 2) let them get bullied for the rest of middle school, 3) harden them to the point where the other kids are fucking terrified of them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

As if parents and schools can't intervene.
Shouldn't those 2 groups specificallybe trying to educate children to do better?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It doesn't really matter if the schools do. And the bully's parents are where they get it from. Kids don't care about branding unless they're instructed to do so by their families. I was bullied by a guy for years at school. Several adults tried to intervene, but it only stopped after I embedded a knife in the wall next to his head from across the room. Bullies like a reaction unless they think there's a legitimate chance you'll snap and murder them. Unfortunately that's not advice you can pass to your children.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 hour ago

I believe there's plenty that can be done.
And it may get the kids to react.
Maybe not with a knife but bullies aren't generally very tough anyway when confronted.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

I always find anti bullying measures kind of a waste of time. Adults will bully you way more, it just isn’t a swirly.

it’s making you fill out an application on a job prospects website even though the info is on the resume.

It’s every month when we pay rent.

It’s every paycheck we receive that doesn’t include our surplus labor value.

It’s a overdraft fee from your bank.

It’s ComcastXfinity purchasing your local government and ensuring you have no alternatives for an ISP.

It’s the “unprecedented call volume” you wait through that happens because the customer service phone line is purposely understaffed.

It’s your health insurance denying your claim.

It’s everywhere. Just because we hide it behind a curtain of the economic system doesn’t mean it changes the nature of these interactions.

If you want your kid to be successful, they should be a bully. Bullies are successful as fuck. Every parent should be teaching their child to be the biggest asshole douchebag bully ever.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

You’re just a shit person.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

For not wanting kids to grow up as shallow marketing simps?

Let me guess, you wear expensive shoes don't ya

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (2 children)

I grew up with a tenuous grasp on the middle class and generally don’t buy much premium shit, despite being able to afford a life of luxury. My most expensive shoes are a $100 pair I wear with a suit. The shoes I wear most days are $25. You’re just an asshole, is all.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm the asshole? Lmao you Litterally think bullying is all right and normal

Fighting one bully at a time by wearing the shoes they want you to wear /s

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

You’re the asshole for passing judgement on people who are trying to protect their kids from circumstances that are unknown to you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

Yes, not giving in to toxic bullying for having less money makes you an asshole, right.
What if another parent doesn't even have the choice to give in bcs they can't afford it? too bad for the kid right?
You're the POS here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

LOL your opinion means nothing

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Lmao, so what does your opinion mean?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

TF are you?
Some asshole getting blocked.
Bye asshole

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

Christ, what a snowflake.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Who knows if it's true. Kids can lie/exaggerate when they want stuff.
If it is true then wtf kind of school is this? I would go have a talk.
What if some other parent couldn't afford them? Will he let his kid join the mob mentality and bully him?
This goes further than shoes.
Just buying the stuff to get done with it and letting this toxic environment fester is def not the right move.
But fuck it, I'm not raising his kid.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I don't know if this is a bad idea, but recently all the Chinese manufacturers spoke out about how much the products they make actually cost, you can find the exact warehouse that makes them, and order directly from them, at a ridiculous mark down. Like a 10th of the price, or less. Might be worth some research. I see Adidas sambas for $10, including postage. They're all there. They just don't have the actual name label on them yet, because that's all they do when they reach the distributor, though, so might be useless to you.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 hours ago

I was too lazy to actually go find the specific warehouses. I just downloaded taobao, it's partially in English now. I've seen and saved a few tiktoks with descriptions of the locations and which places do which items / brands. I just genuinely don't have time to deep dive and do proper research, though.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Probably aliexpress or something

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Nah, you usually have to direct message them via WhatsApp. You will have to pay like 15 or 20 shipping, so people usually buy a few pairs at a time.

There are specific marketplaces for things, but they tend to only sell bulk. Aliexpress is all resellers.

I am not even sure if the ones I posted sell exact knock offs or not though.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Instead of getting him 300$ shoes give him the choice of the cool shoes or the latest coolest video game or the shoes, or whatever hobby he enjoys…

Kids tease other kids because they themselves feel insecure.. that’s literally all it is… if you need Nike shoes to feel secure you’re probably not a cool person anyways

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago

$300 shoes? I think the most expensive shoes I've ever bought were $70. I'm sure a lot of the issue with him getting picked on isn't so much brand name but him feeling like he has no say in what he wears and feeling like he is dressed by his parents in styles he has no say in. Its been 25 years since I entered middle school like this kid, but back then I would have felt the same way if my parents were forcing me to wear something I didn't like/want. It wasn't about price either. Often times the shoes my parents wanted me to wear were the same or higher in price, but styles change over time and vary by region/groups. People have their own personalities and prefer to fit in if they can. If the kid doesn't want to feel like a toddler and have more freedom in what they wear it isn't a bad thing.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Happened to me. Got Nikes, got teased because they were not a good enough model. Kids are monsters.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 hours ago

Yup. Learned that one back in the 3rd grade. This stuff is hard if you're not experienced enough to know how people work.

On the upside, I learned that one cannot buy their way into other's good graces, especially if they're going to require you to modify your behavior to get there; they're lying and that was never the issue. On the downside: holy shit that hurts once it goes wrong the first time.

As an adult I can also appreciate that there are situations where you can "buy your way in" to a club or status of some sort. IMO, those situations are generally not worth it to begin with, requiring an never-ending stream of cash to keep up appearances. Plus, it surrounds you with other people that also believe, and are invested, in the program. It's a recipe for elitism at best, and a big 'ol grift at worst. Better friends and relationships can be had for $0 everywhere else.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 13 hours ago

Yeah, he's not getting made fun of for his shoes. They're just a convenient target of ridicule. Son is about to learn a life lesson.

I'm sorry. People are shit.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 hours ago

Time to find a good counterfeit.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Well understood. His Mom was poor and bullied in school. So much so that she brings it up from time to time. She quickly bought him the shoes. I'm going to work on getting him Vans or Hookas in the future.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 hours ago

Parenting is hard. She didn't just by him bullying resistant shoes, She also bought herself a break from dealing with the guilt or fear of her son getting teased. And that's perfectly fine in my opinion, choose your fight because life has lots of them. Offering your son other options in the future will be good too. These are not Nike they're better.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Is he gonna smoke the kids in his Hokas or is he gonna smoke with the other kids behind the bleachers with his hookah?

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