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[–] infinitevalence@discuss.online 44 points 4 months ago (1 children)

https://youtu.be/uAKMolRKphE?si=T7SS0saI_GFQtdrj

Derek Guy breaks it down some in this podcast. But it was a shift in the house of commons in England as it was working Man's clothing and was a way to signal you were with the people and not aristocracy.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 10 points 4 months ago

Boy did that work out.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 28 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Broadly, and without evidence:

Women in formal situations were decoration, another piece of fashion attached to a man.

Edit: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Male_Renunciation

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

I think this answer is on the right track but not the complete story. why don't men in the culture also use their own fashion to demonstrate their opulence? we have to look at not only why women but also why not men

[–] 418_im_a_teapot@sh.itjust.works 10 points 4 months ago

Men definitely use fashion to demonstrate opulence. The range of available styles is far more limited than what women get, but there’s still plenty of variation in that range to send social signals of one’s wealth. In fact it creates a more apples-to-apples point of comparison. I can’t personally look at two dresses and know which one costs more, but I can easily spot the expensive suit.

And don’t forget that sometimes casual clothing can be used as a status symbol too. In a conference room full of Armani suits, it’s not unheard of for the 26 year old at the head of the table wearing a hoodie and chucks to be the one calling the shots.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 1 points 4 months ago

So as not to distract from the pretty things.

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 23 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Beau Brummel's influence is the reason, though he would have detested the uniformity of it all.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beau_Brummell

A good Behind the Bastards on him: https://open.spotify.com/episode/00n2CANk00e5P2L0H348h1?si=1VhgCCRnQQueiPBFSfjJLg

Tap for spoilerpossibly the only non bastard to make it onto a non-Christmas episode

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Did they even agree he was a bastard? I vaguely remember this episode. I recall it being pretty tame.

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Tap for spoilerpossibly the only non bastard to make it onto a non-Christmas episode

[–] Caligvla@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Kind of. A bastard in the sense that he was a major influence to modern men's fashion and fast fashion as a whole, but otherwise he was really a victim of the system that sought a way out and unwittingly contributed to the very same system, not to mention that he was kind of a jerk.

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] linucs@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 months ago

Yeah I posted my question a few hours before that was posted, very cool!

[–] bamfic@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago
[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)
[–] dumples@midwest.social 3 points 4 months ago

Ah aristocratic English man. What haven't you made terrible

[–] cabillaud@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Fun fact:Charles II of England is considered to be the inventor of the three-pieces suit. At the time, French King Louis XIV ordered his footmen to adopt the vest as a way to debase the new English style.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

where the only acceptable style is jacket with pants?

Well, there's the Scottish, who can do a gussied-up kilt.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Highland_dress

Formal evening wear (white tie)

The traditional white-tie version of Highland dress consists of:

Men:

  • Formal kilt doublet in barathea or velvet. The regulation, Montrose, Sheriffmuir and Kenmore doublets are suitable in a variety of colours. Velvet is considered to be a more formal material. The Prince Charlie jacket (coatee) is considered to be less formal,[by whom?] although when introduced it was to be worn with a white lace jabot. Tartan jackets are also seen.

  • Waistcoat in white marcella, tartan (usually to match the kilt), red or the same material as the doublet. No waistcoat is worn with the Kenmore or Montrose doublets.

  • Kilt with formal kilt pin

  • White stiff-front shirt with wing collar and white, gold, or silver studs and cufflinks for the Regulation doublet, or a white formal shirt and optional lace cuffs for the Montrose, Sheriffmuir, and Kenmore doublets

  • White lace jabot. A black silk or a white marcella bow tie may be worn in place of the jabot with the regulation doublet (Highland wear often includes a black bow tie even at white-tie events).

  • Black formal shoes or black buckle brogues

  • Tartan or diced kilt hose

  • Silk garter flashes or garter ties

  • Silver-mounted sporran in fur, sealskin or hair with a silver chain belt

  • Black, silver-mounted and jeweled sgian-dubh

  • Highland bonnet (Balmoral or Glengarry) with crest badge (only worn outdoors)

  • Short belted plaid with silver plaid brooch (optional)

  • Scottish dirk (optional)

[–] Semjaza 5 points 4 months ago

I blame the gay panic of the 18th and 19th centuries.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (5 children)

"An Historical"

This makes my skin crawl. I imagine its what people who hate the word moist feel.

Did you know 3M stands for MOIST MOIST MOIST

Not sorry

[–] 418_im_a_teapot@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

We all have those words that drive us crazy. Mine is when people pronounce associate as asso-SHE-ate.

It’s petty. Like really, really petty. But for some reason it grates on my nerves.

Also there’s an Reddit, user named random_commas or something like that. They leave legitimately good comments but with a few, extra commas in places that really fuck up the flow while reading. It gets me every single, time! I get all frazzled until I notice, the username and realize i’ve been had. Respect to that, person for having such a harmlessly evil schtick.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Respect to that, person for having such a harmlessly evil schtick.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

That is wonderously harmful evil, thanks for sharing. Im slightly worried im going to start noticing that asso-she-ate pronoun-she-ation.

Time will tell!

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

In the UK it is not unusual to hear “an ‘istorical” rather than “a historical” so I can - possibly - see where they’re coming from here. UK first letter “h” is going like the French and Spanish version, I.e. silent.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I don't like how much sense that makes.

But i also am thankful for the framing of it that way cause i think it will stick in my head when I'm reading and be a salve to seeing it spelled out on a page so thanks... Jerk (in a friendly way)

Edit: spelling

[–] linucs@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Sorry man, english is not my first language so sometimes I make mistakes.

But I searched online and it seems that it's not totally wrong to use "an" in front of historical, especially in informal writing.

[–] Donebrach@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Don’t worry OP, you are actually correct in using “an historical.”

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Not according to my english teachers, but thats a different discussion and not why I responded

My english teachers taught it and enforcing it might be why, but it strikes a nerve when i hear it. Not sure why its just uncomfortable to process when i hear it (and i "hear" what im reading in my internal voice. As i understand it not everyone has an internal voice, similar to aphantasia)

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Another user pointed out a pronunciation that helps. Some accents pronounce the H in words more than others, "an 'istorical" does trigger whatever my brain does with the hard H after an.

Also Lacking the ability myself, I only have respect for people that speak more than one language.

Absolutely no need for an apology friend. Its very much a regional thing as well. But having this discussion im sure someone will learn something they didnt know about the world so in a way, we are by having this discussion helping people learn, and i think its good to learn even if its only useful to others witnessing this discussion

[–] francisfordpoopola@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Added another moist for emphasis.

Side note: humble brag...I speak and moderate periodically at conferences. My friends give me a list of 5 words to slide into my speech. Moist was one of them. That's the hardest word to just slip into (as it were) a presentation. I was successful.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

As someone who didn't grow up speaking English, I never got why people consider it so annoying as a word.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

I feel that is like me failing to understand why pinaeapple on pizza offends many people?

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Hows your project going these days, oh is moistly done now

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I welcome your punishment. It is well deserved