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[–] [email protected] 130 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

I'm getting sick of the invasive questions

"Gender?

Sex at birth?

Are you trans?

Are you gay? Bi?

Ever been depressed?

Abuse alcohol? Drugs?

Ever been arrested?

Ever been in the military?

Well what about your spouse?

Ever work for the government?

That degree you mentioned, we can't ask your age but uh, when did you earn that bad boy, huh?"

NONE OF THIS HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE POSITION.

This is 100% occuring in the USA. Where I live and work.

[–] [email protected] 108 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Most of these questions are illegal in my country, thank fuck

[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 week ago (1 children)

thank fuck

No, thank the government and the people who voted.

[–] [email protected] 81 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No, thank the workers who literally died fighting for worker rights, which forced the government's hands in order to keep the peace.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 week ago

Died and often killed, don't forget that demonstrations are the compromise for a civil discourse. When not being treated civilly, it quickly becomes a mob and the lynching begins.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

If you're in the USA, these questions are legal to ask.

Some are illegal (when did you graduate), but is asked very often anyways. Often times marked as required on Workday Job applications.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

LOL my god, people in this thread just making shit up. It is absolutely legal in the US to ask for a graduation/attendance date on an app.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I am floored by the amount of blind "nuh uh that is not true you're lying."

Guys.

I'm not fucking lying.

Ass clowns.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Hell, any of this info is a quick search away.

"Nuh uh!"

Sigh, you feel me.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It may technically be legal to ask about postsecondary graduation, but asking for a high school graduation year is generally considered illegal, since that'll pretty much get you within a few years of the applicant's age. (I'm honestly unsure whether that's relevant though, since the first comment said "degree," which isn't what we call a high school diploma where I'm from.)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

OP is full of shit. See my response.

https://old.lemmy.world/comment/15656902

Those questions are begging for discrimination lawsuits. Despite being heavily involved in onboarding at two companies, I'm not sure which of those are legal to ask because no one asks.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Yes, they still ask them.

You're an idiot.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gender?

Present.

Sex at birth?

No, my first time was well over a decade later.

Are you trans?

Transtabular, from your position.

Are you gay? Bi?

I prefer professionalism to gaiety during interviews. This meeting isn't over yet.

Ever been depressed?

Not in the button sense, no.

Abuse alcohol? Drugs?

Neither physically nor emotionally. No, thank you, not now.

Ever been arrested?

Have you been?

Ever been in the military?

Even if I was, you're not getting veteran's benefits through me.

Well what about your spouse?

Even if they were, you're not getting veteran's benefits through them.

Ever work for the government?

Why, are you paying public service rates?

That degree you mentioned, we can’t ask your age but uh, when did you earn that bad boy, huh?

I think it was sometime around when I graduated from college.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bro, your answer is being filtered out by an algorithm, even before it gets the chance to be appreciated by some hr drone.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Oh, I assumed this was during an interview already. If a company sent me that shit prior to an interview I'd tell the headhunter to try again with a better company.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Where are you that has questions like these?

5 of those questions aren't asked in the US.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I am in the US.

Those questions are 100% asked.

Source: over 1000 job applications this year so far.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

i totally believe you...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That’s like 4 a day, every day including weekends. Where do you live where there are that many jobs available?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes that's about right. I do between 20 and 80 per day when I do applications.

The US.

Remote jobs are a thing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You're lying, plain and simple. Tell me with a straight fucking face you've been asked about sexual preferences or gender at birth.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Tell me with a straight fucking face you’ve been asked about sexual preferences or gender at birth.

Another American here and I can tell you that I've seen both these questions on interview forms. They each came with a "prefer not to specify" response, for all that's worth.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Aren't asked for now. I'm pretty sure in certain states will become mandatory...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

They are. I am in the US.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gender?

Sex at birth?

Are you trans?

Are you gay? Bi?

Ever been depressed?

Abuse alcohol? Drugs?

Ever been arrested?

Ever been in the military?

Well what about your spouse?

Ever work for the government?

That degree you mentioned, we can't ask your age but uh, when did you earn that bad boy, huh?

I'm just trying to get an egg loan! There's people in line behind me!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I’m getting scam calls about my extended egg warranty.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago

Right out of college, I went through an eight hour long hiring process complete with a proctored exam, three different interviews, a psychological screening, and a meeting with the CEO. All for an entry level position that paid $25k. By the end of the day, I was the only candidate left to be considered and they didn't give me an offer.

I got a call and a quick phone interview two days later from a small independent IT company that quoted me $30k on the spot. I said I was considering a second position and - over the phone - the guy raises it to $35k. Took the deal. Started a week later.

Two months after that, I got a postcard in the mail saying I was no longer being considered for the first job.

This was in 2006 and its only gotten worse since.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Almost none of that is asked on an application except the degree date. All of the above would be a fucking nightmare for HR. You really think employers are dumb enough to ask questions that could lead to discrimination lawsuits?!

After you are hired, the forms ask:

  • Gender and race (you forgot race!): Employers need this for mandatory Equal Employment Opportunity (EEO) reporting.
  • Alcohol and drugs: Only for a very few positions, government, security and the like. Perhaps you were filling out a Form 4473 to buy a gun and got confused?
  • Arrested and convicted of a crime: Imagine an employee getting raped and the employer having to say, "We had no idea!" I've been arrested shitloads of times, no convictions, no problem. Also, I'm betting you can say "no" for misdemeanor convictions, no one gives a shit unless the job requires a security clearance. And if you think standard hiring invades your privacy, oh boy.
  • Military: Various laws to protect vets require the employer to know this for benefits, accommodations, etc., same for spouse. Also an EEO thing.
  • Government work: Never seen this, but I imagine it's like any employer, "Ever worked for us before?"

You made some of that up out of thin air and didn't understand the rest. And here ya got 61 upvotes from people taking all that at face value. Be better.

SOURCE: Worked IT for an employment firm with 200 employers. Designed and posted hiring forms, hiring data and onboarding at two places. Learned more about hiring than I ever wanted to know.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

You really think employers are dumb enough to ask questions that could lead to discrimination lawsuits?!

Yes

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I made none of that up.

Ridiculous.

I'm not here to convince anyone; simply stating verifiable facts.

Not here to spoon feed you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I predicted this exact response. Should have put that in the post. It's a perfect copy of how conservatives react when given facts.

"Nuh uh. It's true. Do your research."

OK. Bet.

The laws enforced by EEOC prohibit an employer or other covered entity from using neutral employment policies and practices that have a disproportionately negative effect on applicants or employees of a particular race, color, religion, sex, including transgender status, sexual orientation, and pregnancy

How about the depression thing?

https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/guidance/depression-ptsd-other-mental-health-conditions-workplace-your-legal-rights

I can do this all day. Or would your rather compare our professional experiences involving HR, hiring and onboarding?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

In Fiscal Year 2022, the EEOC received 73,485 new discrimination charges, representing an almost 20% increase from the previous fiscal year. The agency also handled more than 475,000 calls—an 18% increase from FY 2021—and managed 32% more emails from the public than the previous year.

https://www.wenzelfenton.com/blog/2022/07/18/employment-discrimination-statistics-employees-need-to-know/

So I guess almost half a million people had no reason to call the EEOC that year, and none of these cases are hiring discrimination or anything. None at all. The experience you had at an employment firm, who's service is to perform this process, is completely identical to the hiring practices at every other company that may or may not engage a service to hire people.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Disabilities.

They allow for asking almost every one of the questions I mentioned.

You're obnoxious.

I am blocking you now. You're too dumb for words.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

You really think employers are dumb enough to ask questions that could lead to discrimination lawsuits?!

Yes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I've been asked all these questions in my job search in the last 6 months. The questions I imagine you're skeptical about like have you ever been depressed or abused drugs do come up often. Not in the initial application but in the required personality test.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What is the "correct" answer for the ever worked in the government/military ones?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The truth. Depending on the context they will either report how many military veterans they employ (so just tabulation that goes to a checkbox if they bid for a government contract), or it involves military benefits in some manner, which will quickly come back to haunt you if you 'lied' on application docs.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh, I assumed they were a discrimination thing. Gathering random information due to government requirements is very different.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Not necessarily requirements, but sometimes government contracts favor contractors that employ veterans, so it's more like the company is hoping to be able to use you on paper.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Bingo. Employers are required by law to obtain veteran status. EEO reporting comes to mind.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Ah fuck it, yes to everything! Yolo!