Hooray for boobies.
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I have it on pretty good authority that everyone who likes having sex with humans likes female boobs. And plump round asses. It's some deeply ingrained evolutionary stuff.
Doesn't mean a gay guy is gonna go straight because of some nice tits, but he can appreciate them erotically.
Yeah nah gay guy here to ruin your theory - I’ve got absolutely no attraction to boobs and/or feminine asses. I’m sure some tendency towards bisexuality is more common than strict homo/hetero-sexuality, but I strongly doubt I’m alone in this either.
Also a gay man, and yeah. No sexual attraction to boobs at all. I've played with straight girl boobs while drunk, because straight girls do that when you're in your teens and early 20s, but it's always been sort of a drunk funning around thing, not a sex thing. I have the exact same amount of sexual attraction to girl boobs as I have to, like, knees. They're a body part, that's about it.
As a straight man, I can appreciate that another man is handsome while feeling no sexual attraction towards him. I would assume you can feel the same way towards a woman, appreciate the beauty without the desire to screw them.
As for what OP asks, I don't think that is at the same level of "attraction".
This is interesting. Bear with me, it's 2am, I'm overtired, and this is purely for discussion. Also, this caught the attention of my adhd, so if I try to ignore it I probably won't sleep at all. Anyway, I wonder if it has some basis on how sexuality is represented in the brain in gay men vs gay women. I'm reasoning this because, well...
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Lesbians: Like the boobas and butts of other women. According to reports women also tend to swing more loosely with their sexuality.
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Straight Women: Even women who identify as straight can be attracted to other women sexually, just not intimately. They like to also look.
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Gay Men: From my experience in life, on Reddit, and here on Lemmy, gay men tend to lack similar appreciation for women. Predictably they find other men to be all the rage. There seems to be a more stringent sexual and intimate preference.
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Straight Men: Yet while straight men like the ladies, we also now know a larger population of males tend toward bisexual curiosity. We are also aware of the sexual repression still prevalent, though arguably less so than ever before.
So what am I getting to? Well, I believe that either gender has a genetic disposition towards the feminine form. On the same tree, both genders tend to enjoy the male form on the same level less. Could this be linked to some ancient survival mechanism a la reproduction? Why does it appear that the woman body is more popular with three of the four major categories and yet to gay men more often completely unremarkable?
I dunno, my brain is yelling at me to sleep. Could anyone add anything? I'm mostly curious and promise I'm not attempting to head in some unknown terrible conclusion someone is bound to try and rope it all into.
You can tell I've had some interesting responses from people on some subjects.
I believe that either gender has a genetic disposition towards the feminine form.
I am not sure you can conclude that. Environmental factors likely play a large role here as well as genetic factors. I feel we tend to idolize and sexualize the female form far more then the male form these days. But if you look back and different cultures that did the same with the male form I suspect you would see an opposite trend to both genders preferring the male form more often.
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Doesn’t mean a gay guy is gonna go straight because of some nice tits, but he can appreciate them erotically.
Is that actually the case though? Wouldn't you have to be straight or bi/pan/etc to appreciate them erotically?
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I imagine they like boobs more than straight guys. They don't like straight guys very much at all.
even straight women like them. I was listening to some NPR thing about this guy in his 50s who got implants, and sometimes wears dresses and heels, but still considers himself a cis man, and his wife said fucking a man with tits is one of the hottest things you can do.
She is probably bisexual. Just saying.
I remember reading a post where the she's explaining her bisexuality to her grandma and grandma goes, "oh everyone has those feeling. I had feelings for one of my girl friends when i was a teenager." She then had to explain that no not everyone has those feelings.
she said she was straight. how's about we don't go around telling other people their sexual orientations
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Npr was wildin that day lol
I am lesbian - love them A LOT in a sexual way and for comfort.
I suspect that the enjoyment of boobies is sort of subjective to each individual for both lesbians and straight men alike
Personally, I fucking love them
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Pansexual woman chiming in; boobs are distractingly wonderful!. I'm more of a butt girl, but always appreciate nice boobs 😅
Being a dominatrix, might help though. Nipple clamps, biting them, teasing them; it all adds to my pleasure.
Had a lesbian friend, she liked ass more.
Por que no los dos?
AFAIK even gay guys love boobs. I’m pretty sure everyone loves boobs
not this gay guy, y'all can enjoy em all you want tho
I had gay friends who also look at boobs when they see it.
In their drunkest, they were also willing to motor boat them.
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Do all straight guys like boobs the same?
I'm a straight guy. I don't think I like boobs like most other straight guys.
Heretic
Just as no two boobs are the same, a straight man's love of boobs is a beautiful individual flower.
Personally I'm more of a leg guy 🤷♂️.
And I don't particularly like overly large breasts, which lots of people seem to enjoy. A handful is fine, thank you very much.
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We pretty much all love them. Some of us love them even more than that...
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Asexual and sex-repulsed married lesbian here. Although I love my wife romantically very much, I don’t want to do anything to her chest.
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