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[–] [email protected] 166 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (7 children)

What does 'lock in' mean in this situation?

Yours faithfully,

a confused Brit.

[–] [email protected] 135 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Gen Z slang for saying "get it together and focus"

[–] [email protected] 40 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Ah ok, thanks.

Where I'm from a lock in is a pub illegally serving drinkers after time by locking the doors.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Lock ins were all night parties for kids when I was growing up. Parents in 80s USA, wow.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Undoubtedly, apologies if it was understood that I spoke as the sole arbiter of lock ins.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

libraries sometimes too. basically an overnight in a non-residential space?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

My parents went to them at skating rinks where they would take their skates off and dance on the rink. They called them sock hops.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Ok... So maybe this is a dumb question, but is it helpful to hear that when you're having a hard time?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 months ago (2 children)

i think it could be, depending upon circumstances. likewise, i think it could also be actively harmful (depending upon circumstances).

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

And personality type.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

God you guys sure like to make assumptions. This place is already shaping up to be like Reddit🤣🤣🤣🤣

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

"It depends on your circumstances"

What assumptions???

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is that not how discussions work?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Discuss discussions, not straight up speculation

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

It depends.

It could mean just try to put bad thoughts aside until the workday/workweek ends and really try to get intentional tunnel vision. In a corporate world of hell capitalism, I get it. Not a great sign that we have slang for it, but I get it.

It could also mean emotionally disconnect for the next while and just do what's mechanically important (work, often gym). This one's worse and it's what you're thinking of.

It's been used a fair bit around me.

[–] [email protected] 52 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Buck up. Suck it up. Maintain an even strain. I get it.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Traditionally, to be "locked in" on something would mean to be locked in on your target, goal, etc.

Telling someone to lock in or "lock it in" is kind of like a nice way of saying "get your shit together" or "focus up". I hear it in sports/ gaming lingo.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

So it's something like 'man up'. Ok, I can understand that.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

There are negative connotations around "man up"

"Lock in" it just a fancy way to say, focus. But with a "we've got this" vibe to it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

gaming lingo

I see. So just press Tab, right?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

If you're using a web browser press ctrl+w

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I do believe if someone told me to "lock in" while I was on a video game I would fall over laughing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I mean that's the point kind of haha. I know some people use the lingo unironically, but if I tell my homies I'm bout to lock in, clutch up, and secure the dub, I don't want them to take me seriously, lmao.

When my buddies are playing, and we're being loud, telling jokes, and generally goofing around instead of paying attention, one of the common things we'll jokingly say when the laughter dies down is "alright alright alright, focus up guys, let's focus up".

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Oh good. I've met people in games who take them way too seriously.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 months ago

Stiff upper lip old chap!

God, it's like none of you speak Brit.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Cowboy up.

Get your boot straps out the dirt.

Cryers don't get healthcare.

(Okay I'm running out of Americanisms)

It's telling someone to stop being emotional.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'd say it's telling someone to focus on a task at hand

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yeah but if that task isn't something that someone's life depends on turn it's a pretty dick move.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Like "I need to lock in and finish this essay" sort of thing

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You can ask for an extension.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is there context here that I'm missing? I'm confused

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Yeah an essay isn't an emergency. Telling someone they have to stop crying is physically and mentally harmful. So doing so without some on going reason they absolutely have to stop is a dick move.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

I see it as Stay Focused

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

It's akin to "get over it" in this context.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I say less get over it and more "you got this"

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

IMO same thing, it's all just dismissing the other person's feelings and thoughts.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

How is "you got this" dismissive? It's literally letting the person know that you support them and they can handle the challenge or whatever, did someone use "you got this" sarcastically with you when you were a child?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No, how is it not? Even reading it verbatim word for word. YOU got this, where is the we in that? And again, it's just completely dismissive, ignores any and all problems with 3 meaningless words.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

On a scale of 1 to 10 how autistic would you say you are?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago