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[–] [email protected] 135 points 1 year ago (2 children)

At first glance I thought the 2nd person had a boner because their guy was coming over.

[–] [email protected] 68 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not, I’m not getting the strip. Is that not what’s happening?

[–] [email protected] 129 points 1 year ago

I think she's talking to her genitalia

[–] [email protected] 81 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Her thumb is hooked in the jeans so she can peek in, but I also thought it was a boner at first.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Really looks like she was pitching a tent

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago (15 children)

Nah, your genitalia doesn't need a haircut. If he can't handle your adult woman's genital hair, he does not deserve to have sex with you.

[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Nah, your fingernails don't need a trim. If she can't handle your adult man's untrimmed fingernails inside her, she does not deserve to have sex with you."

Hair that's long and overgrown can cause problems just like long fingernails can cause problems. Keeping them trimmed so they don't is just being considerate of your partner.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Long fingernails digging inside a vaginal canal are not the same thing as a woman letting her genital hair grow to its natural length.. one will cause pain and bleeding and possible infections. Other is maybe you'll get it in your mouth sometimes..

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

It can cause a rash through friction

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I've rarely seen anyone on Lemmy get nuked this hard for a bad take. I'm in awe.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

You're more likely to get friction from stubble than grown and trim hair.

[–] [email protected] 71 points 1 year ago

You don't need to go down to the hardwood, but you should still trim your shit.

Unless that's what you're into, then you do you.

[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 year ago

If you don’t want to trim, then don’t.

I feel more attractive and confident in my body when my body hair is well groomed. Doesn’t need to be clear cut but also I don’t want whoever’s going down on me to deal with a jungle.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 year ago (2 children)

We're gatekeeping hygiene now?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Cutting your hair isn't "hygine". You can still keep it clean and without ever doing it. (I know this is an internet forum and it is almost impossible to come as non-antagonistic so genuine appeals are meaningless, but still I'll try:) Consider introspecing why it feels a fully formed bush feels 'icky' to you.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Consider introspecing why it feels a fully formed bush feels ‘icky’ to you

Because we're not fucking chimps, so I'd rather not go to bed with one.

Also, yes – it is antihygienic. No matter how long you spend washing a hairy part of your body, it'll always be cleaner without hair.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You really seem bothered by this. It comes across as fiercly opposed the the removal of body hair. And I understand the harm i see you trying to oppose.

But ive read 4 or 5 or your responses now and it seems like you are just being argumentative. Which is missed opportunity given your passion on this

From my observers perspective, it is not doing you any favours to just keep telling people they are wrong. It would go a long way to help your cause(hair removal is not a necessity and shouldnt be a forced custom)

A haircut can be a lot of different things cant it? The comic doesn't state what the end result will be. But it doesnt use the word shave it says haircut. Which is as much about styling as it is about removing hair. As someone who just got a haircut after 5 months of letting it go its own way, i just wanted it trimmed up and looking like i actually care about it because it was a bit wild and out of control. I didnt shave it off. Just needed to shape it to what I think looks good. I didnt do it for anyone elses benefit other than my own opinion. I did it for me to make me feel pretty. And im a hairy ass dude with a fantastic beard who has way more body hair issues than the average person

The idea is no different than if you reversed the places or situation.

But what i wish you were doing was explaining where you are coming from and why you feel so passionately about this opinion. I feel like you have a good message that is not getting out because you are just hammering away at people responding to you with stating your position instead of sharing your view on this and painting a picture of what it looks like where that position is.

If i could see what you see i might gain a new perspective. But im not new to this conversation and i can very few roads to lead me to it again.

And the problem with that is comment sections are not a public event, and there are likely more people who need to see a bigger picture than to already have an opinion. It takes work. It feels tedious and laborious to always have to teach people things you feel you shouldnt have to, but it is worth it. Its worth it to put the effort in so you can by your thankless effort be a mentor for some young or just innocent person finding out about themselves that body hair isnt something to be ashamed of even if you dont like your own body sometimes.

The effect(affect?) i think you want is one i agree with and support is one of loving thyself. Style is a form of expression. Expression is a form of communication more complex than words alone will ever be.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The bottom line is that hygiene is subjective. If a person feels that they need to shave because they come off as cleaner, that's all it takes to consider it hygiene.

It's no different from shaving your legs or face.

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago

I take it you're part of the "if he likes it shaved he's a pedophile" crowd huh?

[–] [email protected] 52 points 1 year ago

I bet you thought you were so woke for this.

[–] perdvert 50 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Anybody that says this doesn't eat out enough. Licking hair suuuucks.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

tbh I never mind taking a moment to find the treasure through the forest, but to each their own

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You don't need to lick the hair. Part the hair then get in there. #lifehack

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago

The healthiest way to go about it is to just have a conversation with your partner if its a concern at all. For some, one's answer could be a deal breaker, and for others it's not a problem. Communication is key here.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm just gonna throw out there that I'm a fan of hair, but it ain't mine to judge or control. People need to chill out a bit lol

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even if you're a fan of hair, I'm sure the concept of "you need a haircut" is valid to you too, I don't usually mind either way but once had a FWB who did zero trimming and it was... Not ideal.

Almost everyone does a bit of hedge trimming even if they keep the bush

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What are basing this on? You can wash your hair just like everywhere else during regular showers.

I'd like to implore you to consider why these aesthetic standards of what's ideal are what they are and why they exist

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

They are what they are because people find it more attractive.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

So, you grow your head hair down to your knees, then? Never cut your fingernails?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

I'd bet 10 bucks you're gross as fuck

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago

A literal crotch goblin?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (8 children)

This feels like furthering normativity about aesthetic standards but sure it's just a comic

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (3 children)

The girl talking to her own pussy? Maybe because she has her own opinions and preferences that differ from yours?

What a stupid comment

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sorry the current trend is clean shaved/trimmed

No one's telling you to shave your puss. If that's not your thing, no one cares but you.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

You don't have to turn everything into a mediocre sociology essay.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The girl is allowed to form her own opinion on aesthetics. Stop forcing your view on other people, you hypocrite.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

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I feel pressure to participate in modern social aesthetics

"Yet, you continue to participate in modern social aesthetics, I am very intelligent"

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

normativity about aesthetic standards

Somebody needs to stop listening to slogans.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I find it funny that sharing any type of take about these "sensitive subjects" is a russian roulette kind of thing these days

posting either this comment or the comic itself in slightly different times of the day and communities could be the difference between praise and roast

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago
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