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[–] [email protected] 89 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I always find it weird when guys refer to girls as "females". I can't help but read it in a Ferengi voice.

"Females and finances don't mix. Rule of Acquisition 94."

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My favorite thing about that is that, in DS9, a female ferenghi goes on to be the most successful leader of their people ever.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Last i checked Rom was a male ferengi tho (I know you mean Ishta)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Meh, it's a thing in the military because female military members are segregated and have different uniforms.

A woman in the military isn't described as that, they're a "femal soldier/sailor/marine" and all their uniforms, regs, standards, and housing comes with that prefix.

Even tho "female" descriptor comes first it's to ingrain that above all else they're a service member.

It's about what the noun is.

It took a couple years till I stopped slipping, and I understand why a service member would use it. That shit gets so beat intto you that you really don't even notice it. So when you get let out into the civilian world, it's hard to break the habit. Those people would appreciate being called out that what they're doing is weird for civvies tho.

But yeah...

99% of the people using it are just fucking weird.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

"Female " isnt at all as bad as just... "female", the prior is a clarifying adjective, the latter is using it as a descriptive noun.

Like if I say "Female Officers suffer from above average sexual harassment" that statement isnt a big deal.

If I say "You are a beautiful female" to a woman though, it sounds disgusting.

I mean literally just compare these two basic statements.

"Go hand this package to that Female Officer over there" (This just distinguishes the Female Officer from the Male Officers probably standing near her)

vs

"Go hand this package to that Female over there" (this sounds like you are an alien visiting earth and talking to me)

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[–] [email protected] 77 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I think it's as weird and antisocial as the next guy to call women "females" but I also think it's weird that it's treated like not receiving approval from women is the worst possible thing that can happen to a man when implying that women need male approval is obviously sexist

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

idk, some incels will certainly act like not getting approval from women was the worst possible thing that could happen to them, and then go and do something much worse to others

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (3 children)

yeah but this post isn't about incels. posts like these shoot strays at all men

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

While I agree, it specifically says “those men,” so I think the idea is that men who see women as wombs or genes or whatever should also expect to be viewed with the same lens

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's not about that. It's their choice of insult. Saying "people who voted for Trump are retarded" doesn't make it not ableist just because you specified it's about Trump voters. Catch my drift?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Ah I see what you’re saying, yeah agreed. I think I too quickly read your comment, cheers

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (6 children)

That's how generalizations and language work. It's ALWAYS implied that it's not ALL of a group. Unless someone says "literally all men", and then whatever that person is saying is wrong because there's no way it's literally all.

So good news, is you're not like that, it's not about you.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

my entire point is that generalizations are harmful lmao

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

Not all generalisations

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

They're pretty much the only group I know of that uses female that way on purpose, but I suppose we could just throw in all misogynists and my comment would still apply

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I think you're not really getting what I'm saying. See my other comment:

It’s not about that. It’s their choice of insult. Saying “people who voted for Trump are retarded” doesn’t make it not ableist just because you specified it’s about Trump voters. Catch my drift?

Equating moral corruption to sexual undesirability is just stupid. It implies the inverse too, that sexually undesirable people are morally corrupt, which is actually a pretty huge problem in society. It also implies that men need validation from women which is just false.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Personally I think that using sexual desirability as a point of ridicule is pretty toxic regardless of who is doing it and it's not going to help to solve the problem, but "not receiving approval from women" kind of is the worst possible thing that can happen for a lot of them, at least in their minds. The whole "men and females" thing has its roots in incel culture and they're well known to obsess over the tiniest facets of their interactions with women to the point of nausea, looking for any excuse to condemn women for not being attracted to them. They see not receiving approval from women as the ultimate condemnation of not only women, but also themselves. It's why people use it as an insult - it's effective against them.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Agreed... but hear me out. Men usualy are more sex driven and usually (not every man of course but the majority let's say) will have sex with a random woman. Women on the other hand usually (AS IN NOT EVERY WOMAN) (I'm saying that so crazy people don't come after me with the "I'm not like that") need more conection. Women will go home and not have sex if no man was interesting enough to her and she won't feel bad, man will go home with the woman he thinks it's the ugliest (again USUALLY) if she is the only one that's up to it, because for men going home alone is defeat. If you rationalize that looks is not everything for women than a man that is rejected by every woman has a lame personality while woman that are rejected by men are usually based on looks.

So yes, in this (not general but commom) scenario a man that is unfuckable is an asshole and a woman may be an asshole or may just be fat

edit: is late and I don't have my glasses so sorry for some dumb english

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I don't really think things are actually the way you suppose they are. I think that's a cultural model that's been built up by media. It may have been true at one point but from what I can tell based on my experiences in real life, it seems to be more the inverse nowadays. All my male friends seem to be much more choosy with who they sleep with (preferring a real connection) while my female friends seem to be a lot more outgoing and likely to have sex without a connection. I'm talking about a sample size of about 20 people I've hung out with in the past year, but I'm also considering people I knew when I was highschool / college age.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Sounds ok to me (male).

"The male wakes up at 7am, so he can prepare for his office work; he's tired and being worn down, yet somehow remains resolute. In this way, he channels the spirit of the emperor penguin and endures."

Remember folks, the gender wars distract from the class wars we should all be engaged in!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (3 children)

For female it makes it sound like a Ferengi lol:

"HOOMON FEEEMALE?"

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago (10 children)

Some of these men call other men "males" as well. I used to call both genders by such "technical" terminology because I did not think it was offensive until a woman complained in a forum I frequented like 15 years ago.

TBH I feel annoyed that I can't use those terms because I know some guys use the term to intentionally dehumanize specifically women and I am not that sort of guy. But also I really tend to embrace neutral/technical/clinical language a lot because of a general disdain for romantic thinking and language.

Things are not more than what they are.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been referred to as a “male” or “man” or “cis gender male” and it doesn’t bother me one single bit. I generally just avoid people who get offended over every little “wrong” word

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Amen to this man. People get too tied up in little words and stupid shit. So many bigger fish to fry but you'll get upset when someone uses the word female in any context.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

thank god i don't rate my value as a human to if someone else considers me fuckable or not.

that is ick and ew no matter which gender

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Calling someone a "female" to their face certainly makes you unfuckable tho.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

If your native language is English and your intent is to be demeaning, sure

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The male looks in the mirror and realizes he'll die alone. He tries to distract himself with glass rectangles.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh, fuck off.

I'm not using my glass rectangle just to be reminded of that.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

I doubt any male would find this offensive. Call em males, they are afterall. If anything they will most likely play into the narration and make you say some absurd shit just for the lulz

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 months ago

Maybe because men weren't seen as second-class citizens and aren't used to being objectified, belittled or physically and legally forced into a submissive role.

I don't like leaving serious comments on a place like this, especially since you are right that's how most men would react, just felt I had to say something since calling women 'females' is actually quite seriously wrong (even though they are afterall) and the fact that men don't experience this behaviour as something scary it makes that clear. I like this meme because it empowers women to do as they please, and I think you do not mean to defend mysogonists who want to dehumanise women, but some people might read into your comment 'well the reason woman get upset by this is because women are [something negative], while men are [something positive]'.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

Women’s lib has a mere 50yrs on it and there’s still work to do. People lose sight of how new it is for women to own their own bank accounts and such.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"I doubt any male would find this offensive."

nobody said they would.

"Call em males, they are afterall. "

go ahead, next time you see ir are talking about a man or men , say "hey, male" or "males like to..." see how they respond to what has become a derogatory, sexualized term for a person in casual conversation.

the demeaning objectification is why insecure men say "female" and men are not addressed as "males".

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Sure? I'd do it all day. It wouldn't bother me on the giving or receiving end. it's a word with a definition and as long as it applies to the situation/male I'm speaking with it'll be business as usual. In fact, I'll use it to address every single male I encounter for the next 24 hours, in and out of work. That's how confident I am that nobody, that is male would bat an eye or care.

What about the term ladies..is that 'socially acceptable'. It's got sexual connotations like ladies of the night. Which is another way of sayings street whore. Should that be shunned too? Perhaps we should just abolish English or even language altogether for fear that someone gets offended.

I really do not understand these weird feelings people put on things, then expect the world to ensure they follow some rule of feelings. It's absurd.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Seems like this is one of those things that women think will make men uncomfortable, but really winds up making their day because men are so starved of positive connection that even a neutral commentary on their life is refreshing because that means someone is paying attention to them.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I only use the term 'females' in the context of ... some kind of discussion of medical or biological studies ... or to differentiate between a girlfriend and a platonic female friend...

But I am guilty of the whole open fridge and sigh thing.

However.

If I turned around and David Attenborough was physically present, narrating me... I think I would be overjoyed and just try to get him to watch a nature documentary with me.

Or even better, go outside and just continue to be amused at his narration of me, and see if I can't get him to a park or something and see if he switches over to narrating the ducks.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

I'm not a native speaker, but I think it's normal to request a "female nurse" but asking for a "woman nurse" sounds weird. But saying "I would like my nurse to be a woman" sounds normal again

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Use woman when you need a noun, use female when you need an adjective. It's that easy

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Or, only time, use it as a noun in a clinical/scientific sense when you literally are distinguishing "people who were born with ovaries", IE "Females have higher estrogen levels" or something like that, when you are literally talking about the physical sex, and not gender.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

The word "female" should not be a negative. What a weird anti-intellectual direction this world is taking.

Might as well ban the word "cloud" next.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The opinions of people who think that 4,000,000,000 “Men” constitute a valid stereotype don’t matter a lot to me

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