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The only person laughing is usually the person who made the joke and it's generally just irritating to everyone else who just wants to get on with their day. I might feel differently if we like, got the day off work for April Fools Day I guess

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[–] BigSadDad@lemmy.world 55 points 11 months ago (3 children)

It's... not a holiday? It's just a thing people did and sometimes still do.

You sound bitter. Sorry someone tried to have fun around you.

[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago (5 children)

Nah man, keep in mind what people have considered jokes in the past x years. The "its only a prank" crowd in the past years have been absolutely atrocious. In fact they have not been jokes or pranks at all.

They have been things to totally humiliate the people. I have a feeling this is the kind of joke or prank that happened.

Even if its not the case, its totally possible the joke caused multiple people to laugh AT OP instead of WITH everyone.

[–] LonelyWendigo@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, all comedy is bad because I heard some bad jokes lately. Better trash the whole idea of jokes. Same energy.

[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I disagree.

If a prank goes out of its way to humiliate a person it’s not a joke. If that same person gets pranked every year in a way that is not fun for them they have a right to say I’m not a fan of this shit. They have a right to dislike it without a person responding “wow you’re no fun.”

This is unpopular opinions, and y’all getting on OP about how they are no fun because they don’t like “pranks” being pulled on them.

[–] LonelyWendigo@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Read what I said again and try harder.

Those are bad pranks. Nobody is defending bad pranks.

[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Read the original post again and try harder. YOU are defending bad pranks by making your comparison.

What the post is describing ARE bad pranks. If everyone is irritated and no one is laughing other than the person doing the prank, IS a bad prank. Reading the post about bad pranks and jumping all the way to "Better trash the while idea of jokes. Same energy" seems to show how much you are missing and your apathy.

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[–] plz1@lemmy.world 49 points 11 months ago (4 children)

If I have to work, I don’t consider it a holiday.

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[–] paddirn@lemmy.world 30 points 11 months ago (2 children)

It was great before all the companies started getting in on it, when it was just people pranking each other. I feel like at some point within the past 10-20 years, most “hip” companies come out with their own version of an April Fool’s day press release that are always so goddamn stale and expected now. They’ve just sucked all the fun out of what should be a spontaneous holiday between individuals, because you know those releases probably took weeks to craft and went through X levels of management to get approved.

[–] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 14 points 11 months ago

It’s absolutely gotten way worse the past 15 years or so.

As someone who works for a newspaper: the days leading up to and directly following april 1st tend to be very frustrating because of this.

Usually starting on the 30th, we get the first ‘funny’ press releases, with most showing up on the 31st. Which means you have to be extra careful not to use something that SEEMS plausible enough not to warrant extra suspicion on days other than april 1st.

As journalists, we’re perhaps more aware than most regarding potential pranks. We’re always taught to question sources. Which makes it all the more annoying that so many companies and organisations try to pull one over on us. Making reliable, accurate news is difficult enough as it is without all these fuckers trying to poison the well.

Basically, companies and organisations who do it usually get their press releases trashed for a month afterwards on principle. Waste my time? Welcome to the trash bin.

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[–] FinishingDutch@lemmy.world 26 points 11 months ago (6 children)

I absolutely loathe this day. Most of it is just dumb, silly and annoying. Especially when this dumb shit gets forced on you by companies whose marketing teams think they’re clever.

I also used to work at a radio/TV station where we covered pranks during april fools. That was a real eye-opener: there are waaaaay too many idiots out there who fall for jokes and take things at face value. Basically, they’re a cruel way to mess with vulnerable, gullible people.

Now, if someone wants to make a joke at their own expense, go for it. But don’t do it at the expense of others.

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[–] cryoistalline@lemmy.ml 25 points 11 months ago (1 children)

For me, the thing i find most annoying about april fools are the days afterwards. I don't know if a piece of recently uploaded media is actually real or satire until I check the date its uploaded.

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[–] ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.de 23 points 11 months ago

Upvoted because I disagree. (That's how it works here, right?)

Nobody fooled me IRL and it's been a fun day on the internet.

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 22 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Its twice as irritating as an Australian because if you dont wait till the day is over to share things you just get bombarded by Americans telling you it isnt April 1st yet because they dont understand time zones.

[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

April Fools! They do understand time zones and they got you!! Those wily Americans!

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[–] Mastengwe@lemm.ee 22 points 11 months ago (1 children)
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[–] Vilian@lemmy.ca 19 points 11 months ago (1 children)

... i should downwote you or not

[–] snooggums@midwest.social 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I think we upvote the post if it is unpopular, but upvote the comments if we think they are contributing to discussion about the unpopular thing.

[–] Turun@feddit.de 5 points 11 months ago

But the post was created on April the first - so is it meant to be taken seriously or not? Because that inverts the opinion and therefore my vote.

[–] 01011@monero.town 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

It’s not a real holiday.

Christmas and Easter are more foolish.

[–] rab@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 months ago (7 children)

Foolish but I'll take a day off for any reason. In Canada we even have a holiday for the queen LOL

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[–] JonsJava@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I actually enjoy it. Being a dad gives me a different perspective, I guess.

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[–] underwire212@lemm.ee 13 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Eh. It’s 1 day a year. Yeah kinda stupid but it’s not like it’s every week or something.

Anyway, have your upvote.

[–] tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 12 points 11 months ago (2 children)

There is places where it's an actual holiday?

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[–] BallsandBayonets@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Blame the king who wanted January 1st to be New Year's instead of April 1st. Were it not for him we'd still be using the far more logical start date of April 1st and there wouldn't be any pranks to make fun of people who think that the beginning of spring is a better start to the year than the dead middle of winter.

[–] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

Curse you Numa Pompilius, second king of Rome! 😤😤😤

[–] noughtnaut@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Serious question, why is April far more logical?

[–] johannesvanderwhales@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

Yeah I don't know about "logical", I'd say it's arbitrary either way. I think in Asia the calendar traditionally aligned that way, since spring is "beginnings", but it seems every bit as logical to put the new year around the winter solstice.

[–] MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

I guess because that's around the beginning of spring? New year, new growth?

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[–] thegiddystitcher@lemm.ee 10 points 11 months ago

Most "pranks" are just a) terribly unfunny, b) actually bullying by another name, or c) both.

If we could just keep the rare good ones I'd be all for it, but alas!

[–] BugleFingers@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

A good and proper prank leaves both Parties happy and satisfied with the prank. Otherwise it's basically just harassment.

Secondly, it should only be done on willing people, usually this limits you to people you know, and know would be accepting of such interaction.

Prank culture has gotten sour and uncouth at this point so I can agree many people (for lack of a better phrase) "do it wrong". But really it is fun and can be a great form of bonding when done correctly as well as even potentially a way to show how well you know someone by personalizing it in a really fun way.

Years ago I had roomies and we had a figurine that randomly appeared about the apartment. if you saw it or found it you'd move it to a funny spot to prank the other roommates. It'd show up in pantries, the shower, on top of doors, outside your window, holding random stuff, etc. It was great, everyone enjoyed it and left everyone with good memories. That's IMO, a good prank.

[–] willya@lemmyf.uk 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] grue@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Is the joke that it sits there loading forever, or are the privacy extensions in my browser breaking it?

(Either way, kinda disappointed that it isn't a rickroll.)

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[–] alekwithak@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

100 Percent in agreement. Always hated the day, but now that it's the anniversary of my mom's brain cancer diagnosis I cannot stand the stupid jokes and shit eating grins.

[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 9 points 11 months ago

You must not watch The Lockpicking Lawyer.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lol try saying that on someone's April 1st post. You'll get a lot of angry people because you think it's annoying and you're just "ruining their fun". It's been a fun morning lmfao

[–] snooggums@midwest.social 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Have you tried not being a wet blanket?

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 13 points 11 months ago

everyone having fun

"Uh hi yeah actually this sucks"

gets downvoted

"Wtf guys what did I do?"

[–] Son_of_dad@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

I hate it when a news site or otherwise serious site does it

[–] tygerprints@kbin.social 6 points 11 months ago

I did a spongebob thing and poured myself 400 glasses of lemonade with little umbrellas for breakfast. April Fools on me, I'm not even thirsty!! AH HA HA HA HA oh man, I'm going away with the nice men in white coats now.....

[–] undergroundoverground@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

To me, having to pretend that the comodification of romance is remotely romantic is far more stupid. However, I'd say April fools is definitely second place for most dumb.

[–] sagrotan@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You know the wrong people. Most i get are clever and planned. Or they don't do it at all. My wife's selling hand dyedB yarn & this April's new quality was "Silky Mint" - and guess what: people bought it. 500m floss to knit what? A dentists coat???

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[–] northendtrooper@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 months ago

April Fools day was fun for me when I was younger and the internet really didn't exist. But today as an adult and dealing with the onslaught of responsibility and mis/disinformation from the internet has made me cynical of this day. Could be that I'm becoming jaded.

[–] 21Cabbage 5 points 11 months ago

At least in Colorado it's a day for being a hooligan on the ski slopes which I think is way more fun for everybody.

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