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Most people just want a good life. If we stopped seeing each other as the enemies the world could be better.

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Idk one side wants to enslave, murder, and rape. The other does not.

Let's just be friends as they take away my rights and everyone I love rights away, we shouldn't be enemies as they hunt down and murder someone for "existing"

Maybe we shouldn't be friends with the enemy and fight against the regime?

This is one of the was Nazis came into power, by manipulating the mass thinking "oh we should all be friends" and now look what happened.

-a trans non-binary disabled person

[–] [email protected] 18 points 7 months ago (1 children)

There aren't only two sides to every issue. Thinking like that is limiting.

[–] leftzero 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Regardless of how many sides there are, it is an undeniable fact that plenty of people (in the USA in particular, apparently, a majority of the voters) choose to be in (a) side(s) that want(s) to enslave, murder, and rape.

And many others choose to be in (a) side(s) that enable(s) the previous one(s).

No civilised society should accept any of those sides, or those that choose them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

It seems that way because of the two party system brought upon by how votes are counted and winners chosen (winner takes all). If you watch jubilee, you'll see just how fragmented both parties are (good example of pro and anti trump republicans). Forcing people to choose between one or the other has led to the USA becoming very black and white.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

solidarity means solidarity. other working class people are not your enemy (re: 1984). the all or nothing mindset accomplishes nothing besides closing your mind off to the plights and perspectives of others.

-also trans and disabled

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Amen.

What the people who want to control us don't want us to realize is that you have a lot more in common with the Chinese/Russian/Ukrainian/Mexican/Indian working class... Factory worker/programmer/hard-working house wife... Then you do with your own political leaders and billionaires. People with servants who don't ever worry about bills. (Biden, Trump, Harris, Vance, Elon, Gates, Bezos, etc)... Don't look at the foreigners as different and the enemy... Look at the Rich and the Politicians (who want us to blame the foreigners)

[–] [email protected] 18 points 7 months ago

No war but class war.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (5 children)

It’s by design. ~~Divide and conquer~~ Combine and conquer has been the playbook since they (anti-labor think tanks like the Progressive Policy Institute and others that seek to keep labor infighting) started studying group psychology.

FPTP contributes more than its share to the tribalism and poor infighting we see in the US and the UK.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I don't see MAGA people as the enemy because they want to pay less in taxes. I see them as the enemy because they don't think my kids should exist in society and are actively passing legislation to make it so.

Delete this shit take.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It may be more directed at them than you.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Username checks out

[–] [email protected] 22 points 7 months ago (1 children)

The major difference is money. We should be banding together against the rich, but instead we distract ourselves with what we look like, what we sound like, where we come from, what team (sports, town, city, state, country, ...) we support, which sex we have, and a bunch of other things that divide us.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I'm not sure that's true. One side has empathy. The other does not. I don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't have empathy.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago

I kind of see your point there. My hope though is that maybe people could gain more empathy for each other by understanding that we are all human and I hope that one day people can understand each other's struggles.

[–] leftzero 3 points 7 months ago

They see the world as a zero sum game. They can't imagine being happy unless someone else is unhappy.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 7 months ago

I only see people as an enemy if they've declared themselves as such. I'm not gonna make the first move, life is too short to make enemies with everyone I meet. That said, if you've got a swastika tattooed on your forehead then I'm gonna take that as a declaration that you're my enemy.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago

Some are fascists. Some are not. That's a pretty big distinction.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (5 children)

I have been struggling with this lately. I am staunchly anti violence and anti war, and yet, I am conflicted on how far I truly would be willing to go to cull classism, fascism, racism, transphobia , homophobia, misogyny, and pedophilia from the world.

These things are abhorrent to me, and I wonder how much of my humanity I'd be willing to sacrifice in exchange for even one of these to no longer being in existence amongst the ranks of humanity.

How much good does pacifism give to the world in promoting the better angels of our nature? How much harm does it do when those same principles allow the worst among us to march down our roads and drag away our loved ones in the night?

Two scenes from media I consume have lately continually resurfaced in my mind. One is this scene from Vinland Saga, where the main character's father confronts him when he finds his sword. The father is about to go off to war, and somberly asks his son who he wants to kill with his father's sword. This culminates with the father, who again, is about to go off to war, emphatically declaring to his son that he has no enemies, that there is no such thing as enemies.

The other is this scene from Star Wars Andor, in which a high level spy of a burgeoning Rebellion is asked by a compatriot (who wishes to quit fighting the Empire due to possibly being found out), asks what he sacrifices for the fight against the Empire. The monologue he delivers is chilling, acknowledging he sacrifices all things that make him human, he becomes like his enemy in order to defeat them. When he reflects on the question, and asks, "So what do I sacrifice? Everything!"

That...is what I believe I will have to give up in order for there to be a sunrise for the people I love tomorrow. I'll have to give up my humanity, everything. And I am afraid. I am selfish. I don't want to. But I don't know any other way.

The feelings that scene stir up in me resonate because that is how I feel when I think on the fascist cancer that has once again metastasized in America. Having no enemies... if only. Truly. Having enemies robs me of my humanity, because in fighting them I must bury my humanity. And I know that once I do that, there's no going back. There will be no redemption.

The thing I am struggling with is... am I the one who makes them my enemies? Or are they? And if the only thing we can agree on is that we are enemies...then what choice do we have when they come for me and those I claim as my kin?

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us shall we not revenge?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

No. Some people want to control other people because of their various sky daddies or a simple greed. And those are the ones fucking up your life. Everyone else could more or less get along, but fanatics, billionaires and other people hungry for control of others are actively make sure we don't.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago

Like South Park on religion: "you're all so focused on the stupid little differences that you're not seeing the big, stupid similarities."

[–] leftzero 8 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Most people seem to want others not to have a good life, ignoring or disregarding the effects that might have on themselves.

Many if not most would sacrifice their own wellbeing if that guarantees that "the right people" will also suffer. They see the world as a zero sum game, and can't conceive the possibility of having a good life if others aren't having a bad one.

Most people suck, often to the point of being monstrous by any decent definition.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 7 months ago (3 children)

most

Source?

I'm pushing back on this viewpoint wherever I'm seeing it. Humans are certainly flawed in a lot of ways, especially in how easy it can be to mislead us, but this cynical worldview that most people are actively wanting others to hurt is not based in reality. Honestly it sounds like me when I was in the depths of depression.

I think we have a major problem with how we share and consume news. Stories are shared as screen-capped headlines that emphasize the Bad thing that happened, and even if you find the original article, it's stuffed with ads that make you not want to bother. Random one-off bad/stupid things that one person did somewhere far away are reported as world news without statistics and context.

The result? Increasing cynicism. The good, uplifting stories rarely come through. People begin to base their worldview and how they interact with other people on this "fact" that most people suck. This culminates in them becoming the thing that they think everyone is - they go through life scared of or angry at other people by default.

It isn't an inevitability. Maybe I'm wrong, but believing in people is a much better existence, even when they occasionally let me down.

[–] leftzero 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Source?

I mean... [ gestures broadly at everything ]

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Yeah checks out for Lemmy

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Problem is that people are fairly easily told that their less-than-optimal situation is the fault of those people, regardless of it being true or not.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 7 months ago (2 children)

And someone says they are a trump supporter and suddenly its all just calling everyone a fascist time.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 7 months ago (1 children)

You know what, you're totally right. There's plenty of other accurate single-word descriptions that could be used to add some more variety:

Shortsighted, dogmatist, sociopath, mysognist, bootlicker, Neanderthal, degenerate, cultist, egotistical, simpleton, supremacist, etc.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

U and the other 7 people who downvoted really did miss op's point lol.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

OP says everyone just wants to have a good life, you come in an intentionally antagonize people. It's pretty clear who missed the point.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (2 children)

They get really mad when you point out that Harris is also fascist by there definition.

In reality they are in a echo chamber where they only see good things about Harris and bad things about Trump

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Actually, I'm special. The right told me my parents told me so.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'm more special. I look down on you derisively.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Exactly what someone who's just like everyone else would say tbh

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I'm so much more like everybody else than you.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

Yup we're all idiots

[–] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago

Paradox of tolerance

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

Nah.

A life of experience tells me most people is awful, and will have zero regards on making your life miserable for whatever reason they see fit.

People is generally bad, they just are like that. My simple existence is hated and ilegal in most of the word. Most of people in this planet wish me death without even knowing me just because how I am.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago

Bro discovered Christianity

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

This is something we all need to remember

Have empathy and realize that people can have there own views. They aren't dumb because they disagree with you

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago

Yeah, but also people have very different ideas of what good life is, and what stops them from having it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago

True. For example we are all made of ~~delicious~~ nutritious meats.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

I think if you peel back the ego, the "self" is just obligations that we've made to try to create an "identity" like "I have to draw I'm an artist". "Oh, I have to go to school because I'm a smart person and I don't want to XYZ."

It's all just fluff, or an illusion. If we were to truly be free of all obligations we would find out quickly that we are all the same consciousness wearing different masks. I am me, and I am you, and you are me. If you were to be able to switch perspectives with someone else I'd be surprised if it felt any different than being in your own body.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago

Every molecule that makes up our entire existence came from the fusion of a hot star, and no matter what it looks like right now, it will once again be both the precursor and the product of many more stars.

In that regard we are all identical and inconsequential.

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