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[–] [email protected] 44 points 6 days ago (3 children)

It's worse. Fabric softener is composed of an anti static oil. When you run it in the laundry, it coats all of your clothes with a very thin layer of oil.

Which is why towels dried with fabric softener and dryer sheets don't absorb water anywhere near as well as plain towels dried without it!!

My mom complained to me for years that I wasn't "doing it right" by not using fabric softener. But her towels are useless compared to mine! She continues to spends $100/ year on fabric softener while on social security. Over the year she has spent thousands and thousands of $$$. πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

Not only that, some people (including myself) are sensitive to the oils used. Having underwear that actively makes you itchy sucks. I switched to wool dryer balls and never looked back

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 6 days ago (5 children)

If only millennials bought more fabric softener instead of avocados and coffee they would be able to afford a house.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 6 days ago (8 children)

That homemade laundry soap made with bar soap would be a nightmare in hard water. I don't even want to think about soap scum in the drains and in my clothes.

I just use the smallest amount of detergent I can get out of the bottle, that works well. And don't wash a garment after wearing it once if it's not underwear. Invested in a lot of Merino stuff which manages to be comfortable even here in Florida and doesn't stink ever. I can wear those shirts and just hang them back up.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I'm happy buying detergent honestly - it last a LONG time when you actually use the correct amount per load. I think the real crime is the "measuring caps" on liquid detergent basically tricking everyone into using WAY too much detergent. Most washers will recommend 1-2 tablespoons of detergent maximum for heavily soiled loads.. Most measuring caps are over that even at the first of several marks, and people rarely think they need the minimum (moar soap moar clean, right?) - so people tend to add 5-10 times the detergent they need.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago

It's worth noting that cat owners(at least, never had anything buts cats) should avoid certain essential oils, As our furry pals' little organs aren't equipped to process them, and they can easily be deadly!

@[email protected], saw you mention essential oils too, just a PSA.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I can't imagine baking baking soda in an oven is cheaper than just buying washing soda? They're both sold in similar size bags (1kg) for similar prices in my area (€9-€10). Seems like a waste of energy to buy the wrong type of carbonate.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Some people will literally discard economies of scale just to be sanctimonious.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago

Fabric softener is great. Mix a bit with water and use it to clean your shower glass doors/walls. It removes limescale like a charm thanks to the anionic surfactants that are in there. And the Aldi store brand costs hardly anything.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I'm not convinced about the cost. A kilogram of borax seems to run about $10CAD. 2 cups, at 1.7g/CC, would be about 850g, so $7 just for the Borax. Unless there's a much cheaper place to get it...

A ~5L jug of Tide costs $31, or about $6/L. If they have approximately equivalent cleaning power per volume, Tide wins.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Most of that tide jug is water.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Yeah, which is why I added the note about cleaning power per unit volume. But it'd have to be a fair bit more powerful to make the effort worth it, I think.

We use maybe 50ml of Tide (so that'd be probably 100 loads) when doing our laundry, so if that's equivalent to like one tablespoon of the Borax mix, I could see it saving me $20 or so overall, if it's three times stronger.

So it'd come down to how much time I spend shopping and combining the mixture vs just buying it.

Mind, that's just the borax. Bar soap and baking soda are cheap but not free.

(edit: and before someone jumps on me about "baking soda", I was thinking of it in terms of decomposing it into carbonate in the oven. I haven't priced out washing soda)

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Honestly at a loss here. The title references fabric softener, but the content relates more specifically to DIY laundry detergent while only mentioning that softener makes clothes more vulnerable to wear & tear. What's the nitty-gritty on the fabric softener? Does it actually damage clothing in some way?

As geek analogy, is it like the subatomic bacteria that starts destroying the Klingon ship in Star Trek: the Next Generation S2E8's "A Matter Of Honor", or does it just make the material more susceptible to tearing?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago (2 children)

https://www.scienceabc.com/eyeopeners/how-do-fabric-softeners-work.html

It was created so that when you dried clothes outside (especially cotton) they didn't get crunchy. The fibers tend to freeze an interlock microscopically when they dry. It coats the fibers and makes them not stick together.

When mechanical dryers became the norm, they needed a new reason, so the called out static. And in some climates, dryer static can be a bit of a pain. Dryer balls supposedly help with this, but I can't find any reasonable data to back that up, and that's just the kind of thing we're confirmation bias over.

Softener can/will build up on the fabric. It can discolor bright whites.

I think the worst of it is:

  • if you use it on towels or anything meant to absorb water, it seriously dampens that ability
  • it builds up in the nooks and crannies of the washer and it's hard to clean off,
  • it's expensive
  • for mechanical drying in moderate climates, it does little more than add smell.
  • some people have allergenic reactions to it
[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago (6 children)

Dryer balls supposedly help with this

From what I've heard, dryer balls help the drying process by warming up faster than the wet clothes and drying from inside the pile. And even if that turns out to have been misinformation, I'm not too annoyed by it because it's a single low-cost expense whereas dryer sheets are consumables

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I worked in appliances for about ten years, and not a single washer manufacturer would actually recommend using fabric softener. It horribly gums up the workings of the machine, even when you use the tiny amount you are actually supposed to (which most people use way too much). They are (or were originally) basically just animal fats and emulsifiers with some fragrance thrown in. They smell awful when they are left stuck somewhere for a long time (like the outer walls of the inner tub of your washing machine - seriously, it probably looks furry if you opened it up to see).

I can't speak to what it does to your clothes specifically, but I can imagine several downsides to essentially coating fabric in lavender scented industrial mayonnaise.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 days ago (1 children)

This new generation can't do anything and spends money frivolously.... This generation is too stingy and resourceful.... Guys pick a damn lane.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

It's worth wondering how much fabric softener would cost someone over their adult lifetime as an exercise. Let's say 50 years of adulthood, and 12 bottles a year costing $10 each. That's six grand. For something that serves no functional purpose, makes towels less effective and has an environmental impact.

So yes it's a scam. If someone really needs to use fabric softener, at least buy a cheaper supermarket brand and use it sparingly.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

12 bottles a year??? Lmfao exactly how much laundry you got? Assume a family of 4 does 3 loads a week (12 a month). A bottle of Snuggle fabric softener ($8) has roughly 112 rinse loads.

That's 112 rinse loads /12 wash loads a month = 9.3 months

2 bottles max a year at a whopping $16.

$16 x 50 years= $800

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago

probably most everything is a scam if you look close enough.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago (6 children)

I don't know about needing to make your own detergent. But using dry detergent would be a drastic improvement in cost compared to what most people do because if you're buying liquid detergent, most of what you're buying is water.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 days ago (2 children)

im ok with buying a container of laundry detergent every few months

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yeah I don't use fabric softener or dryer sheets but a good value size jug of detergent is worth it to me. My wife and I both work two jobs., I don't want to spend any time grating soap.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I'd recommend powdered detergent instead. It's usually far cheaper per load since you aren't paying for them to ship you the water that's in the liquid detergent.

You also don't need to follow the 'load size' guidelines listed on the scoop, as only the bottom line or two is really adding anything to most loads.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago

Gen X here, I only use unscented dryer sheets because if I don't I will get shocked a lot. My apartment is great because the humidity is super low in the winter, but clothing hurts. Humidifier doesn't work because if I don't use distilled water everything gets a rust color on it. Also I'd be going through a gallon of distilled water a day. I can't afford that, but I sure as heck can afford a big box of unscented dryer sheets that solves my problem.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Fabric softener is sometime useful for very hard water. You don't have to buy it, though. You can use white vinegar to soften the water to actually soften the fabric mix in a big container one part white vinegar to one part sodium bicarbonate. Wait for it to stop foaming. Add four drops of essential oils per liter of mixture. Stir. Allow to rest a few hour before using. You can make big quantity ahead of time as long as your container is big enough for the big foam of the big batch.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (17 children)

how much is a cup in non freedom units?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (14 children)

Freedom units should be replaced with something like racist units or genocide units or orange units

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago

The freedom was always sarcastic

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

soon enough it will be nazi units

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

where the fuck are these people buying detergent that is 80x the ingredients they listed? isn't bar soap also industry made?

also I'm sorry maybe there's legit uses for it but whenever I hear someone say essential oil I assume they're knee deep in grlftland and have fucking crystals and shit all around the house.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Essential oils will not cure diseases or anything, but they are great for making things smell nice. I would give using these in a dryer ball a pass.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

So you just saw the words "essential oil" and quit reading? They're using it to make their laundry smell good, not cure cancer.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago (6 children)

This thread is so wild I swear. A bottle of softener costs 2 bucks and last you for so many washes (up to 100?). A bar of soap cost one buck, then you have to factor in the time to prepare the softener, the other ingredients and whatnot.

Where is the saving?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (7 children)

The saving is due to not using a useless softener - the point of this this thread

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

All ot does is make the fabric soft? Are yall wearing potatoes sacks?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Having softener does not soften fabric. It's basically just liquid perfume for your clothes. It also shortens the lifespan of your clothes by destroying them.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (4 children)

It does in fact soften fabric. I use it for blankets to keep them in that nice smooth state. Yes it increases ware but the enjoyment of the blankets is enhanced dramatically imo.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (15 children)

Borax gives me rashes, but I’ve used laundry bar soap or just the super sensitive skin liquid stuff. I use vinegar instead of name brand fabric softener because it’s cheaper and the other stuff gives me a rash. Nearly all of the store bought laundry stuff gives me rashes.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (5 children)

If you have a problem with limestone in your water you can use the cheapest vinegar you can find and add it to the washing machine to make your clothes smoother.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Vinegar is also great at getting smells out of stuff. It's excellent for animal smells. I use a little in each load of laundry because my fave hobby is doing stuff with horses and I also have a beagle with a natural hound stink. It gets out all the animal stank and a 2 gallon jug costs $3 at the local dollar store.

I also used the stuff to deep clean my carpets to help out a disabled cat I owned. He had trouble determining where the litter box was because he was blind and brain damaged and the person who was in my house before me didn't clean up after their cats. Most of the smell was gone, but just enough was there to confuse my boi.

10/10 recommend vinegar.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago (7 children)

Nobody's mentioend laundry detergent sheets yet? Super cheap. I buy the Poesie brand. 160 sheets in a box for $9.49. That's just under 6Β’ per load. For my two loads of laundry per week, a box lasts me a year and a half.

Bonus: the box takes up almost no space, 6" x 5" x 3".

Also, white vinegar is an awesome replacement for fabric softener!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

This feels like info that should be in the new Anarchist Cookbook.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Wool balls do not work with synthetics.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

It also makes the clothes extremely flammable.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago

Haven’t used it for years

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