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[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

Panties. Paaaaanties.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 days ago (4 children)

When people call sex "breeding".

It sounds like some puritanical shit where they believe that sex is only for procreation.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

I uh... I'm not sure what your source is, but for mine 'breeding' is anything but "only for procreation"

E: in case it isn't painfully obvious, I am le gay, so that may factor into your source woes :p

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It kinda depends on context.

A gay guy? Hedonistic, in the best way.

An incel? Puritanical, in the worst way.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I'd say that is more about a kink than anything remotely religious

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I only use "breeding" to refer disparagingly to the actions of those who believe that having kids is mandatory or, at least, unavoidable.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

It is, maybe, something very particular as I am not familiar with that term used through "Puritanical thingy". Sorry, I am located in Europe and lack of knowledge about Puritans 😬 [ANSWER RECEIVED]

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

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Did you look them up? That's basically what most of the mainstream US churches are based off of.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

biweekly, bimonthly, etc.

Wtf does it mean? Twice a week? Every two weeks? Who knows. What's the point of this word when it's so ambiguous.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

In the UK we have the word "fortnight" for two weeks, which helps. I also found out very recently that "biannual" mean twice a year and "biennial" means every other year so, yeah, fuck knows.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

'Woke' when used as a perjorative.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm so fucking tired of the word "cringe" lately.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Can't pick just one so here're a couple.

"Crypto" used in the context of cryptocurrrencies. "AI", referring only to LLMs. "Research", referring to an indeterminate amount of reading up on the topic at hand, such as in the phrase "do your own research" that's being bandied around in some communities.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

"AI", referring only to LLMs.

Yeah, it's annoying because there are a lot of legit image recognition and pattern matching applications in my work field, and I need to ask for clarification every time someone says "AI".

Like, is this actually useful, or do you mean "we asked ChatGPT to generate you 20% nonsense"?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Feminism

Between the toxic terfs and the toxic trads i think the word has been sullied, maybe beyond recovery.

I beleive in equality and free expression for all, but I don't feel like that's a goal that aligns with most modern forms of Feminism.

It is a word that's supposed to mean eqality, but these days when someone identifies as a feminist my mind assumes they're gonna be a reactionary bigot.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I don't agree. I think it's still just as powerful a word even though people purposely try to weaken it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (2 children)

What could I call myself to show I am a feminist, but not that type of feminist.?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

I personally feel like anyone who's not a bigot IS by nature a feminist at least in a solidarity for the ENTIRE human race sense, but keep in mind, this is coming from my perspective as a male, so I might be missing something by virtue of it not regularly impacting me personally.

I'd love a less-abused word, personally.

As a guy, I don't think I'd WANT to call myself a feminist, lest I be incorrectly associated with the likes of Joss Whedon, Neil Gaiman, or a whole host of other clearly NON-feminists who hid behind the word to cover their actions.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I like woody sort of words. Bound, prudy, recidivist. Erogenous zone, loose woman... concubine! Errrogenous zooooone!

Funny thing, dear. All the naughty words sound woody.

E: It appears I have misread the question. But I'll leave my Monty Python reference here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

Well my dear there were only 6 words in that question.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

I dislike words with the nasal E sound, specifically meal. I don't know what but for the last three years I can't stand the word meal. "Oh I hope you had a good MEEEEEEEeeeeal"

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Slay because my 10 year uses it for everything. Slayalicious, slaytastic, slayme...

Nag. Just sounds harsh

Bungalow. Should be obvious.

People who shorten food names aren't doing English any favors...

'za (Pizza), taters, sgetti, nanners, gnosh (im hungry I need some gnosh gnosh)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Phonetically, 'za should be short for lasagne, and 'sa for pizza... or people can just say the damn words.

Whatever, I guess. Peeps gon' slang slang, for real, for real. 🤦‍♂️

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (9 children)

Trump.

I will never speak it again.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (3 children)

I've come to hate "Utilize." It has a decent purpose as "using to the fullest extent," or, "making do with something in a new context."

Instead, I just hear it as a replacement for "use" when someone wants to sound smart.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (7 children)

The F word that means "a bundle of sticks" used almost exclusively as a homophobic slur.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago

Ointment… it sounds so gross

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

"y'all" its so wierd how people normalized such a cringe word, and it was originally laughed at because people who often say it dont seem so intelligent.

also the words "academic incest" which is really wierd an cringe, it suppose to describe getting more than 1 degree, usually a grad and a UNDERGRAD In the same university.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

"literally" and "like"

...because it's literally used like every two words

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Cocktail… it sounds stupid as a word to describe an alcoholic drink. Maybe it’s because I’m not a drinker and I just don’t understand 🤷

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago (5 children)

Any misspoken words, said with full confidence that it is correct.

I left him know.

There's a woof in the backyard.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Irregardless, inflammable, idiom are all like nails on a chalkboard to me

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

“Mouthfeel.” Especially if it’s a food show.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I don’t hate it, but apparently they have done polls and often the top result is:

Moist

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago (3 children)

"Walkie-Talkie"

Its a "Handheld Transceiver" ffs, who the fuck gave it such a stupid name lmfao

Is a Telephone a "Chit-y-Chat-y"? A computer a "Beep-ie-Boop-ie"?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

And who would ever use a childish word like “movie”? It’s called a moving picture.

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