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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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I fully expect what the first reply to this might be.

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[–] [email protected] 75 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Everyone i know gives thumbs up

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Same, even my young kids if I ask them a yes/no question while they're eating to avoid talking with their mouth full.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 months ago

i use it a lot.. when im on the phone and someone pops in asking question only needing a positive response.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I feel like this is a you thing. I bet if you started doing it around people others would start doing it without realizing.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That might be true, or something local. I posted that this morning then got too busy to check in. I probably should have made it less about “positive/negative” and more about “it’s cool vs not cool” Here is my way too late OP explanation:

I go to a lot of sports events, hockey mostly. Since the 90s my friends and I play a little game. Count the people who give a #1 finger on the jumbotron vs point at their jersey vs thumbs up. Collectively, we have decided that ”kids today” don’t use thumbs up as much as in the past. I also noticed “Let’s go!” Is the cheer these days.

Sorry for oversimplifying my shower thought.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

All good. I made a similar extrapolation the other day about pudding not seeming as popular because I wasn't seeing people eating it or it advertised but after voicing my thoughts to a coworker I realized I'm probably just not anywhere near the target market. I'm not a sugar crazed child watching children's TV networks and nor do I have kids myself.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago

But people do. I use it all the time.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

OP, where do you live? I get thumbs up all the time. Sometimes as a greeting, sometimes as an encouragement (e.g. during a run), sometimes even as a means of communication in traffic.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Western Canada. I was thinking maybe it’s like a soda vs pop thing. Or just wildly isolated to my own experience. Just showerthinking.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

I give thumbs up all the time. Usually two of them at the same time with a forced smile to let people know I wanna turn into oncoming traffic every day.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I use it IRL and have used the emoji I think once. So egg on your face, you fucking rube! You've never been more wrong bucko!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm more of a finger guns kinda guy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

A real straight shooter.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

(sorry, not the first)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

The deaf guys at my warehouse exist lol

I should get better at ASL

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

That's very anecdotal, do you know any studies that investigate thumbs up prevalence IRL and online?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

My kid uses it very liberally.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

I do it constantly, also the 🤙 and the shocker depending on the vibes.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (6 children)

The thumbs up emoji is hated now and viewed as passive aggressive compliance.

So, I definitely thumbs up more often IRL.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

Maybe where you live, but not for me. Thumbs up emoji just means okay / will do / message received, in Colorado at least

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This is what my wife and kids have told me. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I use a thumbs up reaction as "I acknowledge I've read and understood this, but don't think you require a push notification" so I guess your mileage may vary

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

That's what I thought too, but I was told that's no longer the case.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What hare brained social group do you participate in?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

It’s definitely the way my ex wife uses it. So it just has a negative connotation to it for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Yeah I do, I just use the wrong thumb most times.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I give a thumbs up to tell my scuba buddy that its time to ascend

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Guess this should be on unpopular opinion since everyone in the comments is disputing OP

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Unpopular opinions are one of my specialties.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

What about fighting Sith lords?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

I used it three times this morning at the dentist because I couldn't talk. Also use it regularly at work to convey agreement. See others use it fairly often too.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm still using it as an "I got it" hand gesture; if i'm in the middle of some work and someone approaches me to tell me something while i'm busy.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

With my boss, I flip randomly from 👍 to 👌 to 🖕

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I love using thumbs up ironically. Like is someone trying to ask for an explanation to why i don't sit down to shit? 👍

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That's not an example of irony though?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (3 children)

*I love using thumbs up in a way that invokes absurdist situational irony by laying out an absurd situation that the other person expects an explanation for, but instead receives a friendly affirmation in the form of the thumbs up emoji, which exemplifies situational irony by subverting the other person's expectations of what the situation is actually about.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I use it on Skype. Not just video, but in chat as well

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