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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

i reserve it for closet fascists, morons, bots, and the incorrect.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

When content is low quality, posted to the wrong community (usually intentionally), trolls. Basically anything that I feel shouldn't exist. The content that I believe takes value from people's lives instead of adding it. If I find content that I dislike but believe adds value to other people, well that's what the block/ban features are for.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Usually it's a "you're an asshole" button.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I hear you, but I don't use it if I disagree with somebody, I use it if they're disingenuous or rude or disparaging towards other people. Because fuck them.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The downvote button is the disagree button

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

So's your face!

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

For me it's "this comment shouldn't exist" button. Sometimes it's because it makes the experience of reading worse, regardless of the content of the comment. Sometimes it's because the content is so bad.
But i don't just downvote something if I just disagree with it, it should be bad

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

These days, mostly for reddit mirror bots.

I dunno what people's obsession is with Lululemon, and I really don't care, but that fucking bot alone is like 5% of lemmy/all, these days.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago

Bad faith arguments or inflammatory nonsense. We can disagree and I'll upvote if you're actually speaking in good faith.

Pretty much any form of, "Whataboutism" gets downvoted. No one was talking about C, why are you acting indignant about C when people were discussing A and B, you know?

[–] [email protected] 86 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I downvote anything that I deem worsens the quality of the community. This includes, but is not limited to:

  • misinformation

  • trolls

  • bad faith engagement

  • uncalled for hostility and incivility

  • very lazy, low effort posts/comments

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's not a "disagree" button, but it is a "you're wrong" button. They could be wrong by trolling, spreading misinformation, spamming, being disingenuous, refusing to understand the topic or engage in good faith... None of those contribute to the conversation.

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[–] [email protected] 59 points 3 days ago (8 children)

It's a disagree button. That's how it's used in practice, and we're better off just accepting that.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago

This is a really nice situation where you can confidently say anyone downvoting you is a hypocrite.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago

Whatever I want.

I have no obligation to downvote consistently.

I do what I want!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

I disagree, so I downvoted you. Guess that's my answer.

[–] [email protected] 67 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Misinformation, bad attitudes, clichéd jokes

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago

"Disagree"/"its bad"/"eww"

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago

I mostly downvote bad faith, hostile or just generally angry/mean comments independent of whether I agree with them or not. Basically I'm using it against the people that are polluting the air here.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 3 days ago

Is incorrect or does not contribute to the topic of the thread

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

"This"

Not your post, but anything that's just an upvote in the form of a comment.

Also anything that's egregious misinformation or bad faith posting.

Or anything that's just spammy or bonkers crazy. I've blocked more people in my 1-ish year on Lemmy than I had in something like 10 years on Reddit...it definitely feels like Lemmy is the haven for Reddit refugees, including those who got banned for not really understanding how to engage in this type of space.

Also, any post that really doesn't fit the community. Like NoStupidQuestions posts that aren't questions or are really just AITA or DAE (social validation) posts in disguise.

I know that sounds like a lot, but for the most part, I don't vote on things. I upvote most posts that are cool/interesting enough to get me to go to the source or read through the comments, as well as any good comments. And pretty much any comment that engages in discussion with my own comments without being annoying or rude, lol

[–] [email protected] 36 points 3 days ago

misinformation and acting in bad faith, both of which have a funny habit of occuring at the same time

[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"This is so ignorant replying would be a waste of time."

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

To order a delicious sorbet.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

To add a little colour to my front page.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As the electronic version of [look of disapproval], the same way the upvote means [nodding while thinking yes yes]

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

All of these comments are like "down votes aren't dislikes, heres how i use them: list of things they dislike"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Silly OP, I don't even have a downvote button (idk if it's the instance I'm in but I don't particularly mind ngl)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

I don't have a downvote button but if I did I'd use it on misinformation. Things that are factually incorrect or unsubstantiated.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

For content that lowers the quality of the fediverse. Misinformation, reposts, bad faith actors, etc.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Racism and homo/transphobia, which are often disguised as (mis)information. I don't usually downvote people unless they're being outright hateful though and then sometimes I block them too.

Also downvote & report spam, which is actually pretty rare on lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 days ago

Unhelpful / unconstructive

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

I like to reserve it for special occasions. Comments that are very confidently wrong, needlessly edgy or rhethorically loaded. Anything that I don't want to dignify with a verbal response but where I still want to express my aversion. The exception are "funny downvotes" like mass downvoting the fourth person in a chain or stuff like that.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 days ago

Bad faith, low effort, hostility.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago

"I don't like this" button.
Which is often something I disagree with

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

I use it for

  1. Not relevant
  2. Needs editing for writing mistakes.
[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

"This does not contribute" button.

On a related topic, one thing I learned from the old Century Club days on reddit is the Courtesy Upvote.

If a thread is interesting enough that you commented, upvote it, upvote all the other comments.

If someone replies to you or one of your posts, upvote them too.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago

misinformation, slurs, incivility, off-topic content, and video links without text summaries

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago

Disagree with prejudice.

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